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writes:hello everyone i have another question. i sent in a question early about marriage and 3 kids. in respnose to the answer someone gave me. It is not the problem of having time alone we have babysitters it him. i have been thinking about this for at least a week and i have come down to asking myself do i really love him or is it the fact i am use to him. i don't know someone help me decide what i should do. Reply to this Question
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reader, quarky  +, writes (29 July 2007):
 To me, you have to look at what you actually have, and what you'd lose. And sometimes, once those questions are answered - honestly - it turns out there is actually still the love - just a different kind...
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reader, flower girl +, writes (28 July 2007):
 Have you tried telling him exactly how you feel?, is it worth suggesting marriage couselling.
Sometimes life just becomes so routine you start taking each other for granted and totally lose sight of each other all together which myself and my husband went through last year, he eventually turned to someone else, since this happened though we have really re-evaluated our whole relationship and we are back together and extremly happy, our biggest problem when we look back on it is that we stopped talking to each other and saying how we felt.
It might make the other person feel bad for a bit saying what you think but it opens eyes and makes you realise what you have and what you could lose.
Take care.xx.
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