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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi their just wondering on peoples point of view on this.me and my bf are in a long distance relationship have been for 4 months now, we new each other before this..hes very kind caring reliable and loving..my trust is something very hard to gain because of past problems, but he feels hurt that if i dont give him my trust that its a bad sign to a relationship..he has a very flirtacious family friend all though he told me that he tells her off for it and the fact she has a bf..weve had one or two arguments nothing major but its all getting very depressing..we had a great sex life too till now. nothing i seem to do he cannot ejaculate, though he orgasms to a degree, i like to think im atleast good at something, but unless he really concentrates and two hours later it might happen, he tells me im amazing and what not but of course im a woman so my head is going into overdrive and im allready a little down due to everything going on..we have a little time together before he leaves and i want us to leave on happy note as it will be a while before we see each other again..is it his problem ? or is it mine?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): I don't understand having orgasms to a degree but not ejaculating. Guys either orgasm or not. There are no degrees.
I don't agree with the overuse of porn statement. How about acknowledging that guys have feelings and if there is distrust in the relationship that he might be focused on the bad vibes rather then the sex?
To try and answer your main question, it's your problem. Sorry. Your past problems are not his fault. He can try and be understanding but in the end it is you that must overcome those issues and learn to trust again. Sorry if that seems blunt.
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