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51-59,
anonymous
writes:A close relative of mine has a boyfriend that I had a sex relationship with before they got involved. He still comes on to me in front of her. Why does he do this? How do I know if it is bothering her and does this mean he is still interested in sex with me? I do not initiate it and I tell him to stop and she laughs. What should I do?
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (11 July 2007):
He may be trying to make her jealous. Maybe he thinks he’s a gift to womankind. He sounds a bit a of a sorry idiot to me. Avoid him when you can. If you have to see him because of family, then tell him to leave you alone. Don’t leave it till he does it again when everyone is embarrassed and he might choose to think you don’t really mean it. Look him in the eye and tell him that you find it unpleasant. If he tries to laugh it off, then you have to be a wee bit blunter about it. If he doesn’t get the message, I think Donna’s advice is good. Get your relative on your side.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007): Yes she knows about the relationship.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Hi there hun,
I know this must be awkward for you but if this makes you feel uncomfortable you need to be harsh and tell him you really don't like it and to have some respect for you and for your relative (his girlfriend)
Your relative probably laughs out of embarrassment if this does not resolve the problem then I suggest you take your relative to one side and explain that you have tried telling him to have some respect but it has not worked and what does she suggest as you really don't like the suggestive remarks he makes, whether he is joking or not
Hope this has helped you hun,
Good luck
Love Donna
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reader, love-him +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Does this other person know that you had a relationship with him? If it is getting to you the way he flirts, you need to talk to him, and tell him to back off, because he isnt being fair.. I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Stay away from them. He's just teasing you, if it bothers you then stay away.
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