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We've been going together 5 months and he hasn't tried to kiss me yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend in 8th garde and I am in 7th grade. We really like each other and we have been going out for 5 months, but we have not kissed. WE were watching tv and when he had to leave I asked him to stay for 2 mintues. I just don't know if I should approach him. What if ... (90 words

Love and righteousness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old and I went on a vacation with a friend and her family last summer. I met some of her families friends and there was this guy, he was pretty cute for an older guy, and my friends family had been friends with him for 7 years. Me and my friend would go out every ... (516 words

Will my bust shrink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Im 15 and developed early and have quite a bug bust, I'm 5'3 and 9st 3lb. If I eat less than I usually do which I am starting to and exercised more do you think they will shrink?(my breasts) If not I'm thinking of not eating at all or trying to get breast reduction a... (79 words

The Wedding Night...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am an indian girl. My family is talking about getting me married, but I am worried. I haven't really talked to anybody, but I wanted to know something. On the first night after the wedding takes place do we you know ... have sex? I mean I know we are supposed to use condoms, ... (152 words

My mother is too overprotective with me... Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Help me, my mother is too over protective, I am worried as I am now 16 and live on an island and would like to move away after I finish school when I'm 18 but my mother won't let me. I am scared of her and she smacks me yeah but I cower in fear somtimes and just don't know ... (106 words

Am I being played here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - wot am i doing... I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. It's been a roller coaster. I found out a month into that he was secretly getting back with his ex whilst seeing me.(I forgave him) then a month after that he ended everything with me, because he said ... (254 words

Am I or aren't I???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend twice in one day. Both times he ejaculated in me. I started spotting 3 days later, which I'm due to start my period. Is there a good chance that I am pregnant? It's too soon to take a test....... (46 words

How can I tell Greg how I really feel about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5960 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have this friend named greg* well greg and we have known each other for about 2 years now but he has always viewed me as a sister-type and he thinks I view him as a brother-type, but really my heart has been breaking everytime I am around him because I love him but I can't ... (155 words

Have any of you out there ever just wanted to make your girlfriend cry just to make her feel better???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5961 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Have any of you out there ever just wanted to make your girlfriend cry just to make her feel better. I know that sounds so cruel but I don't mean do it to upset her just because she generally seems down but holds it back. Well my girlfriend is like this, she says she doesn't ... (192 words

Do you think this is really the end??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - please help I just split with my boyfriend. Met him earlier after a week of not seeing each other due to my college exams. He barely said a word to me. He is genuinely sick all day from a hangover. He just didn't care whether he saw me or not. I wonder did he even miss me all w... (166 words

My girlfriend's immature and I live far away...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i have been texting each other on and off for 3 months since we split up. she started going to parties every night and because I live far away and I can't drive yet, it got to me that I can't be with her. Since she started getting drunk with her mates ... (172 words

We are back together but he still can't believe I did nothing with this other guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend can't let go..about a year ago i knew a guy and we were talkin but just as friends i knew this guy from school and i told my boyfriend about him then he heared from a friend that im cheating on him with this guy though i never did this and we broke-up Now we`re ba... (176 words

Can this relationship be saved??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - My ex and I have been together for 6 years and we have a child together. We seperated on several occasions but always get back together. The dynamics have changed since the last 2 breakups because we slept with other people and we realized that we did that because we seek ... (148 words

Any advice on how to make this evening real special??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok, the guy i like is back from uni in one week and we intend to spend Saturday evening together -he's coming home on Saturday so hes gonna be tired- what can i do to make the evening special as i want to make a move (he likes me back so this isn't a problem). Hes suggested a ... (81 words

My boyfriend drinks too much due to friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - please help im not sure what to do. ive started going out with this guy who i really enjoy being with. he sez hes never felt this way about someone before and he thinks he loves me.we grew really close as friends. well my problem is that i have serious issues with alcohol ... (800 words

Looking for reconcilliation with my best ladyfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age - I fell out with my best “lady- friend” 3 years ago. She was separating from her husband (my best friend too) and because I did not want to take side, my silence in her eyes damned me. She accused me of something unbearable and I, in a flux of anger walked out. Few months back I ... (216 words

