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With my boyfriend over 2 years. It's kind of getting boring and settling into a routine.

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3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Please, I need suggestions big time!!!! With my boyfriend over 2 years. It's kind of getting boring and settling into a routine. What can we do to get the fun and excitement back into it???? I have suggested nights where just me and him meet up on our own but what could w... (87 words

Me and my bf are both shy thus we haven't approached the sexual side of our relation. Will he think I am weird for being a virgin at 36?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi Myself and my boyfriend of six weeks are finding it difficult to tell each other how we feel about each other as we are both shy and this has led to us not starting a sexual relationship yet, who should make the first move to have sex, and as i am a virgin at 36 i dont won... (79 words

This guy has been flirting with me now for a couple of weeks, but he hasn't made a move yet, should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hey ! I need some help here ??? Ive been talking to this guy for about two weeks now . He calls every day and has been to my house twice to watch movies and hang out . He has stopped by my business several times to say hi and he tells me how sexy and hot I am BUT he hasnt tried ... (113 words

Cliche love triangle...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey, my problem is quite cliche really. Basically, I have a boyfriend, I'm seventeen, he's eighteen, we have been together for 6 months. We have a laugh together, and I do enjoy spending time with him but after 6 months of trying to convince myself for falling for him, I'm... (235 words

This has gone on long enough...

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3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am having a complete dilema relationship wise. Roughly 2 years ago I met a guy and we had good chemistry. We spent time together, however it was when it suited him [around once a month or so]. In between meetings we would email each other, the contents always being ... (179 words

Should I just leave it well alone? I'm torn on this one since I do love her and will always have feelings for her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

3 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi All, I've had an amazingly good weekend and really enjoyed myself. I split up with my ex who I was with for 15 months about 3-4 weeks ago. For those of you who don't know the stories they're here (in chronological order): I met up with old friends I hadn't seen i... (952 words

Did I do the right thing by sending her a letter?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

3 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Recently I've developed serious suspicions that my ex-girlfriend is undiagnosed with a mental illness called "Hypomania" a mild Bi-Polar disorder. At times during our relationship she herself has expressed concerns about sudden feelings she can't explain or some things being ... (460 words

We've been out twice...is he my bf??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey guys!! Well ive been out with this guy twice and i was wondering is he my boyfriend? Because i dont want to go around saying hes my boyfriend while hes going round telling his mates that were just going out. weve hugged and pecked each others cheeks. help would be goo... (60 words

Do people usually stay with their first loves??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Im 15 and have no confidence I do around my friends but not when I meet new people. I always feel like people are commenting on the way I look or that people think im ugly =/. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas on how I can improve my confidence. Also I'm feeling ... (184 words

Ever since we fought he has been cold and different...does he still love me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 months now. Currently we're on a long distance relationship because of his job, which requires him to be away for 3 or 4 months, but I get to see him once every two weeks though. Things have been going really well, we're really serious ... (1282 words

I really fancy this boy but he flirts with all the girls...and acts like he is 16.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - I really fancy this boy in yr8, I am in yr 7, he flirts with loads of other girls, but not as much with me. I think he likes me but I think he thinks I am too young. He is a very strange boy, as in way taller than average (but then, so am I,) and he acts like a 16 yr old, he ... (178 words

She descended into a spiral of depression and drink and we split...but how could she be depressed when things improved??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

3 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have a few questions, so here goes. I was in a relationship with a girl for 9 months, we decided to break up a few days ago. Everything moved extremely fast, but was going great. Well i decided to move in with her after about 4 months. Everything was going fine until around ... (702 words

Me and my gf rarely make contact...and now shes calling me 'dude'...have we become just friends??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

3 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hello, Recently my girlfriend has been depressed due to a few issues in her life. Because of this she has become distant with me, to the point where we no longer have sex and she rarely makes any physical contact with me anymore. Of course I was horrified when this behaviou... (198 words

Could he possibly fancy me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've known a boy in school for 5 years now, and while we've never been close friends, we spoke to each other and had a laugh every now and again. He used to tease me jokingly towards the end of y11, and we had a really good laugh. Now we're at the same college, and I was wait... (151 words

What are condoms??

