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anonymous
writes:Is it ok to be a virgin the rest of your life until i die and not be with any body ? i am only in my 20's and since the time i was in my teens i decided not to be with anybody . this guy i know at my job says that i am crazy and then he said what are you a lesbian , which i am not lesbian i love men and i respect and like homosexuals . so am i crazy or right? my friends and family don't seem to mind .
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): you should definately do what you want. it is your life.Always do what makes you happy. That's what matters. but if you made that decision because of your surroundings (bad relationship experience in family, relatives or friends)then you might consider looking into therapy. if you, IT IS VERY OKAY TO BE A VIRGIN FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
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reader, puzzled  +, writes (10 August 2007):
 totally up to u chicken! dont mind work mates. your family and friends dont mind b/c they respect u 4 hu u are and not if u have sex or stay single. ur yung u might change yer mind jus keep an open thight on wat u want in life.
hope i help xxx
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (29 July 2007):
 It's up to you sweetie what you do with your life and your body. If you never want to have sex, ever then it's not crazy, it's perfectly normal for you.
Just ignore him and enjoy living your life the way you want to. Your feelings may change over the years to come, but they might not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): It is ok to be a virgin for the rest of your life and not be with anybody. After all it's your body and your choice.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (28 July 2007):
 If you were 100% ok about your own decision then you wouldn't mind what other people said. There are bound to be people out there who see your choice as being 'wrong' just because it is unusual. It is not just your choice here, it could be another type of difference that makes you stand out from the crowd.
At the end of the day, it doesn't matter what other people think as you are what matters at the end of the day. If you are happy with your choice then fine, go ahead. If you are not sure or just declaring this out of fear of having a committed relationship then you need to work through those issues in your own time.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (28 July 2007):
 Its completly up to you what you do with your life and your body. Dont listen to others and forge your own life path.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (28 July 2007):
 Would say exactly the same as what flower girl has said.
Just carry on being you, too many people 'need' to be with someone & theres no need for it. We can all function perfectly well on our own thankyou very much. I do.
C xxxxxxxxxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (28 July 2007):
 It's entirely up to you what you want to do with you're life babe, and you just have to ignore stupid comments like that from other people.
You are very young at the moment and you may well change you're mind in a few years, but if you don't then that's cool to as long as you are happy.
Take care.xxx.
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