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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Who thinks I am being played for a fool??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all. Here goes: I'm a 37 year-old woman who's been dating a "separated" man (he's 41) for 8 months now. He has 2 minor children (ages 5 and 7) and has been married for 8 years. He lives alone. She lives w/another man. I know it sounds insane (probably because it is!) but... (220 words)

Am I being paranoid thinking he had another girl over??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I don't know if i am being paranoid or not. My b/f of three years bought a new toliet seat cover and it was laying there for awhile. Meanwhile--in the three years that i have been with him--he has never really straighted up anything(like placing the pillows nice, organizi... (381 words)

How can somebody go from loving you to being with somebody else in the flip of a switch??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have had a relationship with a girl who has been a long-time friend of the family. I have been married once for 19 years and in a relationship with another woman for 8 years. The woman that i was seeing has been married twice and is legally still married but been split up... (430 words)

Should I move on or follow my heart and wait??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey:) Heres whats up. I'm 15 and im in love with a guy 29, he's not a teacher or nothin either. I met him when I was 12 yrs old but I didnt think much of him I was just starting to get into boys my own age. When I turned 13 I started getting intrigued by him, but by the ... (289 words)

Does avoiding my ex make me a coward??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Am I a coward? I'm avoiding contact with my ex-girlfriend, and so I'm avoiding MSN messenger all together. I've tried to be her friend after the break up, but I get too upset to keep doing it. It's been months since she broke up with me, and I just wish I was man enough to face ... (81 words)

Am I likely to be pregant??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm currently trying to become pregant and my last period was on dec 11. but i had sex on dec. 16 22 27 and he came in me. Now would I be likely to be pregnant? The fertilty calculator says im most fertile on dec 25. Can someone help me?... (53 words)

My wife says I neglect her and that God wants to end the marriage.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife over the last two years says I did not show her any affection. We have two children and after a days work and looking after the kids when I get home I am so tired that I have obviously overlooked her needs. She later confessed to having a 5 minute affair. My wife is ... (148 words)

I told my insecure gf to move on if she did not trust me. She did. What can I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend of 8 months recently broke up,due to me telling her if she did not trust me to move on. she is very insecure. she slept with a person 2 nights in a row and says he showed her the attention she was wanting. she will not talk to me for no reason at all now. what do ... (69 words)

My friends keep telling me to get over him but I just can't.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I had fancied this guy for about a year before he asked me out. We live a long way apart and met on two other previous holidays. We had talked by text and msn. And we met the weekend before he asked me out. When he asked me out i was so happy. I kind of guessed the way he felt ... (201 words)

How do I keep her in mind but not irritate her independance??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - My girl broke up with me after thanksgiving. She admitted she just not sure what she wants. She does need to get her life straight no doubt. But i'm in love with her. She admits she loves me too. She is just screwed up and I know it. I knew it when we got together. But i've... (178 words)

We have been together five years...but I rarely orgasm.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, I asked a question before about my boyfriend and I. But now, even thowe the question is still revolving around the two of us, I was wondering something about...sex. Okay, we have been making love for quite sometime now... But, I was wondering something very personal ab... (219 words)

Torn between two brilliant online girls who I both care for but I know I have to pick one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have met two incredible girls online and have met one of them but with the one i haven't met yet we have already arranged to go away in March for her birthday. I am having to talk to the one i haven't met yet online because i am currently on holiday abroad but with the one i ... (204 words)

Should I smile because we are friends or cry because that's all we are??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Well, Me and this guy have been through so much together. We've been out twice and even when we wern't going out we were still close friends. The first time we went out he dumped me but the second time i ended it. And yeah i regret it. I still love him, and i know i should... (343 words)

Do you think this flirty guy loves me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm a 13 year old girl. This guy always flirts with me but when he says he loves me it hits me with a good feeling inside. One time he asked me If I loved him back. I shrugged because he made me feel shy. I like him a bit. Do you think he really loves me?... (57 words)

What makes a good relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am kinda curious of what makes a good relationship? We all know Trust and communication but there has to be more layers than this? does anyone Know ... (28 words)

I just want to be single and see what is out there...but my ex loves me and won't leave me alone.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. I had realized that instead of being tied down to one person i wanted to enjoy the rest of my high school experience single. Ever since the day i have broken up with him, he hasn't left me alone. I told him that i wanted a... (483 words)