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3 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - What are condoms exactly-what do they look like and how do you get them-are they safe? Don't say I'm too young because I'm just curious and I'm not going to have sex until I'm 16 atleast anyway so I don't need a lecture. Please - don't think I'm rude. H xxxx... (54 words

What can I whisper in my lovers ear to turn them on??

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3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - What should I whisper in my lovers ear to turn him on?... (12 words

How can we work through this??

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3 December 2007 (F age - My boyfriend of almost 2 years recently broke up. He has a "female friend" that I have never liked but he continues to talk to her on the phone which is less than what they were doing. Before my boyfriend and I became serious they use to hang out together watching TV and stuff. ... (176 words

How can I get my gf's sex drive back??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

3 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months, at the start of the relationship we had sex 3 or 4 times a week. After the first month 3 or 4 turned into 1 or 2 times a week, now 6 months into our relationship we have sex once or twice a month. When we do get round to having sex ... (86 words

I denied he was my bf and he looked really hurt. Any ideas why??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - There's this boy I like in yr 8 and today when we were on the train he was talking to me (we always talk on the train) and this girl came up and asked if I was his girl friend (unfortunately-I'm not) and he said "yeah- she is" but I wasn't really listening and when she caught ... (94 words

I missed a pill 3 days after sex, can I be pregnant?? please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, this question is about the pill. Please answer as I'm very anxious. I started my packet of diannette last Friday week (23rd november) as usual after my 7 day break. I had sex on the saturday night with my boyfriend (without a condom) and I missed a pill on the Tuesday due ... (152 words

I have no rhythm when I am on top during sex. How can I get better at moving my body??

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3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together about a month and a half. Therefore, on Christmas it will have been about 2 months. What do you recommend getting him for Christmas? I don't wanna be too cheap, but don't want to get too extravagant either. HELP!!!!!! Also, I have n... (82 words

I think I've lost the person I love most in this world and she doesn't know

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3 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - She and I have been friends for over a decade. Great friends. I also have been in love with her for a large part of that friendship. I kept my feelings a secret because I never wanted to lose what I had. She dated what used to be my best friend, got engaged to him, broke up ... (303 words

He was desperate to marry me, now he wants to WAIT to get engaged. What's going on with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been telling me from two months into our relationship that he loves me more than life and wants to marry me. We lost our virginity to each other 6 months ago and now we're approaching a year. I want him to propose to me for Christmas so we can start our lives ... (99 words

I thought he fancied me, his behaviour isn't the same!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi There. Well, there's this guy, who I thought fancied me (he used to poke, hug and annoy me and tease). He doesn't really interact with me now, like the poking and teasing. The only thing that has changed was that I had my hair cut and it made me look slightly different.... (85 words

Shall I tell him myself or let her do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - i met this guy well ive known him for quite some time and i always felt something but chose to ignore it. my friend and i were talking and she thinks i like him and wants to set us up. but im not sure about him if he would want to . i would like to get to know him and if it is ... (85 words

I am deeply hurt. What should I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

3 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - hi, having a difficult time, my girlfriend of 3 years says it is over and we have a 2 year old daughter - she said she got the vibe from me that i hated her 6 months ago but she is only telling me now. for a long time after the birth of our daughter i was ill and kept on wo... (413 words

Can a guy tell when a girl orgasms?

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3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - My question is quite simple really: can a guy tell when a girl orgasms? Clearly male ejeculation makes it obvious but I was wondering about when females cum? Please reply x... (31 words

What should I do for enjoyment of first night. What is condom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - hello,im 23.i m pakistani n my fiance is british citizen.we both r muslim n vergin.we love each other so much.we r going to get married in jan 2008.acctually i hav 3 questions........ 1.what is condom?what kind of stucture it has?for men or fore women 2.i dont want b pragnent ... (123 words

Is there a connection here?

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3 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - My b/f's college-aged son came home with friends for the holiday recently. The boys were mixing drinks in the kitchen and offered me and my boyfriend one of their concoctions. After I drank the second one, I realized they had been passing around the same shot glass. Six days ... (88 words

Does this just happen with age?

