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writes:I have been with my g/f for about 2 months but we really have been together for 7 just not officially.She does not show me any affection. I almost feel like she doesn't like me or anything. She tells me all the time that she does, but i have to bring it up in the first place. How do i handle this? When she is with her friends i practically do not exist. We see each other for like 2 hours a day most of the time sometimes longer she is better when we are together. But to get her to be with me i have to bring it up she never even says anything about it. I have brought up the whole love thing i don't think she loves me but i think i love her or maybe close i love being with her and think about her all the time. I get so sad when she ignores me can i get some advice on how to handle this matter? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 There are times when you can be together and there are times when she seeks the company of friends.
You should not monopolize her all the time.
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reader, Transcowboy +, writes (7 March 2008):
 Dude, i hate to say it, but i dont think she is into you, Why do you want to put time into a relationship that is one sided. Go find yourself a nice gal who will treat you well.
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reader, superbunny  +, writes (7 March 2008):
 If I were you: I WOULD DITCH HER. Straight up, sweetie. She's treating you like crap + you deserve so much better than that. The only way you'll sort this out is by talking to her.. But it doesn't seem like she feels the same way, I'm sorry to say + you don't deserve to be messed around at all. Best wishes. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): give her time and some space. don't go behind her or don't call her untill she gives you a ring. it's going to really hard.
you try and ignore her and see how she's reacting about it. i think this is one of the best ways to see if she really wants you or not.
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