Does this sound like the basis for a lasting relationship??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Up until five months ago I had a strictly platonic relationship with one of my best male friends. Then one night, we got drunk together and ended up having sex, which we continue to do regularly. However, we hide this fact from our group of mutual friends. I can't define w... (175 words)

He moved away and has a new girlfriend - will he really dump her for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I used to date this guy before he moved away. I see him when he comes to visit and i really like him. The problem is he has a girlfriend where he lives now but he says he loves me and will dump her for me. I'm not sure whether to trust him or not as he cheated on her with me so ... (77 words)

Did he mean it when he told me he loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) age 16-17 - My boyfriend [17] and I [16] have been dating for 3 months. Last night, on a double date, he told me he loved me. I'm almost certain he meant it, but I worry that he was just doing it so I'd kiss him (I wouldn't as we were near the other couple). I've never known him to be ... (81 words)

I know I should move on from my long-distance ex but just feel I can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - How to i get over my ex? We split a month ago after going out for 4 months, it was long distance but we fell in love but he broke it off as the distance was gettin to much and he couldnt keep affording to come up as i'm only 16 and not allowed down till 18. I love him so ... (203 words)

How could it happen that the next day after asking me for reconciliation, they declared their love for each other and became a couple?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I decided to end my relationship with my alcholic boyfriend 3 months ago - we were together over 5 years, living and working together 24/7. He spent a week in hospital early in 2007 where he underwent detox and suffered the most dreadful hallucinations and I supported him ... (377 words)

I discovered my husband's infidelity, now he is very insecure, afraid I'd leave him. Why is he doing this? How can I help him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (?) age 41-50 - I caught my husband in an affair, I have forgiven him now he never wants to be alone, it is as if I had the affair. I feel as if he is afraid I am going to leave him, I told him I love him, but I will never love him the same or feel the same as I did. What do I do without ... (77 words)

I moved with my family in Turkey to be near my bf. He has proposed to me but the fact he at times ignores me for days is confusing to the point I'd travel back to UK. Your thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok before I even start I know I am stupid for putting myself in this situation but I dont know where to turn or what to do. I have been with my turksih bf for over a year. we are living apart however i moved to turkey just over 3 months ago with family but i am completely ... (248 words)

What shall I do about my ex who says he loves me but dumps me for girls he doesn't want.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - hi, i'm in a difficult situation again; My ex bf said he was going to dump his current gf , because he has no feeling for her and he loves me loads and all of that stuff, and i love him so much, but i don't know what'll happen, cus if he dumps me again for another girl ( again)... (236 words)

Am I justified to feel this angry with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I dated my best friend for a few months at the begining of the year, we had been friends for 3 years prior, and yes I already know it was probably a bad idea, he lied to me and I left him, giving him some space for a few months then we started being friends again (call him A ... (396 words)

How do I ask my girlfriend about taking our relationship further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I've been with my girlfriend for just over a month now, we're both 15. We're both sensible and intelligent so we're not gonna try anything major for a while and we both know where we stand on this because we were both in a conversation with a load of people about that a few ... (346 words)

Do you think that he is taking time out to think now that Christmas is over or he has already made a choice? Is it maybe a mid-life crisis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, please help. My partner/fiance left our home 2 months ago after 5 years for a reason i did not know. I saw him last sunday and he told me that the reason he left was because he had met someone else. When i asked him he told me it was a 26 year old poledancer ( he is 41) ... (659 words)

If I feel that there's nothing between us on my side any longer, how can we carry on? Has the relationship reached the end of the line? How should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I really don't think I want to remain with my partner. We don't live together or anything and after splitting up earlier this year, we got back together in September. He was the one that kept contacting me to see if we could try and sort the relationship out. I still do... (175 words)

We kiss, but he never asks me out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - there's this guy i like; we met through my friend. we get on really well and talk to each other alot... we throw parties all the time, and he comes along and mostly all of the time me and him kiss and stuff. But whenever i mention another guys name, he goes all moody and stuff ... (135 words)

Sex at the wrong time(too early)? I feel I've complicated our situation by over-analysing it, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - OK everyone, here goes with a daft question more to do with younger people, instead of a middle aged woman! I have recently separated and joined a dating site; met up with a local guy and visited him, just after Xmas. He sent a lot of emails ans when we met, we got on really... (613 words)