My bf wants me to have sex with him next weekend...please help asap.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am 12 years old and my boyfriend is 15. He told me the other night he wanted to have sex. I was playing around and said yeah ok then he was like do i need to bring condoms. I was like yeah then we didnt do it but still he wants to next weekend. What should i do? help me ... (62 words

Are there a lot of people with braces at University?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm 17 and going to be 18 in may and i just got braces. im worried about having these in university. are there a lot of people with braces in uni?... (31 words

What should I do about liking my friend as I feel really shy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 13 years old and there's a girl i'm really in love with but i don't know if she feels the same way about me and i've tried getting advice and its all stuff like just ask her out and see if she says yes and all that but i am a really shy guy and i sometimes get so nervo... (101 words

Met up with an ex and it made me feel so complete...but we are both in relationships and my heart is heavy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - My heart is so heavy, I just got back in touch with a girl I dated over 10 years ago (I split up, was a fairly casual relationship, no sex), we met up and had a nice night talking and drinking, nothing more, and at the end of it held each other and at that point I just felt we ... (157 words

Condoms really hurt me, is this normal??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My problem is that when me and my boyfriend use condoms, they really hurt me. Extra fine ones don't seem to, but I'm worried about them ripping or something. Please tell me: 1. If this is normal 2. If it's happened to you 3. The reason for it 4. Any ways to help Thankyou so mu... (59 words

I can't stop thinking about my gf's past.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - HI all, Since my gf started to tell me bits and pieces oh her past, i couldnt let my mind not think about it... I'm a guy who is not very lucky with women, im very choosy and always never wanted to settle for a normal girl..., but i slept with 2 girls which i didnt like. I'm... (490 words

Am I rushing into sex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have only known my boyfriend for two months,and we only got together a month ago. I am a virgin but he's not. I really love him,and i would have sex with him if he asked me. Am i rushing into things?... (43 words

Should I back out??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend decided to go back to his ex as they have a child, but his ex doesn't want him back do I ask him back out or do I leave it? ... (32 words

He is my perfect man...except his penis is too small...should I overlook this??

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - I dated John while I was in college about 10 years ago. He was gorgeous, intelligent, creative, ambitious.... everything you could ask for. The only problem was the size of his penis. Everything leading up to sex was mind blowing,but I was always left wanting more. The ... (196 words

What is my ex's game??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I am feeling rather low today. Basically my story is this. I met my ex almost 2 years ago now, we chatted and got to know each other then dated for a few months and I fell absolutely head over heels for him within a few weeks, especially when he told me he loved me after... (379 words

Not sure where I stand after drunken sex with one of my friends/crush.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Recently, when I was drunk, I had 'sex' with one of my friends that I really liked. I was a virgin before this and so it was so painful for me that we stopped relatively quickly. I guess though that in the short time my hymen ripped because there was some blood on the sheets, ... (216 words

How can I tell my wife I like to wear womens clothes??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age - I like to wear womens clothes, especially underwear, how do I tell my wife?... (14 words

My guy never tells me he loves me and misses me and I feel like he doesn't like me anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey! Basically i like this guy and weve been out twice. I see him everyday and hes reallt nice etc. The only thing is that: my friend likes this guy but they're not as close as me and my guy are but they still tell each other how much they like each other. Last night she... (136 words

Sometimes I cry for almost no reason. Help please.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey! help really needed. sometimes i just cry almost for no reason. sometimes there are reasons but it feels like everything is piled up on me and i just cry. Please help. whats wrong with me? lol ellie xxx... (47 words

We can't communicate because she's scared I will get mad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - My gf and i are having communication issues and it's because shes told me things and ive gotten mad. It's because she tells me way after it happens and she gets afraid because she has an abusive father and stepfather so she is afraid to make me mad but she tells me she trus... (61 words

We hang out but he hasn't asked me out...is he just not that into me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, He seems interested but im not sure. we spend time together but he has never asked me out. Does this mean that he's just not that into me? Or could it be something else?... (37 words

