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writes:i don't know what i'm doing wrong in the dating game!i'm 19, and i can honestly say i've never had a proper boyfriend!on the plus size: i'm clever, fun, honest, caring with a good sense of humour.and my issues are: i'm a bit overweight (but i've started to sort this out and loose the weight).and i guess i lack a bit of confidence.i have friends that are not that goodlooking or confident and they are with boyfriends/girlfreinds that love them, so what am i doing wrong?i'm not that picky, i just want someone to share good times with :)When out clubbing with friends it seems like guys are interested, but only for sex, so how do i attract someone at college/work/everyday..?i'm not desperate but i do want to be more proactive rather than sitting back and waiting forever!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): you are right - at that age most men will be looking for sex (ok i lied about the age bit - most men are looking for sex. (note full stop)).
armymedic is exactly right - stop looking and you will find. Do other things - join other people with similar ideas and views e.g. if you like clay pigeon shooting join a club that does it. More likely to meet someone who also enjoys clay pigeon shooting and therefore can also have sex and clay pigeon shooting (not together that that would be daft).
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (7 March 2009):
 Have you tried joining any clubs that interest you, there are loads out there where you can meet like minded people.
Don't get too obsessed with going looking, I don't know why but it shows, if you just have a good time and get on with life you are much more likely to find some one.
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reader, kinkydude +, writes (7 March 2009):
Take your time, you're only 19. You have years ahead of you. Stick with your friends for the good times, Go to school- accomplish your dream or goal. Eventually, in the process of doing your life, you'll meet someone. I promise!
Most people you see who are on their own, are not ready to be with anyone for whatever reason. My theory is, if you have love in your heart, and want to share it with someone else, you will!!!!
So don't despair. You will not be alone, and you'll find someone, even if it takes time.
Take care
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