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36-40,
*aithfully08
writes:wat if my bf told me dat im slut? and he said he doesnt want me to go back in the club. does it min he loves me and care for me??? i did everything he wants for me. but he cheated on me wid my frend...i love him so much. and im begging him to go back. but he reject me. im suffering so much pain ryt now. wat should i do? pls give me sum advice.
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (28 July 2007):
Nobody who genuinely loves you would treat you like this. Get out of the relationship, stay away and start to look elseware. Let your friend have him if that is what she wants - she deserves him.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (28 July 2007):
 Stay as far away from his as possible. You need to have some more self worth. He's a controlling manipulative nasty person. And your mate isnt much better. You have had 2 betrayals going on here and well done for still actually functioning because that's a lot to take on!But please, have some self respect, no woman or man should be called names like that and cheated on.He doesnt want you to go in clubs because he wants to keep you locked up safe basically but be able to treat you how he pleases.Its a bad way to be.Think of him being the loser here, as long as he treats people like that he wont be happy.Do what i did to someone that spent a year lying to me, i sat and typed out 3 pages of exactly how i felt. You dont even have to send it to them, i did, and they might not even bother reading it. But you can hold your head up high and say they are the ones with the screwed up head, and you wont have them dragging you into their gutter with them.Please stay strong. It will be miserable otherwise.Good luckC xxxxxxxxxxx
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