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Archived questions from: 24 December, 2007 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I show her a good time and hopefully hook-up with her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok well I like this one girl, she has been a good friend and she recenly has been dating guys but no luck and I want to show her a good time to cheer her up and hopefully be with her. What can I do? We are going to hang out neer the beach where there are lots of things to do bu... (82 words)

How can I stop craving sex with much older men??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Could you please advise on my current practice of having sex with older men. I have a boyfriend my own age with good sex but I crave sex with much older men, They are usually business men passing through and I go to their hotels for seedy sex, I'm not sure what I want you to ... (123 words)

How can I get back in with my family after my mum fell for this blokes lies??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is How do i get back in with my family? A bloke has told my mum I have given my 13 year old brother drugs when he's around at mine. Of course I havent but she's so stubborn she wont have it that I havent. What shall I do?... (52 words)

Am I wrong in thinking there is more to this??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for five years. We recently moved in together after 2 years in a long distance relationship. I'll get straight to the point. I found some pictures of this girl in his phone and asked him who she was. He told me that it was his best friend a... (350 words)

Should I tell my forbidden love how I feel??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

24 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17(soon to be 18)year old guy and i'm in love with a 16 year old girl i have been in love with her for three years not a day has gone by that i havent thought about her i have recently been talking to her through the computer and she has a bf and 2 kids Should i tell her... (72 words)

I have good reason to think he cheated....how can I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a dilema and need some advice. I have a strong suspicion that my hubby of 7 years cheated on me, I just don't know what type of cheating. 2 years ago I found a receipt for cell phone minutes. The problem is that he never had a cell phone before. He denied that he ... (380 words)

She's so nice but she bores me and there is no 'spark'.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

24 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Currently, I am with a girl who has many nice qualities about her. She is nice, supportive and affectionate, I find her quite physically attractive, and she never gets jealous or nasty- she has nothing "bad" about her at all. Ive been with her 7 months now. What more could u ... (240 words)

He said we should part ways due to our insecurities....but I know he still loves me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a 20 yr old girl and i've been a relationship with a 26 yr old guy for the past 4 months. Over that period of time, we shared our past. I was shocked when he told me he used to be sexually abused by his step father, his mother used to sell him to her friends, who wer... (254 words)

We broke up and every day it gets harder and harder to breath...when will the pain stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So.. Basically, my boyfriend and I broke up. It's been about two months now, but I still love him. Or at least, I think I loved him, and the feeling won't go away. I'm not quite sure what love really is, but I think I loved him in some way. He has a new girlfriend too. ... (286 words)

L really like him but I th9ink he just sees me as a hook-up friend and likes her more as a gf.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i have this friend/ex boyfriend were just friends right now, but it seems that he's always like wanting to hook up or something, but theres this other girl they recently just broke up and he told me that they were done. But i'm not so sure because his best friend has been ... (169 words)

I like him but am worried that I will clam up as I am 'rusty' at dating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy named Joey. We've been flirting for a few months now, and I think I'd like to go out with him...but he's a Senior. I'm a Junior. I know that may not seem like much of an age difference, it's just I think he could go for any other single senior girl. He kind of ... (116 words)

What should I do about the attached older guy that flirts with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who flirts with me but has a girlfriend and is older than me by 3 years. Help!!!! What should i do ?... (26 words)

Is it ok to restart things with my ex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i was dating my boyfriend for a short while, yet i was very attached to him. Then i found him with another girl in his bed. 3 months has past and i still have tons of feelings for him. He says he does to and he regrets it so much and hes feels like an ass and really s... (123 words)

Who do random people always stare at me, everyday? Sometimes I accidentaly flirt with them, though I don't realise. Is this a cause?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I get this like almost everyday, including going out in publics and where i attend school. i get people from both genders looking, glancing, starring,.... at me. I just mind my own business like everybody else. I also get the same reactions like what i just mentioned in schoo... (108 words)

Do you think my ex is still trying to avoid me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Yesterday i went to the pub i go to and where i meet by ex bf. I really wanted him to notice me so i dressed smart and casual to impress him, when i got there only his mate was, next thing i know was his mate on the phone and no sign of him like his mate had told him i was ... (154 words)

I have had my period twice in one month and am worried something is wrong with me...please help.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! I need some help and advice please. this time is is not about boys! *surprise surpries* lol. Well i had my period right at the start of the month about 3rd or 4th of decemeber that was expected and fine etc. But today i had my period again, twice in one month. I ha... (103 words)

