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Can anyone share experience in writing books and how to prevent the stealth of ideas if publishing virtually?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Does anyone have experience in publishing? Can you tell me how you found an editor? Can you tell me if it is indicated to publish firstly in the Internet, as I am afraid this space provides little safety and ideas can be... copied, right. What about the processes of copyright, ... (105 words

I'm going to my crush's house for the New Year, we've dated before with little success, should I take this opportunity to kiss him? (both unexperienced)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

28 December 2007 (F - Right, heres the thing.. Im going to this guys house for new year, he knows i like him and he likes me, we have gone out before but it didnt work out.. My friends think that because its new year, i should kiss him at midnight. BUT i have never kissed anyone, neither has he. and ... (78 words

Who do I contact to separate from my wife, 3 months after the marriage? Will I lose the house? Can I banish her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - hiya any help on what to do next ive got to get out of this relationship i will start from the beginning, my girlfriend and her son (not mine) moved into my house about two years ago all seemed great she did not pay for any bills as said she had no money and just had part tim... (199 words

How do I refrain from reminding her all the time of her infidelities, as I do want to continue together for the children's sake but it's hard to bury the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - i have been with my partner for 11 years, and she has cheated on me three times,the last one was the worst cos it was with my best mate,i love her to bits,but every time we argue i always bring it up i dont mean to but it happens,how can i get it out of my head as it's ... (118 words

Why if he says he likes me, he does not ask me out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi I have a great boy mate who I also have a big crush on. We get along really great and tease and flirt constantly. One of his friends told me he fancied me and my boy mate has even hinted and confessed he does. I would love for him to ask me out but he hasn't. Im too shy to ... (106 words

Specially shaped breasts. Is it embarassing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay,... i find this sooo embarassing! but i have wierd shaped breasts:( i think its called tubular, but it really gets me down and i was wondering if there is anyone out there who knows what i can do to change this, or why it has happened in the first place! thanksx... (54 words

I'm afraid he'd only accept my invitation to please me. How do I get him to ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've fancied this guy for a long, long time. It's getting to the time now where I feel utterly deflated when I see him (science and english, lunch and break. Oh, and he's my best friends best friend). We're friends, and it seems as though he likes me, I mean, he flirts with be ... (139 words

I'm starting to think that I'm falling for any guy who gives me attention, why is that, and what do you think about this guy I'm falling for now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - i think im getting attached to this new guy. i am starting to think that my cousin is right...i am falling for any guy who gives me attention. well the thing is that he is engaged and yet he is flirtying with me, saying that i always will have a place in his heart and that ... (237 words

All I do is flirt and talk sexy for harmless fun, yet he sees it as cheating. Am I mad to be with such a man?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am horrified to find my fiance has been using aliases to make dates with me on chat sites. When he found my first profile i changed it. Somehow he found my other and strung me along. I am livid. How dare he! I feel invaded, he is pathetic. Sad man doesnt want me having frie... (180 words

My pregnant girlfriend dumped me and blame it on her hormones, is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - my girlfriend is 20 weeks pregnant and she has dumped me , she says its her hormones and that she has done it so that she can sort her head out but she has wanted to see more of me ever since she dumped me is this normal.... (48 words

He told me he will have lunch with his ex and mentioned some bad things about her, why would he talk negatively about her to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

28 December 2007 (? age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for about a month. I know a month is not long at all, but we see each other pretty often, talk every day and he seems to be really into me. We are both 25. He went to visit his family in his hometown for the holidays and is returning home tomorrow, ... (149 words

I'm in love but don't know how to take the next step, I'm really scared to mess this up so what do I do now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - im not sure wt the next stp is.... i mean i talk to her online, shes 16 im 14... i think about her ALL of the time and i mean ALL of the time... i kno we arent ready for a relationship even if she loved me - i dont see how she could love me tho... i fell inlove with her , ... (152 words

I'm 13 and I'm in love with a 19 year old...what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - ok i'm 13 and i'm in love with this 19 year old guy and he really loves me for me. but he is scared to ask me out because of the age different. but he wants no sex or anything. he doesn't even mind people seeing us together. should we go out or not? what should i do?... (58 words

I have a lump bigger than a grape in my vagina and I'm really scared, what could it be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - im so scared and i have tried to research this but don't know what is wrong with me, can somebody please help!! My vagina has been swolen and sore for the past week or so, and i got green thick discharge the other day too. I thought i had a small infection but a few hours ... (284 words

How do I get my girlfriend to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - how do you get my guil frend to have sex with me... (12 words

Humans before pets no matter what?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - My guy hates my cat, and told me that I can't take him with us when we buy a house. He's not allergic to the cat, and the cat hasn't done anything bad or been mean at all. He just thinks my cat is annoying. I had the cat before I meet him. Should I give up my cat?... (62 words