Should I surprise him as his birthday is approaching, if he didn't buy me a birthday present in his turn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi me and my boyfriend have been together for 7months now..It was my birthday in september and he never got me anything or even met up with me...Its nearly his birthday and i dont know what to get him or if i should get im anything.... (47 words

We were happy about her pregnancy and she told me she loved me. Next day it was over without explanations. Why??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I'm finding it hard to get over my ex. I'll keep it short and to the point. We had been together for 9 months. She is 24 and I am 30. We met last Christmas while away with our families and it was love at first sight....I totally fell for her and she did for me. We f... (578 words

How do I know if my house mate needs professional help to get over her breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - How do I know if my house mate needs professional help to get over her breakup? I live with a couple that broke up over the summer after we signed a lease. Where all in college. At the beginning of the school year she acted as if her and her ex (my other house mate) wher... (304 words

Problems about the wedding night...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm Muslim. You know muslims girls are very shy about sexual things so I can't ask anybody about sex. I'm 23 years old. I'm going to get married in January 2008. I'm virgin and my fiance is as well. I love my fiance but I'm a shy girl. I didn't know about the first ... (145 words

Low Self esteem, can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi there. At the moment; I feel really depressed and demoted. I just don't like my body or my face or anything about me. My confidence is an absolute zero and I don't flirt with boys; I just tend to talk to them. I'm 13 and everyone else talks about their amazing love... (163 words

Myself, my wife and her sister

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age - My wife wants her sister to sleep with us , she said she would love me to make love with her.... we have always been close with each other.... (29 words

Why has my ex got back in touch? Is it for revenge?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am 25 years old and in a happy relationship. Recently my first love has got in touch via friends and we have begun chatting....nothing unusual in that and I definitely don't have any feelings for him, and I have let my current boyfriend know so he doesn't feel left out. ... (136 words

I am deeply sexually so not satisfied...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - At some point into our relationship, he lost interest in me = sex. We talked and talked. Now he wants to get it (desire) back because he wants to have babies with me down the road and he loves me and he spent money on me. We spend quality time together but when time comes to ... (133 words

I get teased at school for being clever and talking properly.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - I get teased at school for being clever and talking properly, and I didn't really mind until this girl started blanking me and making rude and snide comments on my answers in class, I go to a state grammar shcool but used to go to a fee-paying shcool for "posh, rich people" as ... (274 words

I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I am 28 year old virgin, male, from the UK. I have never had any sexual experience with the opposite sex- no girlfriends or sexual relationships. Despite my age, I am a mature student, at University. Is there anything morally wrong with dating a younger female aged 20 o... (385 words

Will this cause me problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 26-29 - I am a 13 year old boy and after I masturbate I squeeze/push my shaft to get rid of remaining sperm. I'm worried that it will cause problems?? Please help.... (31 words

We keep arguing all the time, is our relationship wearing thin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years and we have started to argue a lot.I think I am getting bored of him and am attracted to other guys wot should i do??... (35 words

Is it ok to be tall??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I'm quite young but really mature for my age, and the thing is that I'm so bloomin tall, and I have a real problem with it because I'm getting another growth spurt and I'm already way taller than my mates, and it seems that the boys in my year are kind of against me becau... (125 words

Had unprotected sex 9 days ago, my period was due 6 days ago. Is it too soon for a pregnancy test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - 9 days ago I had unprotected sex...(ther only time i'm ever had unprotected before)..my period was due 6 days ago...it STILL hasnt come on...I'm really worried as i've never been late before. I want to take a test on monday but will it be soo soon since it would of only been ... (67 words

I really like my friend but am worried my sexual inexperience will ruin it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I think i'm starting to fall for my (guy)friend. We've been friends for a year maybe but we just started to get a lot closer in the last few months, and we spend a lot of time together just the two of us (as opposed to with our group of friends there too). I really like him... (135 words

I am being blackmailed by a one night stand who has stolen my phone and threatening to reveal I am gay. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age - I am at wits end..i had my phone stolen by someone with whom i had sex..he threatened to take my photos, stored phone numbers,etc. and expose me to others as being gay.. He asked for money in return for the phone and information..i gave him what he asked for..now, i fear tha... (109 words