What should I do so he chases me for a change??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a girl and i like my guy flatmate at uni. He's, funny, attractive and intelligent. He knows how i feel, but since we moved in i have made too much of an effort wih him...like i do his laundry, wazshing, ironing etc. Basically, now i feel that that this has drawn h... (176 words)

Why have no guys tried hitting on me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think im not the only one out there with this problem. I'm 17 and i have never had a boyfriend before. now almost all my friend either have a bf or had a bf...i feel bad inside that no one wants me and no one wants me to be theirs...i ask my mom am i pretty and she says ... (196 words)

Is my crush rejecting me or is their chemistry??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im confused!! I had this party yesterday and i invited my whole class, my crush was invited as well. The guys at the party(who were more btw)did not want to dance but instead sat together and chatted, so one of them asks for playing cards. I went and got'em and gave'em to t... (294 words)

Was he shocked to hear I love him and how can you tell from kissing he wants sex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm 14 and my bf is 16 andI gave him his Christmas present 2 days ago, which was a stuffed animal that he absolutly loved. I also wrote him a note about how great the past 2 months have been, which is how long we've been together. I don't know if he was just in shock of... (149 words)

What can I get him for our anniversery to show I am serious??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - For Christmas, my bf of 9 months got me this really beautiful necklace with my birthstone and everything from a fine jewelry store.I wasn't able to go out and get him something, so i made him this thoughtful gift. He loved it, but I really wish I could of gotten him a watch or ... (318 words)

My Bi-polar partner has become emotionally and physically abusive...what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My lover of six months has recently become emotionally abusive and on one occassion physically abusive. He suffers from Bipolar disorder and refuses to take medication. I'm in love with him, but should I just move on without him?... (41 words)

My ex took my virginity and would like to have sex again but now he has a gf.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my ex were together 6 months ago we had sex for the first time. Since then we hardly talk execpt on the phone. He says he loves me and wants to have sex again. I don't whether to or not? I don't want him to think i'm a whore and i no it's illegal because i'm only... (108 words)

An old love interest said he had always loved me but two days later said he was lying...any ideas what is going on??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Not to long ago a bunch of my friends and I got drunk together, and an old love interest of mine told me that he loved me and always had, but he was young and stupid and didn't realize it. But two days later he said he was lying. I don't know what to think,help?... (55 words)

How should I masturbate??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Could someone please give me advice on how to masturbate? I'm only 10 but I'm surrounded by sex loving people. My friend is doing it and so is my Dad. What am I supposed to do?... (36 words)

How can I not go into marriage anxious after the guilt of feeling my mothers touch??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

24 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a virgin in my twenties.I was suffering from anxiety for an year or so. This was due to working continually for night shifts in my job.I could not get out of it.My health had gone down.I remained away from friends and work. I am close to my mom and discussed with her... (301 words)

I don't like people staring at my penis...what should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

24 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 12 years old and i have a 6" (16cm) soft and 7.5 inch (19cm)erect penis. In changing rooms people just stare, even adults. I don't like it sometimes, children of my age say how i get it so big i dont like what should i do? ... (48 words)

How can I get over my gf having slept with other men??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

24 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have trouble accepting that my girlfriend has had sex with other guys besides me. I know that I shouldnt care. I have had sex with just as many woman as she has men. I dont judge her because of it, I think she is amazing. Although, it is painful. Any ideas on how to ge... (76 words)

How do I get him to realise his role in killing the passion in our relationship??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 3 years complains that I am not passionate in bed anymore and I don't initiate sex. I thought about it for awhile and I realised that while I give a lot, I don't get a lot. He hasn't taken me out for dinner, or for a movie, or just a drive, or bought me flowers,... (168 words)

What are the chances I am pregant this time around??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, I'm am one of the many TTC. i think i have narrowed my fertile dates down to 13th-16th with 16th being ovulation day...all of these are according to internet sites. To increase my chances i had sex every one of those days. What do you think the possibilites are i could ... (62 words)

Is she just teaseing me for fun??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

24 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, myself and this special girl like each other, this would be the third time weve gone out with each other, but she teases me alot, mostly on the phone. I mean its okay sometimes cause ill tease her back, but it just seems like a majority of the time shes teasing me, by t... (137 words)

I thought he was with his brother at football but he was really with his ex and I am in a world of hurt.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help! Im in a world of hurt. I was with my boyfriend for 6years,i broke up with him because he treated me bad.We split for a year and he dated someone else,but it didnt work. In the last 2 months we have got back together and things have really nice. Then he gives me... (311 words)