I want to come out with my sexuality (I'm bi) but I'm afraid people will say I am copying my best friend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm bisexual and I've been totally comfortable with that for a good while now but nobody knows. A couple of years ago my best friend 'came out'. Since then she changes if she's gay, bi or straight every other month and she's even had relationships with some straight girls th... (210 words

Any advice on what to do with my hymen problem????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Heya. I used a tampon once and it really hurt me. So i haven't done it since. My boyfriend and i are thinking about sex but i am really scared of the pain. I did horseback riding for 8 years and i have done football, but my hymen is still there, any advice... (61 words

My bf stays until late at his best friend's house and he ignores me when she is around. I heard her saying she loves him. Ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend stays at his best friends house until like 3 a.m. and hes always ignoring me when hes around her. Its like when she around i dont exist. I cant stand him hanging around her 24-7. She one time said i love you baby to him and boy i filled up with tons of emotions. ... (60 words

I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched me there and may have felt my pubic hair. Should I feel embarassed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched my down there and I think he felt my pubes. I'm so humiliated and I think he is going to tell kids at school. What should I do?... (39 words

Is the letter my wife sent to her male friend real or fantasy? She said she was only playing.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - I am a married male of 14 yrs - I recently caught an email that my wife sent to a male friend and collegue of hers - who is married as well. Below is the exact note: "If I could close my eyes and then open them only to find myself there in the room with you watching you p... (228 words

I want to kiss him, but I want him to make the first move! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - hi, i am going out with this boy, i have never felt this way about a boy before! i want to kiss him but i want him to make the first move, but i am scared what will happen if we try to kiss and it goes wrong! he is smaller then me so how should we "be positioned" sat or ... (72 words

Do I really owe him anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have been involved with a married man for almost a year now. I have three kids and he has four - all of which are outside of his marriage of 18+ years. I know, this is awful. Well, I want to break it off now because of how guilty and degraded I feel. Not to mention ... (260 words

Is it all in my head? Are there signs that he likes me? What do these dreams mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - This is really two questions in one. I'll start with part one. Ok ive been at this college for about 3 months and made loads of new friends. There this guy there in my class who is dead nice but i'm not sure if i like him or not one minute i don't the the next somethin... (594 words

He lied to me so I broke up but I still love him, how can I forget him and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi all, i really need some advice i am so confused. 3 month ago my boyfriend sent a flattering messageto a girl(saying how no1 can be as beautiful as her). He sent it to me by mistake. We broke up. He said it was a girl in work, even told me where she lived, what she looked ... (255 words

How do I get over my ex so it won't bother my new relation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - me and my ex (warren) have benn broke up for about 2 monthes and im back with my boyfriend (cody) me and cody have been goin out off and on for 4 1/2 yrs. but i cant get over my ex and it really bothers me and cody. warren (my ex) just told me a few days ago that he still likes ... (136 words

I really like this guy, he has a girlfriend but I don't think he likes her very much. I want to be with him, what can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys i really need some help, im 19 years old and have hada lot of shit in my life.last year was my first year in college and towards the end of the year i realised i had feelings for my housemate, a guy ive known for seven years and never realised what a good guy he was. I ... (297 words

I've found pornographic pics of my 16 yr old sister on the internet! What shall I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - ive found pictures of my sister on the internet. She is with different lads having sex, anal, bondage etc. she is only 16!! should i tell her or our parents or just ignore it?... (41 words

Why won't she even let me take her shirt off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - K, so I'm just wondring why the girl I'm dating won't tongue kiss, and won't go past kissing at all. We've gone on 5 dates now, and talk all the time, but she won't tongue kiss, her version of making out is just repetitive pecks, which I'm cool with, I just found it kind of... (144 words

How do I keep a New Year's resolution?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - I know this isnt a sex etc related question but if possible can i have sum advice. Im planning to do the old new years resolution thing, and i was wondering if any1 has actually managed to keep theres, because i hear of everyone saying thet will do one and stick to it but ... (103 words

We had a little scuffle of a fight. Should I end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - i've been dating a guy for 7 months who's going through a divorce. until two days ago we had a normal relationship with its ups and downs but were doing fine then he had a little to much to drink and we had a physical scuffle. i only got a scratch but i love him and want to ... (94 words

Why won't he pleasure me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - dear agony aunt i really hope you can help. i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and i have noticed at the beginging of the relationship he is so greedy in the bedroom its all about him. i will pleasure him but when its his turn to pleasure me he will ... (92 words

How long should I say I waited before embarking on a new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok, so I was with my present ex for almost 3.5 years and i lost my feelings for him. So I broke up with him. We are still kinda good friends, we don't really talk but we have to keep it nice because we see each other almost once a month volunteering (something we met each other ... (144 words

