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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi!! i am going out with thhis girl z for about 1 month and we both like each other but when ether we are are youth club and we go of to be alone and have a walk and talk hug and snog. this lad who z has been out with before folows us and it is anoying. i have tried to talk to him but all he does say she is fit and how he wants to have sex and go out with her. we are both starting to get anoyed.plz plz help!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Maybe yall could hang out somewhere where this person isn't. How 'bout you start a home youth group at your house, and don't tell this guy where you live?
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reader, Dimithri  +, writes (7 March 2008):
 i think you guys better talk to some one who's in charge of this youth club. fine, you spoke to him but he still comes behind her, can't both of you'll try to talk to him about this issue? Or else talk to some one who's in charge of this youth club.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (7 March 2008):
 eh first of all dont listen to the anonymous poster!! telling someone you will beat them up is stupid, immature and potentially dangerous. has she said anything to him? maybe she should talk to him rather than you - she can give him closure and make him realise that she is with you and just doesnt like him in that way, and she should ask him to leave you two alone or she will have to do something about it. if the behaviour persists - i would consider telling someone that can help you. he may be harmless, or he may not be, so you dont want to confront him yourself. he is as young as you guys im presuming? so he is still going through puberty and is probably just feeling a little overwhelmed with the sexual feelings he has for your gf and doesnt really know how to handle them. i hope this helps hun, good luck and email me if you want xxx
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reader, Jmo +, writes (7 March 2008):
 This guy sounds like he might be potentially dangerous. If this keeps up I'd consider telling an adult or someone who runs your youth club that this is going on. This is borderline harassment that could turn into something worse. Has she confronted him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): im sorry,but u are a guy or not????!???if he doesn't listen to you,then do something about it!tell him you'll beat him if he continues,even if you won't.
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