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He's leaving for the army; should I tell him my true feelings?

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Question - (11 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2007)
A female Guam age 30-35, *ngel of love writes:

hey everyone...i got a problem...i fell in love with one of my guy friends. we knew each other since i was a freshman and he was a sophmore. well he has graduated and is about to leave to the army. the problem is that i don't know if i should tell him at his party next week Saturday or just keep it to myself. i dont want to lose him, but at the same time i dont want to ruin our friendship...yet not telling him is killing me inside...heelllpppp!!!!! what should i do?

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A female reader, kit_e_kat United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2007):

kit_e_kat agony auntYou should tell him, you'll regret it forever if you don't. Whether he shares the same feelings or not tell him you don't want what you are saying to affect the relationship you already have but he is going to be gone along time probably and you felt that he should know.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHey babe, is the thing you need to tell him that you realy like him and want to be with him? I think you need to think what the outcome would be. Do you want to tell him, to see if he will not go away and stay with you, if you do tell him, and you get a kiss of him etc, and then he leaves it will be a lot worse to deal with it.. Yes i think you should tell him your feeling as you wont know what would happen if you did ( if he left without knowin ).. I hope i helped, Mail me if you would like to talk x x

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