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writes:one for the men... i (have been lead to) beleive that i am a fairly attractive woman and men get on with men really well, i'm currently single though :-( ,in a couple of months i am going to have to have a couple of operations to stabilise my knee after a car accident left it weak, i'll be in plaster and on crutches for a couple of months and then in a leg brace for a while longer, are men going to be put off me? i know it depends on the individual, but if it were you, would you be more hesitant Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): Thankyou so much guys, i really don't mean to sound superficial i guess its just been a bit of a knock to my confidence... 'starfish' thankyou for the giggle xx
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (7 March 2009):
 Absolutely not. You have been told that you are a fairly attractive woman, so you must be. Attractive. Not fairly. Just wonderfully attractive. Period. Brain and hearts are the two main sexual organs (if you can call "heart/mind" as an organ though) a person has. Put a smile on your face that lights up the room, and men will turn their heads in your direction!
Plaster and leg braces make the most interesting conversation opportunities! Particularly, when you have alll those signatures and notes that people put on your plaster.
And men who do not want to talk to because they think you are "damaged goods", well, you don't want them as your friends, do you?
Even if you find some men look uncomfortable around you when you are in your plaster or leg braces or crutches, there is still a possibility that it is not because they think you are damaged goods, but that they are just afraid if they asked you what happened it would bring bad memories to you. If you want to keep them at ease when you caught them looking confused or wondering or uncomfortable at your crutches or your plaster, just say - in a matter of fact way - "car accident". Smile. Just leave it at that.
You'll be fine. Hope the surgery goes well and you will be back as usual in no time!
Cat
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): i think it will put off all the time wasters and malingers who are chasing you for being a woman. i don't think it will put off someone who really wants you. Their interest is normally higher up. No not between the legs - i meant the heart and they will ignore the other broken bits.
Star.x.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (7 March 2009):
 No not at all, in fact it would make you really stand out from the crowd.
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