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writes:I was with this commitment phobic guy for 7 months, we really hit it off, and there was talk of moving in together, he kept messing about saying he didn't know what he wanted. He didn't treat me too well and after a while, started making excuses not to come round. I finished it with him on numerous occasions but we always got back together. Well I finished it again 3 weeks ago, I left it 4 days then I contacted him, he said he hadn't contacted me because he thought it was cruel what he was doing to me and thought maybe it was for the best. Only he couldn't change the way he was, he had been that way for too long.He always said to me we would stay friends, but I text him a couple of times and he didn't reply. Do you think there is a possibilty he could change his mind and come back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): im going through the same thing, me and my partener had been together for 9months and he broke up with me because he dnt want commitment. i love him so much and i dnt want to let it go, and if you think you can make things work keep trying. just dnt talk about moving it etc just takes things slow if you want to be together forever you have all the time in the world to do that. xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (28 July 2007):
 7 months is quite early to talk about living together anyway? Not too sure if i would call that bing a commitment phobe. I cant imagine wanting to live with someone that quick.Hes probably just sick of the yo yo arguments. Getting back together, arguments etc etcYou're both better off moving on if after 7 months its at that stage.All he bestC xxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): Don't waste your time on this one. He's only in it for the sex and you are aware that he is a commitment phobe. You'll sleep with him, get all loved up only for him to back away hurting you even more. If a guy was really into you he would be doing all the chasing. You have split up on numerous occassions only to find that he remains the same, nothing that you can say or do will change him or the way that he feels. You can continue with this yo yo relationship but you will eventually lose all your hope and self esteem for a man who doesn't deserve you. For your own peace of mind and your emotional wellbeing, please kick this guy to the kerb. Find someone who is prepared to give you the love and commitment that you deserve.
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