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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I love her but she is going out with someone else, what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Okay, were both 16 and i love her and try to give her the signs but she is going out with someone else, what do i do? please help! Thanks!... (32 words)

Girlfriend wants a break after 4 years together, just as I move to her hometown to be with her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years (I'm 28, she's 22) and have had an excellent relationship with her. We have spent the last 6 months in different towns approx 300 miles apart. We spoke several times a day and I visited her several times in the last 6 months. Neither of ... (314 words)

I am miserable, help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

- Hoping that one of the wonderful agony aunts can give me a hand here. I had a short relationship with a guy last spring.We went out for dinner and he came on really strong in the restaurant no less. I resisted to a point and then we went to a certain point and then stopped. A ... (175 words)

Am I paranoid or am I right to be suspicious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I started our relationship nearly 10 years ago and we've been married for a year and a half. We split up for about 4 years in the middle of this because he started seeing a female colleague of his and like an idiot, I was the last person to know. This was at a ... (283 words)

Cant get over him....he doesn't even know how much I want him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi, i have a crush on this guy that i have known since i was 8. We were in the same school for 10 years until it finished. Now im working and hes finishing off in college. We would say hi/bye when we saw each other. The thing is that now im 18, and all thoughout this time hes ... (175 words)

He noticed sex was painful for me (it was my second time) and stopped. I started crying because it hurt me more than the physical pain. Am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Today was the second time I've had sex. The first time hurt quite badly but i got through it because i thought it would be better the next time. It still hurts though. When the guy i am with asked me if it was hurting me i was honest and told him that it was. I didn't think ... (125 words)

My parents are divorcing! Is it my fault because I'm such a handful?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ok,my mom and dad have been fighting for awhile and they are getting divorced after christmas.my dad isnt even gonna be with us for christmas hes just gunna stay home or go with his friends.i think itll be kinda weird without a dad.i feel like its my fault that they are ... (73 words)

What do I do about growing apart? Should I move on or work at what we have left?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 22 years old and have been with my bf for over 5 years, we have been living together for over 3 years. Everything has been amazing, but we have just grown apart. We have totally different interests in life right now, I have changed (grown as a person)... and it feels ... (170 words)

I hate my bf's loser, low class friends! How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. My problem is his low class friends. I am from a good family and so is he but his best friends are all the guys almost 30 years old with no life and no class and of course they are dating the girls from their own class. They do ... (488 words)

My brother has asked I not tell my parents that he is gay! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Basically I have suspected that my brother has been gay for years but he never answers questions on his personal life and showed many signs which suggested he was gay. I finally asked him yesterday and he confirmed this and said he had been in a relationship with another man ... (92 words)

He says he loves me but just doesn't want to date me..now he's dating another girl! .what's the deal here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Well i went out with this boy in January and we split up a month later.. then about 5 months later in July he told me he still loved me but he didnt want a relationship at the moment.. then about a month later he started going out with this girl and he's still with her now.. ... (84 words)

He likes me-he doesn't like me...I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - does he like me...? im confused first he tells a guy that he does like me then he says he doesnt't...and then i try to move on to another guy then he gets mad at me and jealous at the guy den he says rumours about mee to other people i suppose but he said they were false but i ... (164 words)

He's emailed many women saying he's bored with his current relationship. Is he being unfaithful or planning to? How do I confront him about this, as he will know I snooped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am worried that my boyfriend may have cheated or be planning on cheating on me. I have been with my fiance for nearly 5 years and we have just bought our first house together in october. I had noticed that he was sending totally innocent messages to some girls on a soci... (345 words)

What to do when you fall out of love with your wife and in love with someone else??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - here goes I'm a man I've been married for 11 yrs. and the problem is i'm seeing someone else right now and i believe i'm starting to fall in love with this women i have 2 kids and a house and am having serious considerations to ending my loveless marraige and being with the ... (88 words)

He cheated on me 4 times and I'n furious but I can't let go of him.. Advice needed!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Last night, I my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years confessed that he has cheated on me 4 times in the past. We have been in a long distance relationship for a good chunk of it because we are both very ambitious people. I travel a lot and he is in the service. I broke it off with him... (632 words)