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3 December 2007 (F - What would make a man lose his erection during sex? My b/f, sometimes loses his erection halfway into our lovemaking. I wonder if he's losing interest in me? He seems to start out okay, he wakes up with an erection, we start messing around, we begin to have sex, but then ... (112 words

Any ideas for a pair of tattoos?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey guys, my boyfriend of many years and i are planning on getting wrist tattoos composed of two words, as in he gets one part i get the other (ie. true and love) and yes we are 100% sure of this, but need some suggestions or some ideas for a two part phrase, or two words ... (86 words

Should I ask my sister to get her number for me?

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3 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - I met this girl at a party at my friend's house and was chatting with this girl, and later found out that she was the sister of a friend of my sister(ie my sister's friend's sister). I was wondering if it is ok to ask my sister to get this girl's number from her friend? ... (66 words

His daughter lies and is manipulative. What can I tell him?

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3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have talked about getting married. i know he has bought me a ring. we have never loved anyone like we love eachother. Sometimes we find we have a problem with eachothers past. like who we have been with or what not. we each had a pretty bad past. luckily for ... (193 words

I think my boyfriend is mentally ill. How can I convince him to get help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now, we live together and are usually very happy. He's suffered from depression for most of his life which he is in control of most of the time as long as he is preoccupying himself with something e.g. computer games. He doesn't sleep ... (183 words

Guy number 3 won't answer his phone. Do I give up or what?

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3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - this is the background to my question: I was in a 3year relationship with a man I loved dearly and with all my heart. However we fought a lot and he never understood the things I needed and I was always wrong which frustrated me a lot and was always unhappy. He is a great gu... (679 words

Is he lining her up to take my place?

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3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, Ive been with my b/f for 6 and a half yrs, and we broke up last week. I was unhappy because I felt he was taking me for granted and that I was left to do with all the responsiblity of running a house... whilst he never showed any care and consideration for me whilst I was ... (242 words

Is it a good idea to send him a Christmas card?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I broken up with my Ex Three months ago, we were together over 5years but he was going through a tough time emotionaly, and at that time it was too much for me and i did the right thing by ending it. But I do still care and there are no hard feelings left. I really would like ... (94 words

What's this light period about? Could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - i am confused i had miscarriage back in july it was my second miscarriage. i have now been trying for baby since september i had sex 2 days befor my period this month when it did come on 1st it was very light brownish colour iv no symptoms of pregnancy could i be pregnant help ... (66 words

Is he for real?

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3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi, i need help. I met this guy at a bar, i frequent, over the weekend. i was pretty hi and cant even remember how i gave him my number. he sent me a text message the following day saying how he has been admiring me for quite sometime now. i have been outa a relationship for ... (93 words

Does female ejaculate smell like pee?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have a question everytime I cum it smells like I have peed. Is that how it smells or what is it suppose to smell like. I dont know if something is wrong or if that is how is really smells. I would just like to know becasue I cum last night and it smelt like that and I was ... (62 words

She's not very nice, but I still think of her. How do I stop?

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3 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have been seeing my current girlfriend for about 7 months now and things are going fine. However, before I started seeing my girlfriend, I became close to a (female) friend of mine of 8 years. We became closer and slept together a few times. She was not a very nice person i... (112 words

What do I talk about?

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3 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - what a new girl expects a man to say when newly dating?... (12 words

I can't go and see my long distance boyfriend and now I am not sure he will wait.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I posted a question before about my long distance relationship. I'm 16 and he's 20 and been together 4 months problem is i'm not allowed down till i'm older and he said he was fine with this but now he says it might split us apart which both of us dont want. He said he can... (177 words

I am in love with these two girls and feel so lonely...what is wrong with me??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

3 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - I grew up with and with an overly angry father who played Ultima Online every night. When he was stressed out from work he would usually try to take it out in-game, but would often accidentally take it out on his wife and his three children. I won't hide anything about myself i... (1519 words

How can we get past all these silly arguments??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

3 December 2007 (F - Hi, I am going out with my partner for the last 2 years. We moved in together about 3 months ago. It's been pretty up and down since then. We argue a fair bit. I have a son from my previous relationship (he's a teenager) and I think my partner is a bit jealous of him. It seems... (181 words

Is my husband hiding an affair??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - My husband is hiding something. We have been married for 16 months and I have had a horrible gut feeling for almost year. He is the kindest, loveliest man you can ever imagine meeting but some things just dont add up and his mood is tempramental. A little bit about him - he... (867 words

I am worried I came on too strong...now what do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi all, Im new to this but see people regularly reply to mesages which will be great for me... I have met, weekend before last a new guy.. i am 26 and he is 23 and i am really really excited and totally into him. We met in a club and he lives about 2 hours away but we agre... (432 words

Is it worth spending time with this guy after this??