I love her very much but am scared we have been living a lie.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age - My wife and I met 20 years ago and it was love at first sight. She and I had both had lots of lovers before and I had been married. On our first date she said something to me that I took with a pinch of salt and thought she was joking. "I am a lesbian". It did not stop us havin... (800 words)

My wife and mother of my child admitted she has been cheating accusing the fact she's been feeling neglected. Now I doubt her fidelity during the 2 years she spent abroad. What can you advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I just came across this site some few days ago as part of my grieving for what has dramatically happened in my marriage of four years now. Looking at the questions and the invaluable advice that has been given to other people in similar situation like mine gave ... (881 words)

I do not know whether to help him knock out this fetish or be tolerant about it, as it makes me feel inadequate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a boyfriend whom I adore to death and back, and we're sharing an issue. He is very much a T and A man. As yes, I realize a lot fo men are into tits and ass, but to him it's a preference that even he is ASHAMED of. He doesn't like them c or D big - he likes them ... (400 words)

Will the pill still work in given circumstances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - HI, just a quick question regarding the pill. 5 days after my girlfriend finished her period, we had sex and i came inside her, she has been on the pill for about 3 years now, i was just wondering, will the pill still work, is there some sort of wait for it to kick back in ... (64 words)

How do I get through these situations and improve me self-esteem??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) age 26-29 - My daughter is two years of age and is it still possible to go through post pardum depression? When is rains, it pours. First situation, I left my daughter's dad because he cheated on me twice. He cheated on me once and I forgave him. He cheated on me, again...I left. S... (394 words)

What does "cute" mean, coming from a guy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I was wondering if there are any guys on here (chicks are welcome to reply too!) who could put a little perspective on something for me. At work, there is this maintenance guy who is around 19 or 20. His mother told my colleauge that he thinks I am cute. I think its kin... (107 words)

My bf thinks I'm cheating because I called another number by mistake instead of his.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - ive been with my boyfriend for over a year, i am 16 and hes my first, anyway, he thinks im cheating on him and the other day, we was arguing on the phone while he was at work, so my mum took the phone away from me so i couldnt ring him, so a few hours later, i went to the phone ... (154 words)

I'm seeing a guy at my office and we are in love, only that we are now both cheating on our partners. I want out of this mess now, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I have a boy friend, we have been together for the past two years. But 4 months earlier I mate this guy at my office and start go out together. he also has a 5 years relationship. Right now we are totally in love but the problem is we are still cheating on our part... (107 words)

Do I choose the girl or the higher-tier college?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I am a high school student, and have been dating a wonderful girl for a little over 7 months. We attend a residential high school, so we see / work with each other every day. She is my friend, classmate, research partner and girlfriend. We both love each other and care for ... (316 words)

My mother still has my marriage photos hanging up and I've been divorced for 18months, what can I do to make her see I don't feel comfortable with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi My ex-husband and I separated 2 years ago. We have been divorced for over 18 months. I have a new boyfriend - we have been together about 6 months and things are very serious. But: My mother still keeps photos of my wedding and ex-husband up in her flat. She d... (137 words)

How do I choose between my boyfriend and staying with my parents who need my help and support?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

- hello, I love both of my parents, and I hate to see my mom work so hard for so little money. I want to help her by opening up a busisness; but I am currently on a long distance relationshp and I am kind of stuck in the middle. I want to help my family, but my bf and I are ... (176 words)

My long distance boyfriend is living like a single in a constant party when I'm not around. I feel it hard totrust him, am I too controlling or what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

- I am currently on a long distance relationship and what is upsetting me right now is that my bf is like living the single life when I am not around. He goes out with friend to bars to drink and have fun. I do not mind that he goes out but, there is always the risk of meeting ... (188 words)

What would you do about this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - what would you do if your husband befriend an unmarried woman and he feels that he "must babysit" her because she is far away from her family? what would you do if your husband invite this woman over to stay at your house because she feels "lonely"? please advise.... (55 words)

Should I stay or walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i'm new to all this. i need an objective opinion. i'm in a complicated and unpopular position. i started to see a married man a year ago. he has kids but not to his wife. they arent happy, hardly ever see each other and havent slept together in over a year. he cheated on her ... (225 words)

Is it wrong for me to hate my skin colour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Alot of people think i'm pretty but i can't see what there talking about, i look in the mirror and see a girl that is over weight (116lbs) to short (5'0) and just very ugly. i have small boobs a ghetto booty (not proud of) and i think the rest of me looks to fat or to muscular. ... (151 words)