I have an annoying little Sister--how should I deal with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I have a younger sister who is always getting on my nerves. She is always taking and using my stuff without asking first. This may not seem like much but after a while it does get on your nerves, especially if your parents don't do anything about it. She never gets told off or ... (121 words)

She hangs out with bad people! Should I just forget about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I've got a crush on this girl hu I've been talking to on msn for two years now simply cause am too shy to ever speak to her in person. her best mate used to be going out with my mate they broke and then started an on and off relationship I always thought she was coolest ... (221 words)

I have pretty big feelings for my guidance counselor. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay so i really like my guidance counselor, ALOT im 14 and he is somewhere in his thirties. i talk to him the most, and he as said before im his favorite. i find him so sexy, but no one else does. today he gave me a hug, which basically made my christmas=] he told me to visit ... (95 words)

I'd like to date my friend's ex, but my friend is short tempered so how should I approach her about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, I really like a guy, and I think that he likes me, although im not sure. I really want to tell him how i feel but unfortunatly he is my best friends ex. They had a messy break up earlier this year. and i know i would have to tell my best friend, but shes short temp... (109 words)

I needed time to figure out my future (studies especially), so he moved in with a new gf but wants me to wait for him and not date others meanwhile. Do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I was with my bf for almost two years in a long distance relationship....I needed some time to myself to try and sort things out in my life and plan a future and go off to uni...anyhow when i discussed it with my bo he was hurt, but understood..or atleast he said he ... (235 words)

He's older and in the cool group...do I stand a chance at dating him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, At the moment i really like a guy it the year above me! I'm in lower sixth(year 12) and hes in upper sixth(year 13) therefore we don't have any classes together. i just want to know what most people are thinking, and whether they think that i will have a chance with him.... (160 words)

He's black, I'm white and my parents are racist! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - A while ago a guy in my class started flirting with him. But cos guys at school never flirt with me a did not believe it and always took it as a joke. We have been chatting on a local chat site alot and have gotten to know him and start getting feelings for him. He has told... (167 words)

How can I overcome my self esteem issues and become more provocotive for my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a married woman and I have two kids. For the first several years of my relationship with my husband, our sex life was amazing. We always wanted eachother and we always experimented with different situations, positions and scenerios. I got pregnant early on in our ... (296 words)

Depressed before period...Is there help for this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey..this is a silly question really... Basicly about a week before my period is due until it comes on I feel REALLy depressed...Suicidal even sometimes..It gets so bad that I cant even go and and cant stop crying...I know its only hormones..But it really effects me..Does... (64 words)

How do I expel these awkward silences in my relationship, when we are talking on the phone, for example?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - What do I say to my boyfriend on the phone? We always have these awkward silences and I get really nervous about it. What do i say to him?... (31 words)

A female co-worker was not happy with my drunken behavior at the Xmas party! I apologized but she avoids me now..advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a happily married man 39yo. I was working with a really nice woman of similar age and we got on like a house on fire. There was a lot of relationship type hinting going on. Then came the X-Mas party. She ran up to me when i appeared and we had a ball. We laughed, joked, ... (299 words)

He's back with his ex gf. I wrote him a letter telling him my feelings but have had no reply...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 140 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I hate where I live and I want to get out of here. I feel all these emotions all at one time. I had a boyfriend and I left him because I still had feelings for my ex. But me and my ex just couldn't be together even if we wanted to. I thought that the only solution was to ... (121 words)

I date women but my boss asked me if I was gay? Now I'm really confused --help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I am a 21 year old male currently experiencing some confusion. Over the past year or two their have been rumours from other people about me being gay. At the moment I am pretty depressed and these rumours just make things worse. FOr a bit of background about my sexuali... (497 words)

There's a nice girl I like but I don't know what to say! Tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - There is a nice girl i like but i don't know what to say to her.I've had a crush on her for 2 years now please help me.... (28 words)