How do I forgive myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - I LIED. How do I live with myself? I live with my boyfriend and a male roommate. My roommate recently rekindled a relationship with an ex-fiance, while hiding it from his current girlfriend. The current girlfriend showed up unnannounced and I lied to her and said that my ... (159 words

I try to give him the brush-off, so does he still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, theres this guy i havent known very long but have come to be good friends with him. He seems to have changed in the last couple of weeks n i think that he might like me more than a friend. He casually says he loves me almost every day...and he flirts more than he used to. ... (111 words

How can I prevent a heavy flow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hello, I recently posted a question about being worried about my heavy period. It's gone down now and everything is fine. I was just wondering, for later refrenses, if there's anything you can do to stop a heavy flow. I don't mean pills. I mean like if you should drink lots of ... (64 words

My husband is in love with fast food. How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Dear cupid, this problem is hard for me to solve and embarrassing too, but i really need your help. i'm 28 and my husband is 33. we've been married for 4 years and have a young son. over the past few months my husband's become obsessed with fast food - McDonald's, Burg... (503 words

What can I do for her to like me - without confessing my love before I can be sure she loves me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - i love this girl and i don't want her to know till am sure she loves me too,what should i do to make her love me without i proposing to her..i think of her all the time and it is affecting me because i cant get her to like me... (51 words

How do I get over him? I miss him and cant stop crying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi I am so upset as i broke up with my boyfriend last night. I asked him a simple question, if he would stick by me if any unplanned pregnancies happened and at first he wouldnt give me a straight answer then he just simply said well i wouldnt abandon you. This was the fri ... (378 words

One minute he didn't want me anymore, the next he's acting like we are a full on couple. I don't understand.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently split up with me mid-december, claiming that he could not handle our relationship and was jealous of my friendships with other men. He stayed in touch with me over the course of the last few weeks and only a week after splitting up with me rang me to ... (407 words

I'm in love with my old teacher, how do I tell him my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hello my name's Elle and I have a bit of a problem, well it's a huge problem actually. I have fallen in love with my old teacher, not old as in age old but old as in from high school. It started in high school when I was upset once and he just was really sweet and told me that ... (376 words

How can I get over how he used to be when he was drunk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - My partner was an alcoholic. He used to be abusive when he was drunk. He has now stopped drinking and is doing really well. My question is how do I forgive him for the things he used to do?? I find myself still being angry over things - especially things that he doesn't ... (106 words

Was I being ungrateful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (M - This is quite strange but I will explain. For christmas this year my gf said that her brother would be purchasing me a leather jacket. She said it would make up for the past christmas's that he has missed out on buying me a present. She said it would be quite expensive. So on ... (298 words

Am I the only one that feels like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am 14 and i year10 which is 9 grade in america i feel old because i leave school like late 2009 which is not too far away now we are coming in 2008 next week! i feel old because i live school although i can always stop on for sixth form. i dont feel or act like an adult an... (87 words

What can I do that is not weird to show her I like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - For the ladies. Im starting to like my friend who im getting pretty close with. Is there anything i can do that wouldnt be weird to see if she likes me. or is there anything she might be doing to show me that she likes me.... (46 words

My boyfriend has been cheating and now possibly has 2 other children beside our son. I'm really tired and confused now, how do I work this out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been on and off for alittle over 4 years. We've both cheated and forgave each other and I thought we moved on but a few months ago we moved out of town together and he cheated. Then I found out that he may have two other children (we have a 2 year ... (147 words

I lost my virginity a while back and it hurt A LOT, but it didn't bleed, is that normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend about two months ago.. it was hurting alot. and i mean ALOT! but i didnt blead.. idk why because hes realy big.. about 10 in or 10 1/2 yet even thow i was in so much pain i didnt bleed.. is that normal?... (51 words

How can I get him to appreciate me and really understand how much I do care about him and how much he is hurting me deep down inside?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My best guy friend and I are both 16.Have been friends for alittle over a year now.We're extremly close,and dont get me wrong,I love to spoil my friends.But everytime we go out I pay for the food,movies,everything! He always says how much he appreciates me,I even give him a ton ... (205 words

Is he using me or is he serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys! I really need some help here. So, I've known this guy for about 4 months and we're really good friends. We hang out together alot and Recently, I had a formal dance and he was my date. a week later, we started getting really physical with each other. I'm not sure if ... (125 words

What are the pros and cons of having separate bedrooms when living together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi i am wondering what are the pros and cons of having separate bedrooms when living together. any views / perspectives etc. ? thanks J... (35 words

He's not ready to get married but that's all I want. What should I do to get him to that commitment level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age - I have a boyfriend of 4 years. Have been living together for the last 2 years. He's not ready to get married but that's all I want. What should I do to get him to that commitment level?... (38 words

