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*ayla2007
writes:Hi i am a 20 year old and i am having problems with my boyfriend he thinks i am cheating on him with every man i know i use to live in a house where there were 3 guys living there we just rented a room and he always worked more then me and thats where it all started he thought i was sleeping around with all of them at one point or another...now we got our own apartment with my brother and some reason he still thinks it i just don't know what to do any more.i am so hurt and feel like i can't do anything right anymore i love him so much and i have hurt him once but we weren't together so i have never cheated on him and he feels like i am being distant from him and i keep telling him cause of all this stuff you think and he keeps saying if i show him i love him it will all stop but he hasn't when i try my hardest to let him know i love him and want to be with him for ever so please people give me some helpful advise i really need it soon Thanks!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 January 2008):
 Your b/f is an insecure person.He needs more reassurance from you. You should ask him to be more explicit by what he means ,'To show your love to him." You need to call him up often to show your care and concern for him.You need to spend more time with him . That is what he means to show your love ?
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 Ahh.. the Jeslous obcessive type. they're like a little bundle of joy.and by joy i mean control freaks.have you sat him down and simply asked why he thinks this, he clearly doesn't trust you. could mean he's been badly hurt in the past and just distrusts all women everywhere.seriously, relationships areabout communication. if you can't talk to the man you love so dearly then what the hell are you doing in a relationship with him?just sit down and talk it out with him. i don't wanna hear " oh he wont talk to me " or " he doesn't talk about his feelings" just do it.also this whiney pouty pitty thing of " i can't do anything right anymore.."Yeah you can stop the little miss damsel in distress act. grow some balls and talk to your man.
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