Help! How do I know if this guy really, really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - well i like this guy but i have a problem cuz i dont know if the guy likes me he annoys me in lessons and always pokes fun at me. he sits next to me in class and annoys me, the other day we signed up for a trip and he asked me if i was going then i said yes, and he said well ... (239 words)

Our threesome with the well-endowed black man has my wife craving more action-but without me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife offered to spice our sex life up by asking me to find a girl to join us, we posted on the internet and we had a great threesome with a younger girl, then my wife wanted to do the same with another man, I was a bit uneasy with it but went with it. She found a man online ... (138 words)

My bf's female friend is causing big problems for us...any advice on how to deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and he has never lied or hurt me but when he started a new job there was this girl who asked him to go out for a drink with him and he went as just friends, he said before he went this is wrong but then after he said he can go out ... (282 words)

I've been cautioned for assault and am terrified!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been cautioned for assault!!!!and I am terrified!! I need to add some background. I am 52 and my fiancee of 3 years is 46( we have been together for 3.5 years). WE have had problems before that I have sought advice on here about before. She has drink problems that she... (348 words)

My gf did something real stupid-she shoplifted and landed herself in jail! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have been in a great relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years now. She seemed to be so wonderfully different from every girl I have ever dated. She's beautiful, sweet, and, above all, a good person at heart. Tonight something happened that really has me thinking. Sh... (297 words)

My gf talks to her ex by phone several times a day and sees him on a weekly basis. She also maintains friendship with other ex'es. Is this acceptable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my girlfriend for about 8 months and we get along very well. We both love each other and talk about moving in together. I am experiencing some problems with my girlfriend and her friendships with her ex boyfriends. She has had three relationships in the ... (353 words)

My married bf has another gf with 2 kids! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have my boyfriend for three years, he's married but no children, for 3 years of relationship with him I'm happy and i can say that am willing to live with him for the rest of my life, i really love him but suddenly i found out that before we met he has a girlfriend and they ... (102 words)

My ex claims to still have feeling for me-but is seeking men on personal dating sites!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - how do i get over my ex who is telling me that she still has feelings for me /us but had slept with another man and has set herself up on at least three personnel sites looking for a LTR? and she tells me that she is not serious about the sites and that her friends did this for ... (114 words)

I know that bras and suspenders are sex for guys... but what can guys do for girls that are equally sexy??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - What do girls like..lik I kno a girl in a sex thong or booty shorts with a matching bra is sexy for any girl...but wat can I do 4 my girlfriend..and I'm not talking about a man thong or anything lol...wat do girls think is sexy that guys can do...what can guys do that girls ... (65 words)

We broke up but I still have dreams of how he cheated on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I broke up with my boyfriend in October when I found out he had cheated on me several times. Finally had the sense to break all contact with him two days ago. But I still have dreams where I see him cheating on me. N it's driving me crazy! Help!... (50 words)

Why would a man visit prostitutes when he's getting sex at home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - why would a fella visit prostitutes if the sex is good at home? would they go as our sex is predictable but good? how can lying on top of someone you dont know be exciting or good? i thought men only go to prostitutes when they cant have sex the way they want it??... (54 words)

I miss him sooo bad! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 144 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend has gone away for a month over christmas I miss him so much Even tho i have other things to do i cant get him outta my head He is the first thing I think about in the morning and the last at night and constantly in between i dont know what to do We text a few times ... (83 words)

Unresolved issues in our relationship--should I bring it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 143 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My relationship with the man i dated the last year seems to continue although the issues of the past haven't been definitely solved. However some things have been improved. Should i speak to him politely or should i show him that something keeps us apart and make him ... (76 words)

My Mother's dream is disturbing. What does it all mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I haven't talked to my crush for like 2 and 1/2 months.Well today my mom tells me that she had a nightmare.She told me that in her dream that my crush came to my house and that he wanted to talk to me but I wouldn't let him that I just kept on walking away.Then my mom tells me ... (142 words)

What should a marriage-minded couple prepare for? Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - So many things to think about before my time is up, and im only 17. Couple months ago my boyfriend popped up the question... I said yes because i am truely in love with him. So we're planning the wedding when I get done college in about 2 more years. the problem is that ... (138 words)

