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writes:How to tell to my husband that I want to separate? We are together for 13 years and 2 years married. I really feel that I need to split, but I feel guilty about leaving him. Please, advise. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): Dont feel too bad since you should think of it more like you are releasing him to start a new life. The worse thing to do is to keep him in a love-less relationship with no prospect of you loving him again
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reader, neney  +, writes (7 March 2009):
Sweet heart,its hard to advice you on a matter as big as ths coz u hvnt given us the reason y u want 2 split
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reader, ButterflyKisses  +, writes (7 March 2009):
It's difficult to advise, since we know so little about your DH. Is he abusive, does he have a history with drugs and/or alcohol? Do you have children? These factors need to be taken into consideration when dealing with your DH.
Aside from those questions, I would develop a plan to becoming independent (i.e. Where are you going to live?, Are you financially stable without him?, etc.).
Prepare yourself for his response to this. Will he get angry? Plead with you to stay? Intimidate you with threats? Be ready with responses to these questions and actions.
Don't feel guilty. If you're not happy, then the marriage isn't fair to him, either.
Like I said, I need for information to better help you. I'm sorry you're going through this. Keep us posted and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): what you tell him, will depend on why you need to tell him - do you have more details why? how he feels ? etc. can then advise a lot more.
sorry
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