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3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Im with this guy almost 6 months.First 3 we were almost every day together,but now as he works abroad we are not. Anyway he claims To LOVE ME, and constantly was telling that to me. I do love him for sure, but there are number of things that make me confused. We met at the week... (205 words

Does the absence of noise mean the absence of satisfaction??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

3 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - I'm really not asking this because of my sex life,which has tremendously improved. Some of the questions posted today had me thinking. Though i came up with answers i need to hear what other people think. As a man,if your lover doesn't scream during your lovemaking does that ... (143 words

How do I make her break her bitter shell so we can recover what we lost??

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3 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - My love and I have known each other for 5 years now and since day one have had a deep connection. We have been a couple for a year and eight months now. We have had our little break ups and things have been as rocky as they have been beautiful. My girl has been everythi... (464 words

She is all I want but she forgives her bf again and again. I am sick of waiting it out...what do I do??

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3 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - I was dating this girl for about a month and fell in love with everything about her and i know she felt the same way. She has told me. At the same time she started seeing this other man that i know and he officially asked her to be his a week later. Due to my lack of jumpi... (225 words

Would it be wrong for me to be happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I just need a little advice on my current situation. I was dating a guy for 7 years and we broke up about a year ago. We kept in touch and now it seems like we kept in touch too much. We didn't have much space to let the fact that we are no longer with each ... (326 words

Lost the spark, been trying to regain it... but nothing. Is it over?

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3 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - After 2 years and 10 months of going out, I just can not find that spark with my girlfriend any longer. We've gone through these phases before in the past, but this time seems very different. I no longer look at her and desire her for sex, and quite frankly, I get annoyed just ... (201 words

My bf has started working away and I feel lonely and now I have slept with his friend. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend now for over a year and im in love with him. but recenlty he's started working away and i've felt lonely and slept with his freind - i feel really guilty and don't know what to do. Please help.... (44 words

How do you lie next to your spouse at night yet feel completley alone??

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3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I was married to a man 7 years ago. We have two children together. We were complete equals as lovers, and never tired of each other. I have heard lots of people say passion dies out, but it never did. I still long for him today. I left him because after our children were ... (326 words

She claims she wants nothing to do with him...but he was her first love.

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3 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have been on/off with my girl for about 6 years now. I have had bad blood with her ex who was before me. When I thought he was done with her, he recently confessed his love for her and apologized for all the wrong he has done. She claims she wants nothing to do with him... (102 words

I broke it up because I was young and wanted to have fun...now he is back in my life and I want him back.

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3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Me and my ex dated 3 years ago for about a year. I broke it off with him because i was young and just wanted to have fun. About a week ago we came into contact again, and he told me that he thinks about me all the time and that he has feelings for me still but he has a gi... (95 words

We have been official for two weeks and he is starting to talk about sex and I am scared.

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3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 14. I met my boyfriend about 4 months ago and we have liked each other since the night we met. We became official about two weeks ago and i have already given him oral. He is starting to talk about sex and i want to but im scared to. He is sixteen and i know that he really ... (67 words

My parents are always nagging me and bullying me...what can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Lately both of my parents just have been giving me anxeity over what a young person is supposed to be doing with their life. They are always griping about how I don't go anywhere and how I have never been to any concerts with boyfriends or anything. All of this pressure... (480 words

He seems to be into me but how can I find out and get to know him??

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3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im 15 and i like this boy who is pretty shy. We talk in class sometimes and if im at his house (im friends with his younger sister) then we talk then too. I think he might be into me because when im at his house he'll come out to where i am and watch tv with us or be in my g... (91 words

Was my one-night stand really an affair??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I cheated a few years ago and at the time did not class it as an affair. I told my husband it was a one night stand as that's what I thought it was. I knew the other guy we were friends but we only slept together once and because of the guilt and love for my husband I never sa... (151 words

This guy is obbsessed with me and I want it to stop. Please help.

