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writes: Should I apologize? My fiance went away for a few days and on a friday night i called him and he was at the bar at the hotel. i felt stupid for sitting home watching t.v. on a friday night so I said I was going to go out too by myself. I am new to this area in new york and he said i shouldn't go out by myself, blah blah blah. He wouldn't even give me directions to the bar. I wasn't there long and went home. He had called and left messages warning me to be careful. I was mad but called him anyway. he didn't answer so i turned my phone off. The next day he called and said i was being silly and that i needed to apologize for turning my phone off. I think he was just mad that i went out. He said I only went out because he did, but is that really the issue here? I apologized but feel like he always asks me to apologize for trivial things. Am I correct?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (29 July 2007):
 Hmmmm ive been in a similar situ before. Hes away with work, but he didnt like me going out with my friends. If he was genuinly worried about your safety, if you went out alone then thats a fair point. I dont know how safe NY is, i'm here in the Uk. But ive had the 'worry about you going out on your own' thing before & it did turn out to be the fact he would rather i didnt go out at all without him there!
You have every right to go out if, especially if hes away. Dont stay locked indoors. Thats a control issue.
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reader, Confessions Of A Broken Heart  +, writes (28 July 2007):
 Yu should'nt appolgise for turning your phone off..
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