I feel I am too old for Christmas and the traditional celebration!...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am 14 years old and in year 10 (in america 9 grade) for some reason i feel like i am too old for christmas e.g getting up early playing with presents and all the great things about christmas i love this time of year usally why do i feel too old? [Added] is 14 too old ... (70 words

My gf will only watch girl on girl porn, does this mean shes bi??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age - My girlfriend and i watch porn about once every three months, however she will only watch all girl on girl she gets very hot horny and we have the best sex so im not complaning. Does this mean shes bi? She said shes not. ... (44 words

I just want to be able to stop being so jealous and be able to trust.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi I have a problem with trust and i don't know why. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for around 17 to 18 months now and I still don't trust him or any other bloke. I honestly don't beleive he has been unfaithful and I have never been cheated on or have cheated ... (156 words

I think she fancies me...but I don't feel any physical attraction.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (M - I have a problem. There's a christmas party/formal in about 2 weeks and this girl invited me to come with her and some friends. I know it seems harmless, but I think she might fancy me, she's always talking to me on messenger, and last night my friends were winding me up sayin... (116 words

Is there anything I can do to stop me needing the toilet so often??

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi, ive suffered with this problem for about 6 years. I always used to be able to go about 7 hours without needing to go to the toilet but one day i couldn't stop going to the toilet for a pee nd it was like every 20-40minutes. Now then i was only 11 but since then i have alw... (424 words

We had a snatched moment of lust...but now I have fallen in love with her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - A girl at work (married and devoted to her family as am I)who has never strayed and myself started getting along very well having worked together for a few years. The result was a grabbed hour of lust that did not go all the way but came very close and would have done had we ... (200 words

Am I wrong not to trust him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - One of my best friends fancies my man, they flirt with each other and he's taken her out for a drink but doesn't tell me anything. Am i wrong not to trust him? We have been together for 5years now and he has shown no sign of committing soon. I have read saucy texts on his phon... (87 words

Do I stand a chance with this girl??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - I have met a beautiful Asian women at work, and i have been lucky enough to have been out on one date with her. Two weeks after the date she let me have her phone number, i called her a week later to say that i'd like to build up a nice relationship with her, but she wasn't ... (152 words

Why wont he get the tatoo of his ex's name removed??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my partner for almost three years now. We are about to buy our first house together. However, he still has his ex partner's name tattooed on his arm. I know they did not split up amicably and wonder why he doesn't get rid of it. I told him that... (124 words

Has Christmas become too commercialised? Have we lost its real meaning?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hia cupid has christmas become to commersialised? have we lost the real meaning of christmas?? ... (22 words

I can respect her vow of post-marital intercourse but I have my sexual needs/desires! I love her, but it's frustrating that she won't touch me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Im a 24 year old American male who has only been touched and had sex with one girl when I was 17. Over the past 7 years I have been desperate for intimacy and sex with only failed results. I did however meet a girl 4 months ago whom I have grown to love. We kiss and make out a ... (172 words

Did I deceive him??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have been married for several years and my relationship with my husband has become like a boarder/room mate kind. We used to be so close and go to church together but now, I, like him have back slided and don't attend church. I try to pass the time by finding people to chat ... (253 words

He's hanging out with a girl hes attracted too...how can I trust him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey I need help. I just broke up with my fiance of 9 months. Its a long distance relationship and we've never met but were going to soon. I broke up with him cause he lied to me about hanging out wit this girl and he has an attraction to her and he said he's hung out with he... (150 words

Should I concentrate on study firstly as I can tell a gf at this stage would intercede with my grades? Is it urgent to have a relation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - Urgent help I am a student in Ethiopian MIT which is the only Institute in Ethiopia.There are totaly about 300 outstanding students who comes from different places. I am 21 and now 2nd year student there and I havent a gf. I feel as I am old to get a gf...But the thing... (126 words