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3 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Classic intro: "so there's this guy" well, this guy saw me 2 years ago at a band competition; i was the drum major, so my name was annouced over the speakers. Well this guy heard my name and found me on myspace. since then, he sends me emails and calls me every single d... (203 words

Will he marry me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been with a guy for 10 months and I know he is the one... but am scared to bring up the subject we have both been married once before and he used to say he would never get married... but recently he has been saying that our relationship will lead to marriage... I ... (76 words

She slept with her ex, do I forgive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

3 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Am i being naive to think that this could work or should i just move on. Sorry this is so long but there is alot to be said. I have worked with this girl for 3 years (and known her just as long). I have always liked her, but i never did anything about it, because I though... (1005 words

Friends or Lovers or much more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi well to start with one of my male friends his housemate (mr x) and he invited me out on a night out, the next night, so we went out and had fun and next thing you know were back at my house having sex for the full night and day and this happens again on 3 other occasions ... (173 words

I met her but she looked nothing like her picture!

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3 December 2007 (M age - I'm a single gentleman thats been divorced for nearly fourteen years. During this time most of my spare time has been raising my only child - a son. Now that he's off on his own at college there has been an enormous void in my life. I've tried to go out to bars to meet people ... (253 words

Part 2 - is it too late to save!

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3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I talked to my boyfriend about the both of us take some time alone from our son and go out but he didnt really seem to like the idea then i got the idea that maybe we both need some time away from each other I haven't said anything to him but he doesn't seem to be interested in ... (130 words

What do guys actually like/look for in a girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - What do guys actually like/look for in a girl? Does it really appeal to a guy when a girl cakes on makeup? Loads of foundation and blush, and black eyelinered eyes? Do they care of a girl is on a diet? Do they care if she is a size 8 with a flat tummy, or a 12 with a lit... (128 words

All advice greatly appreciated here!

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3 December 2007 (? age 30-35 - I don’t know who I can go to with this problem, so I’m here. I really like this girl and want to ask her out. But I just started wrestling which takes up most of my free time and when I’m done with practice I’m tiered and sore. I also get into a lot of fights which tends to ... (237 words

How can I make myself feel better?

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3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been feeling really 'blah' the past little while, the past couple of weeks my boyfriend has been working away from home and we don't get to talk on the phone much, sometimes not even once a day. Some days I really miss him, others I wonder if he is the one for me. I d... (193 words

Is it not my time for a child???

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3 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - well i think i need some advice, me and my husband of almost 2 years are really trying for a baby. im guessing im hard to get pregnate. the doctor says that i can have kids and hes sprem is fine, but in my family it takes at least 2 years to have a baby, my mother had ... (223 words

Against my own heart.

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3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I was with this guy who was 3 years younger than me. Dont get me wrong, the age didnt matter to me. Anyways, we were happily together for a very long time. My family didnt seem to like him much though. They did the impossible for me not to be with him. He tried his hardest for ... (220 words

Feeling insecure about myself. Help.

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3 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi. I'm feeling a little insecure just now. I was in a strong relationship that lasted 3 years until Summer, where she decided she was too young to get into something so serious. I was devastated. It's been about 7 months since I last had so much as a kiss which I find qui... (155 words

Is something developing here?

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3 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - I have been working with a woman in her early forties. We have had to do a lot of work together, and we get along well. I would even say we are very much alike. She has asked me some questions about myself. When we met, I gave her my business card, just like I do with e... (374 words

Stupid me!!!! I was played like a fiddle!

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3 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - stupid me.. I was scammed by an escort.. he performed the service, stole my cell phone.. called and threatened to expose me as being gay to my wife.. I met him.. got the phone.. gave him cash for it.. then he called again.. more threats.. he had my photos of family.. wife.. my ... (180 words

What can I do to get him back?

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3 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I love this guy since my age was 14 and now I’m 21, in all these years I’ve been through a lot, and here is my story: me and this guy (A) were living at the same bldg. at the first time I saw him I fall in love with him it was a love from the first sight I wanted to talk to ... (997 words

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