He broke up with me and I was devastated. I started dating another guy and now my ex tells me I threw him away when seeing this other guy and now I feel all confused and messed up, what shall I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend broke up with me and told me that he wants us to remain to be just friends. he broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. we dated for about 4 weeks. throughtout the time we dated he told me that he likes me alot. we were friends for a year and a half before we ... (210 words)

He never calls and we only get to talk when instant messaging, is this really real love??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a boyfriend, and we've been going out for around a month. he says he loves me, and will never hurt me. the problem is he never calls. i only get to talk to him when we are both instant messaging each other. he is in my science, and american studys class at school t... (75 words)

Can anybody suggest a way in which I find out her real feelings without asking her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey, Please help.. I'd like someone to tell me a way of finding out if a girl likes me without actually going for it, and making myself attempt it with her, when she might not feel the same way. Can anybody suggest a way in which I find out her real feelings without asking... (67 words)

We were supposed to go to the movies but they stood me up without even calling me, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Well, what can i say, This guy i work with, we planned to go to the movies,(it was supposed to be me, my cousin, this guy, and a girl that like him). So, the thing is they never showed up. Is this because they wanted to be alone, or is it because this girl felt threatened by me ... (127 words)

She left me after 3 years and I don't understand what happened, what is she trying to do to me? Is it too late for us to fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - my xgirlfriend left me after 3 years.we never fight, we always got alone.well she left me befor hollween this year.I was going to ask her lets go out to eat and she said no and i was shocked i was going to be nice.well she said we got to talk well she hit me with it all,meaning ... (188 words)

She's very indecisive about us and whenever I try to talk to her about it, she just says "I don't know", what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Right, so i met a girl back in october, and we both liked each other at the time, but she had a boyfriend, so we did nothing about it. That relationship then broke up, and me and her just got really close, and things began to fall into place. We just got closer and close... (141 words)

What can I do to bring my husband back home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - my husband and i seperated and we have 2 kids and i just want to know what i can do to bring him back home?... (25 words)

He is twice my age and my brother made a huge buzz yelling at him and everybody at his work. Now I'm afraid to go near him but I miss him and can't stop thinking of him, what shallI do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - im a girl;; im not saying my name. I'm 14 years old and I have already fallen in love with a 24 year old. Yes, it's sick but i dont know.. there's something about him. He works at a restaraunt and my mom noticed I had been going there alot... she also remebered i thought one of ... (243 words)

What would you say, how young is too young?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

- Right then, I'd just like to ask your opinions on "how young is too young"? I'm 22, and have feelings for a younger girl, she's 15. I don't care about sex, I just have loads of feelings at the moment for her, I feel like she's too young, she probably is in the eyes of many...is ... (59 words)

I want to make a move on her but I'm afraid I'm misreading her signals and will ruin a good friendship instead of getting a girlfriend, please help, what shall I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 140 days ago

29 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm really stuck! I'm good friends with this girl, and we flirt a lot together in a friendly way.. anyway, I'd like to take it further, but I a) dont want to read the signs wrong, and b) don't want to ruin our friendship by making a move if she doesn't want it. I get ner... (144 words)

I'm extremely shy, I haven't even talked face to face with my boyfriend, why am I like this??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age - i've got another big problem. im really really shy. i dont know why.i dont like eating in front of people, especially boys. when i go to meet my boyfriend, i will be like 'ok this time im going to talk' but as soon as he says 'you ok?' i go weak at the knees.? i just nodd my ... (139 words)

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 21. I have been cheating on him with another guy who is 19. I love both but they are very different and now I'm confused, what shall I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age - ok, im 14 and ive been with my boyfriend for 13 months. i wil call him A. i love him alot, hes 21 btw. i know him well, b4 u ask. i know his bestfrend, and the people who live in his flat. anyways, im kinda cheating on him with this boy who is 19. i will call him B. B is veryy... (202 words)

Help me, how shall we get together??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 140 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - im 16.. hes 17.hes in my school.i like him since last 1 year and 6 months. he knows i like him since the first day .. but hes started to show his interest after 1 year. we have eye contacts, u can actually tell he likes me, i try and be around him as often as i can.i wrote a ... (214 words)

My husband left me telling me he is not in love anymore, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

29 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband left me three weeks ago and has told me he is not in love with me anymore, what can i do??... (23 words)