Every time my ex calls I feel like I love her again but I am getting married to somebody else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - My ex gf keeps on haunting me whenever she calls. I find myself in a position of loving her again since we never collided with her. I started building another relationship with another lady since she was awaY 4 7yrs without communication. I am intending 2 marry the lady tha... (61 words

How can this txt have been a joke??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age - I have known my wife for 21 years and been married for 17. She is my life, our love was the most passionate thing ever, we were best friends and always expressed our love. About a year ago I noticed a change in her, she would not cuddle me or kiss me as we used to do, our sex ... (256 words

My bf is miles away and I want to test the waters with other guys.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for 3 years now, but I am 1900 miles away from him because of school. I really want to be hugged and touched and comforted. I thought I loved my bf, I was so dependent on him when we were living together, but now, I feel like I would be okay without him. ... (188 words

How can a man return to an unhappy marriage??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age - Why does a married man , (who obviously is not happy in his marriage), choose to stay in it, when found out even though the woman he was seeing offers him support/help/place to live? Also, what must the atmosphere at home be like, going back to the marital home for the first ti... (101 words

I love her but her other 'friend' is older and drives...should I give in??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - The girl I like knows i like her says she has another "friend". What can i do? I cant think of anything else but her... this friend is older than I am 14... please help should i quit? I simply love her... this friend is 17 he drives and posibly has a a better chance than i do... (75 words

Should I tell my future fiance I kissed another girl??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - I am doing long distance with my girlfriend for 2 years. I am about to propose to her and move in together, but for the next month we will still be apart. Last week, I kissed another girl. There was absolutely no emotional connection. Should I tell my future fiance?... (54 words

I feel pain after masturbating. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 31 year old single. For most of the time I enjoyed masturbation and sometimes I had oral sex with multiple partners. I never had vaginal or anal sex so far. That was history, however my problem is that my cum is too thick and usually comes out with less force also ... (96 words

I feel hurt that he stays with me but never helps me out with money.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years; we are in our late 20's. We both have our own condos and for the past year we have been talking about him renting his condo out and moving in with me. He always has an excuse as to why he hasn't rented his condo yet (he needs to... (255 words

Is a stuffed animal a good enough present??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 16 and I am 14. We've been together for almost 2 months now. I got him a movie that he really wanted for his birthday last month but I have no idea what to get him for xmas. I NEED HELP!! One of his friends, who is also a friend of mine, told me that I should f... (95 words

Is giving him a second chance the right thing to do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok... I'm goin out with this guy but my friend doesn't like him. I have gone out with him before but he cheated on me. All im doing is givin him a second chance. Am i doing the right thing by going out with him?????? ... (45 words

My new bf can't get fully erect and I can't help but feel its my fault.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

1 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I need advice! My new boyfriend invited me to his uncles wedding, we had a great time! Afterwards we headed to a hotel! We were going to have sex for the first time in our relationship, so we start making out and he starts removing my clothes, then I see him reaching... (238 words

Is it ok for a man to be 'easy' but not a woman??

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1 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - I've known this man for 6 months. We went out for a drink one night and I went to his house afterwards. We had sex for the first time. Days after he says a good woman should not follow a man home and have sex on the first night. I am just too easy. I said what about ... (100 words

Do women get bored of sex with just one man??

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1 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - Got a question. I've been married 12 yrs and something is bothering me. I have been my wifes 1st i devirginized her ive been with other women but i feel like shes bored of the sex we have only because we have been together 14 years with the same man. I mean i'm happy but i ... (145 words

My little girl asked me to live with her mother, my ex. She refused. How to communicate this to my daughter?

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1 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - I've asked a couple of questions here before and also recommended this site to my Step daughter a couple of days ago and she seemed happy with whatever responce she got, so thank you :) I need some more advice, though it's not strictly relationship related I'd appreciate a... (211 words

Is there any way I can make things go back to how they were??

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1 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Back in April i broke up with my 18 month boyfriend. We hung out alot after and despite him telling me he loved me as i did him i could never see it working. I moved on and have been with my new boyfriend ever since, but recently me and my ex stopped hanging around together... (108 words

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