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writes:Ive been on holiday and just come back, but whilst i was on holiday i got very drunk and ended up sleeping with a man, even though im not gay. But i gave him my phone number and addess and everything.The thing is he wont leave me alone, he says if we dont hav sex again he will tell everyone wot we did.Wot should i do?
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (28 July 2007):
 Make it very clear to him that you will go to the police and seek an injunction against him for harrassment if he does not leave you alone. That should send him on his way...if he is sending you unwanted messages ring up BT and your mobile provider to have his number blocked. They can also send him a warning as there is a communications act here in the UK that makes nuisance calls unlawful. You cannot control him and if he wants to tell the whole world that you slept with him then he is free to do so. You could just laugh it off and make out he is not very well in the head department...frankly he doesn't sound too well if he wants repeat sex on those terms! Blackmailers get their kicks out of worrying you - if you don't worry about what he does then his power is lost.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): Tell him to bug off! Does he have any proof that you two slept together? Like pictures/video? If not, then it's his word against yours. Also, what he is doing is AGAINST THE LAW! It's called harrassment and you should tell him next time he calls and threatens you that you are going to call the police on him if he doesn't stop bothering you. Hope this helps. Let me know how it goes =)
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