I'm a virgin but my girlfriend is not. I hear that it would be wrong if she took my virginity, but I don't think it is. What is your opinion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - me and my girl friend are both 14, we love echother a lot. even at this age. we have been told it's real, a few time's so we think it is....... but she is not a vergin and i am.......would it be wrong if she took my verginity? i wont do enything with her till i know sh... (91 words

I'm 17 and he is 15, would it be wrong for us to be together considering this age gap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am 17 and a senior in high school..and i have this friend that i think i am starting to like but the problem is he is only 15 and a freshman in high school...we go to school and church together and stuff and i am wondering could it be possible for us to have a relationship ... (74 words

I cheated on my girlfriend and now she doesn't want much to do with me, should I keep trying to win her back or leave her alone and let her do what she wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - I was dating a girl 11 months. I cheated on her with a girl it was my fault I went to her house but i left after a minute because I felt terrible. I told my girlfriend and its been over since. We hung out everyday we did everything together pretty much both families really c... (91 words

He flirted with me throughout the night and then told me he has a girlfriend since 2,5 years!! How can I get him off my mind??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok i went to this party and immediately saw him! we locked eyes it was magical. he talke to me throughout the night he kept hugging me and i felt so good! this boy had me blushing. And then he told me about his girlfriend...of two and a half years! and then i met her and sh... (139 words

I'm intrigued by my female teacher but I'm not gay, so what is going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - So heres the deal im 15 and my teachers 40. I dont know if its infatuation or developing into love but sometimes the way she looks at me or approaches me I could really have a chance with herbut then other times I know its impossible. Im thinking about telling her how I feel ... (104 words

I'm attracted to my colleague, what can I do to stop the feelings that I have towards him and keep our relationship strictly professional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am currently a young, free and single female. I work in a job where I am paired up with one person at a time for long periods, ie 6 moths or often longer at a time. I have always had good relationships with my colleagues but for the past four months I have worked with one ... (181 words

I'm seriously attracted to a married, female co-worker and she is constantly wanting my attention, how do I handle this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - I've got a huge problem. I find myself seriously attracted to a married,female co-worker. To say she is the woman of my dreams is an understatement. It would also appear that she has feelings for me. I am trying to do the right thing and just be her friend since we have to work ... (79 words

I did all the embarrassing/annoying ex things and now I'm a mess. How do you move on from someone that doesn't love you anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - The first person that I've ever had real feelings for finished with me just over a month ago and I'm still having a hard time trying to stop thinking about him. We were only together for 5 months and I can understand why it didn't work out. We hit a few hurdles sexually - I got ... (307 words

We have jealousy issues on both sides and fight constantly, what do I do about this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - i really need help.. this might sound stupid or whatever but i just don't know how to deal with it.. so i go out with this kid.. i reallyreally like him. but there's jealousy issues on both sides. we fight constantly and shit and i just get mad alot. idk. what does this ... (78 words

I'm scared the condom may break, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 4 months. We are completly in love with each other. I lost my verginity to his friend 5 months ago. it wasnt as special as it should have been. I love my current boyfriend and want to have sex with him. We are both scared that the ... (74 words

She says I ruined her Christmas and any chance I had and now I'm confused and don't know what to think or do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Sorry if this is a bit long, it is a developing story that I have been posting to here about... Well, My girlfriend of several years told me she needed time and space. I gave her some, but tried to fight for her back. We were back for a short while, but she was ignorin... (658 words

My boyfriend drinks and can't stay away from other women from his past, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

28 December 2007 (F age - My boyfriend is 12 years younger than me, we have been living together for a year. One of the issues that I have with him is that he drinks every day. When he drinks, he says mean things to me and we fight. Another thing is that that since the beginning of our relation... (147 words

How do you talk to girls on chance encounters? Anyone know of any good opening lines?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi, sorry if this seems a bit stupid for my age. Does anyone have any tips on how to talk to girls randomly? I mean chance encounters with people in the street kinda thing. I just lack the opening line so the speak. For example there was a girl in a supermarket today,... (161 words

Is it love or do I just want to keep control over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Very complicated situation but I'll try to summarize it. I'm a 23 year old guy and I broke up with my long term girlfriend about a year ago. We went out for 2 years, had an on/off relationship for a while (I was the one who kept breaking it off) She is an amazing woman, ... (247 words

Did we lose our virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - Please let me know whether I'm a virgin? I'm a 20 year old boy and very recently my girlfriend forced me for sex but as I was trying to penetrate her she cried and I left her alone, I couldn't see her in pain. Not even the head but yes a little bit just the tip of my penis ... (97 words

Do I end it... even although we're good together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Well, my problem is that I'm with this girl who I reckon I've been seeing for about 4 weeks maybe more, and I feel we both feel really good together and have been enjoying being with each other but a day ago she told me that she got drunk at the weekend and slept with her ex ... (106 words

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