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anonymous
writes:I've fallen for this guy.. again.We use to best friends, I can still recall on everything we ever did together, all the secrets we use to share. He was like family to me, I couldn't of asked for someone better in my life. Well this was all up until late June 08. Everything was fine and dandy until one night, we kissed. I'll assure sparks flew, and for the next few weeks, we were really lovey dovey, but we were not "official" just yet.Of course theres a catch, and I know you we're waiting for it. Well when he left on vacation for two weeks, considering it was summer and all. I met up with this guy at a party, I fell head over heels! Well not literally, It was actually just a crush but at the time, I thought I was inlove with this guy, he totally swooned me over! Well, I'll just come right out and say it, me and him had sex.It wasn't even a few days after that I realized I had made a huge mistake. Well word got out to this guy, and we didn't talk much for the whole summer. We didn't even talk about the whole, "had sex with another guy" deal. We just completely dropped eachother. I know how much I have hurt him, I have been hurting too. I could have had love, but instead I chose lust. I have cried, I've said sorry many times. I truly am sorry, whether you believe or not. Well lately me and him have started talking again, we are getting much closer and things are getting much better, and I want him all over again, I know that if I got a second chance I would not screw it up.So now, how do I convince him of that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): Simple. Wait till the next girl he meets screws him over then be there for him.
in all likelihood, that next girl may end up being the girl of his life, but maybe by then you'd be over it and accept your position as friends.
the easiest way to healing over his hurt is to focus on rebuilding the friendship again, not the whole relationship mish mash
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