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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:almost 19 year guy...started college...never had a girlfriend cuz i get really nervous and shy around them...i've been working on approaching people in general more and being more social...im getting an ok response...im not that great looking to be honest but i dress pretty nice, keep myself clean and all that...im havin a hard time crossing the friend barrier with girls. What i mean is I can now get girls to conversate with me and stuff and say hi in the hallways but nothing more than that...the biggest problem i have is i dont know how to keep a conversation going...sometimes i can start one but then i run out of things to talk about when an awkward silence comes up...i was wondering if some college girls could give me some tips on getting closer with girls...or just in general how to attrat girls...and not to be racist or anything i notice i have a harder time with white girls...dont know if that has anything to do with me beint tan (im from pakistan)
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reader, Talksense  +, writes (20 September 2008):
 Hey, i know how you feel. To attract girls you need to have something to attract them with. Be intelligent? If you are and you work hard women notice these things and you will attract women in that way. You need to find out what your strengths are and work on them women like Power. You need to focus on what will make you feel powerful, intelligence, driving a car etc all these things women like. Keep dressing well, it will stand you in good stead. It doesn't matter if you're not very good looking, you make women see you have potential in being a successful man and you will automatically attract women.
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