His affair has really messed me up inside...I need help on how to cope?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I know everyone means well, but everyone is making me feel like crap....My husband had an affair the 2months that he was doing this on the net and off, he became distant from me I dont believe it was the bad sex or because he felt bad for the mistress, come on now, it isnt ... (390 words)

I need to feel like I can have a civil discussion with my boyfriend but he is always interrupting me - even when I want to add something in his favour!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I love my boyfriend of a year and 3 months, but he talks over me! This really bothers me because I feel it is a respect issue; that he does not care to listen to what I have to say. My boyfriend will go off on some sort of soap-box speech, where everyone has to listen to him. ... (281 words)

More ideas for Christmas presents to a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - It's only a few days away from Christmas and I still have no idea what to get my boyfriend. He's into skateboarding, but he's also sort of preppy. not really preppy, but he cares what he looks like and all that. Please give me some ideas! kthnx.... (49 words)

My gf hates me leaving so much that she can't even sleep at night when I'm away, while I'm an independent person who likes to travel. What solution can you see for us?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a pretty indapendant person and like to travel and visit friends and family fairly often. The problem is my girlfriend of 10 months hates me leaving so much that she can't even sleep at night when I'm not there. I phone her a few times most days, text and talk online a lot ... (104 words)

Can he behave in the manner he did towards me and not be emotionally involved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with a man I have been seeing for 10 months on Sunday because he said he wanted to firmly define our relationship as physical only. He says he is not emotionally involved. I love him. So, I broke up with him. I don't believe that he was not emotionally invo... (564 words)

My long distance bf is lately ignoring me on account of misunderstandings. I don't want to lose him, so how do I proceed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i had a long distance boyfriend and we're really in love with each other but lately we had misunderstandings. he started not talking to me for a week and i feel so bad about it. i keep sending emails but he dont answer me back. i dont know what to do. i dont want to lose him ... (82 words)

I love my husband but there are lies and unreciprocation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband of 3 years tells lies. I work and travel alot and I discovered that when I am out of town he watches porn. I found hookup sites that he forgot to clear and approached him, he denied. then his hotmail password was changed-well it all came out and he admits finally ... (541 words)

One of the reasons we always fought was because of money and our separate contribution to the daily matters. He is contacting me after the break up, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - I broke up with my ex over a stupid argument-I calmly asked if he could stop using my shampoo and shower stuff and if he could buy his own-he flipped out and yelled at me saying that then I should help pay the bills or get out of his house. We had only been living in his hous... (410 words)

Your most memorable sex experience?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey I have never really had good sex stories, and I was wondering what was your most memorable sex experience? I need sex stories to get "in the mood", and right now I have none! Please help me and my boyfriend... (42 words)

I had brief intercourse with a stripper during a lap dance... should I tell my wife?

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m felling real guilty about what happened to me at a strip bar. I’m a happily married man, ten years married with two kids. I go to strip bars, my wife lets me and its never been an issue. She goes out with her friends too, and admittedly been to male strip bars a few ... (426 words)

I have massive regrets for breaking up with my bf...I miss him! Advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear cupid,my problem is i broke up with my boyfriend last friday,then after 2 days and more i have regrets i just realize that i love him, cried all night and missed him so much,i want him back,please help me... [Added from the same user] Dear cupid,i always longing that he ... (70 words)

I told my best friend she hurt my feelings when she mentioned her love and even forbade them to kiss in front of me. Now I feel guilty for all that happened and need advice about how to react in the future.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm a 21 year old guy in a 3 way relationship gone from bad to hell. I have had trouble with friends in the past..who betrayed me..or just used me..things like that, so i never wanted many friends just a few good ones. That's how things were a year ago when i went to study at a ... (1248 words)

Taking care of my wife's mental and physical problems, I needed a holiday. During the travel I fell in love with a woman, but I don't agree with affairs. Confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

21 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relatinship for 18 years, for most of which I have been looking after my partner for both mental and sever physical illness. Although she is now semi recovered I am very tired both physcally and emotionally. We also have a two year old son who I love dear... (208 words)