How can I shake the winter blues??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I have the winter blues.I've been really depressed lately,and EXTREMLY self conscious of my body.I've lost my tan.=( Its weird,because in the summer I have no problems being confident what so ever. I just feel fat and pale lately. How can i shake this winter depressi... (49 words)

How can I tell her I want sex with her again??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Not too long ago after graduating from college I went to spend a vacation at a resort. It was planned to be a trip that a few of us were going to do together. In the end none of the others made it. I went alone to the resort. I thought it still would be ok not to mention ... (444 words)

How can I tell my gf I want to have sex with her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have known each other for years and have dated for a while now. I think she is really cute. Naturally I want to have sex with her. How should I tell her this? What should I say? What advice do you have about conversations like this one?... (51 words)

I double date with my mother but am really not sure about kissing my date in front of her. Any ideas??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I live with my mother who is single. She suggested that we double date when I told her that I was interested in seeing more of this boy who has been a friend. We do not have a problem coming up with ideas that would be fun for me and my date as well as her and her date. Th... (144 words)

Has anyone had their hymen broken riding a horse (and did it hurt)?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my 16 year old sister is going horse back riding for the first time . one day she was looking up things about sex , virginity and other stuff. mostly on dr. drew's web site and gurl.com about the hymen that we women have she found out that the hymen can break only during sex ... (175 words)

What are my chances of being pregant??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if anyone could help me out? Me and my hubby are trying to have a baby and i had my period on dec.11th and i used a fertilty calculator and it said im most fertile on dec.25th but i can am fertile as well the whole week up to the 25th. but we had sex while on... (82 words)

If we are dating why doesn't he care if I sleep with other people??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Once upon a time... I met a man. We developed an amazing friendship. We spent an awful lot of time together. We did things, went places, I met his parents, we kissed, fooled around a bit but never had sex. I wasn't ready for that, I couldnt tell how he felt about me, and I fe... (394 words)

How can I make the break-up with my fiance as easy as possible??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

24 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to break up with my fiancee of 3yrs, i love her and all but i know i am too young to spend the rest of my life with her. I want to date other people in the future after all the dust has settled between us. My question is where do i begin? She is madly in love with me,... (136 words)

He says he loves me but we are not dating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl. This boy always flirts with me and he is really silly and nice. Me and some people think that he likes me but I'm not totally sure. He says he loves me but we are not dating. Do you think he is saying that because he has feelings for me? ... (58 words)

I told her I didn't like her because she is not my type and now she hates me. Who is out of line??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, another question from me; A girl who used to be my friend had a crush on me, then one day i told one of my friends that i would never go out with her, because she is not my type which is true and i just dont feel that way about her. She found out and now she hates me. Sh... (105 words)

How can he be serious about another relationship if he is dancing and flirting with different girls at parties??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - A guy with whom I had a realtionship before, dances and flirts with different girls in front of me at a party. But he said hes got into another relationship now. How can if he's doing so in the public? Is he not serious?... (44 words)

Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 years since its stoped... ive been... (496 words)

We met on holiday and became close friends...but now she is someone else and I can't let go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

24 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Theres this girl that i met on holiday like in 2001 and we have been going to the same place and meting up each year and we are now close friends we also have met up a coupel of times this year (not on holiday ). I happen to have major fellings for her and love her more the... (146 words)

Why have I not got pregant??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old, and I have been having sex with my best friend who is 18. Sometimes we use protection (condoms) but most of the time we don't. He doesn't always pull out on time before he ejaculates. I'd like to know WHY i havn't gotten pregnant!? Whats wrong with me?... (52 words)

How can one stop loving another person and be able to move on in life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - It's been 4 months since we broke up. How can someone stop loving another person and simply move on in life? [Moderator's note. Your question lacks details but I will approve it for the sake of... philosophy, the reasons and changes of breaking up etc. Please provide more deta... (50 words)

There are times when I think I'm too clingy, and not because of jealosy. I just love him very much. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 19 years old i'm in a relationship.i love my boyfriend very much i believe he's the one.we've been together about 9 months in march it would be a year!there is times where i think i'm too clingy.i'm not jealouse it's just that i love him very very much. what can i do, ... (56 words)

Very self conscious about my big breats. Any natural method for breast reduction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

24 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I feel really self concious about my boobs, I'm 15 and I'm size 34DD. Is this too big?? Iv tried eating less and exercising more to loose some weight off them and haven't really lost anything only 6 pounds... Should I get a Breast reduction? Is it free on the NHS? O... (248 words)