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writes:what all should a (Indian, family oriented) man see in a woman before saying yes to her proposal? Reply to this Question
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (7 March 2009):
 You say that you are Indian and family oriented. Are you talking about a woman proposing to you in an arranged marriage kind of situation?
If yes, then first you need to ask all the parties involved (your family members, particulalry if they have estates to look after). Then you can discuss with them if all those they are asking is acceptable to you. Then whe she proposes to you, ask her if is all those criteria, or if she can meet those criteria.
If no, you were not talking about an arranged marriage kind of thing, but you are free to choose whoever you want to marry, then it is up to what you really want, isn't it? What do you see down the road, 5-10-20-50 years from now? Only you can asnwer this question.
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reader, Ted-ster  +, writes (7 March 2009):
A man needs to see proudly and lovingly the (future) mother of his children before him; someone who can stand on her own two feet; that's independent, but choices to be with him; that's a good role model for daughters, and sons; someone who can laugh, and make you laugh; someone who shares your values, and has the same attitudes about finances, education, and child rearing. And big boobs.
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female
reader, jessica04 +, writes (7 March 2009):
 I am not Indian, but I am very family oriented. I like to see in my partner someone who is caring and patient, and who enjoys our family as one, and doesn't feel the need to split into groups. I also like to see that my partner wants to be active with our family.
I think that can apply to either man or woman :-)
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