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I have the 'hots' for her bf! How do I break them up?

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Question - (28 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I know its wrong but I have the ''Hot's'' for my friends boyfriend... What can I do to break them up???

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A female reader, Butterflyfly United Kingdom +, writes (28 July 2007):

Butterflyfly agony auntfriends are there to stay no matter the boyfriends/girlfriends.. this sounds like an ambitious whim.. are these the kind of things that make you tick? because in the long run you could end up quite lonely without many true friends ..

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A male reader, Uncle Trev United Kingdom +, writes (28 July 2007):

If this is how you treat your friends it will not be long before you do not have any left.

Try being happy for them instead of being so deceitful like this.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007):

Don't break them up. Move on instead. It wouldn't be fair if you made them break up just so you can get your claws into him. She's supposed to be your friend. After all, how would you feel if you had a boyfriend and your friend tried to break you two up so that she could have him?

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (28 July 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntI agree with the anon here.

She isnt your friend if you wanna break them up, thats just selfishs, just because you have the "hots" for him.

Move on find someone else as nothing good can come from breaking them up.

BF/GF are sometimes temporary, friend are usually for life!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007):

Well to be honest, if you really consider yourself to be a good friend, you wouldn't even consider breaking them up.

I think that you should move on and try and find a guy of your own.

It'll be better that way. You won't loose a friend and you might meet someone that ends up to be better than your friends boyfriend.

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