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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex-boyfriend's current girlfriend contacted me yesterday through myspace. She asked me if her boyfriend (my ex) cheated on her with me (which he did, but in the 1st couple months). I have NO idea who she is, nor have I met her before, but she obviously knows who I am and looks at my page often. I just saw her picture because it's of the two of them. I haven't written back to her, but I want to yet I don't want to give her any details. I'm flattered she took the time to search for me because obviously he must talk about me, but I don't know what to say and I want it to be really good. Any ideas??
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007): You are an idiot. You obviously have absolutely no respect for other females, and are very insecure.
You have no reason to be flattered. He chose her OVER you. He only used you for sex...cuz guess who he is still with?
Don't even bother replying to her, and please, grow up. This looks like something a 7th grader would write.
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reader, whataboutme  +, writes (12 July 2007):
I had the same thing happen to me. By the girl my boyfriends cheated on me with!
She called me and asked (since she pressumed we had borken up when they got together) if he had ever cheated on me. So I said yes, plenty of times. She put the phone down.
She called a couple of weeks later and said he had cheated on her, she was in tears and so heart broken. I couldnt help but feel a bit happy.
I would tell her the truth. That he did but early on. And me being nocy I would ask why she is asking!
Good luck!
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reader, TaylorChu +, writes (12 July 2007):
 Just tell her the truth and let that be that. You have no connection to him now. She is probably seeing cheating tendencies in him now and wondering if her suspicions are right. Be cordial to her and tell the truth.
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