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I have seen my 7 year old daughter masturbating, can she even have an orgasm at that age?

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Question - (11 July 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 17 September 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have seen my 7 year old daughter masturbating, I have not approached her about it, thinking that it is normal for her to explore herself. My question is, not trying to sound totally stupid, is she even able to orgasm at that age, and does she get "wet", I don't want her to be rubbing herself raw, due to no lubrication.

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A male reader, Bladejunkee United States +, writes (17 September 2008):

Bladejunkee agony auntSupposing she masturbates by "penetration" or a relative concept, you have nothing to worry about lubricant-wise, but if she just rubs her bare clitoris, you may have a good reason to purchase lubricants. After all, she's growing up and will masturbate, she could start her period as early as age 9, or as late as maybe 15. Once penetrated, she will start puberty more efficiently, and her relationships, and if for any reason, she has stress at her age, masturbation relievs stress, about 69% actually.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007):

idk. when i was a child and first started masturbating my mother and i used this as a bonding expirience. we still do and i'm 24 now! i know you think its wierd but its really a way to get to know your daughter better.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (12 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHi babe,

I remember at that age and below i used to do things, around the similar type and yes i have reached an orgasm. I didnt realy get wet, i dont remember properly but i didnt think i did.

I hope i helped .. =)

Mail me if you would like to talk x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007):

I'm in my thirties and I remember pretty well doing it at age 5 and beyond. Yes, I remember having orgasms. Yet they are a little different from that of a grown woman. And no, I'm pretty sure I didn't get wet at that age. That comes just when you are hitting puberty, months or years before your period.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007):

It's normal. I wouldn't recommend telling her it's bad but if you want her to not do it everywhere telling her that it's something people do in private instead and telling her it's okay to do in the bath or in bed or wherever she has her own space. You don't want to give her a complex about it or anything. There's no need to worry though, the kid's only doing it because it feels good so if she does anything that's uncomfortable she'll stop herself.

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A female reader, TaylorChu United States +, writes (12 July 2007):

TaylorChu agony auntYour question isnt stupid. It is totally valid so dont feel weird about that. Yes, even at that age she can experience orgasms. If you prefer that she doesnt touch herself you tell her that that isnt good behavior. I think many kids do it to fall asleep and because of the sensation. As for her producing lubrication, I don't know. I am not sure if that kicks in when she gets older or if it is already occuring. If you have a pediatrician talk to him or her about that.

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