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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Talk more about our problem or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I came from a family where you have to respect someone who respect you. I'm a very nice person and seems like everyone around me in general, just doesn't know me the way I want them to. My boyfriend and I though we had something there for a minute, we been dating f... (105 words)

To men: what makes you find a woman you've met, "sexy" ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Bottom line serious question to the men: In real life, what makes you find a woman you've met "sexy"? ... (20 words)

I don't know whether my trainee teacher is being "too nice..."

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, im sorry guys if these seems stupid but i really need some help. There is this trainee teacher at school and everyone says he likes me far too much. He asks everyone where i am if he cant see me and he always comes to sit with us at lunch to talk to me. He makes me do ... (148 words)

I think my friend has an eating disorder.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I think my friend may be going anorexic... she has slowly started to become obsessed by what she eats, she is keeping a record of it all. I saw a bit of it and it says things like 'half a mars bar', 'half a cup of soup' I'm really starting to be worried. I have gently sugg... (167 words)

I don't know if my teacher is being too nice...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

Wondering if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

7 December 2007 (F) age 18-21 - Hi, I am stuck in a really hard situation. I am currently with someone, and the one who I think about has someone too. We met on his visit day to the college, then this month he started, we started to talk again and everything is fine. But lately, I have had so many argum... (302 words)

I'm still a virgin, how do I make it last longer than 30 sec? Worried about "performance."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I have never had sex and im scared that when i do i wont be any good. When I wank I only last about 30 seconds and im worried that I'll fully embarrass myself when i have sex. I've had plenty of chances but have always put them off beacuse i get to worried. How can i make ... (61 words)

Some problems, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 10-12 - Right, well here I have a number of questions rolled into one. Last year (just before the end) I moved school. My Mum and Dad worked very hard to get me into set 1 of English. The teacher kept me behind at the end of last lesson and told me that I might be moving down. I really ... (151 words)

After the C-section from months ago, my sex drive decreased. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - im 21 married and have two children. after having a c section with my last child that is now 10 months old i feel i have no sex drive i have tryed underwear,toys ect and they have had no effect any suggestions?... (42 words)

When we are intimate, I have to insist. My wife is never in the mood. She also refuses counselling.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Wife and I been married 5 yrs, 2 kids. 2 and half years into our marriage I deployed to Iraq for a year. Things were good till then, even when I was deployed we got a little freaky via webcam. I know she didn’t do anything like cheating, but our sex life has not been the same. ... (186 words)

He doesn't ever want sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I could really use advice. My boyfriend of seven months went out to sea this summer for two months. I met him in a port and he proposed. I happily accepted. Since he returned from sailing things have gotten bad. We have fun hanging out with each other, but we have no sex of any ... (255 words)

How will I know when he's ready for a relationship? Should I tell him how I'm feeling... AGAIN?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Five months ago, I fell in love with a good friend of mine. [We were friends through high school, reunited after 5 years and have kept in contact for the past year.] I expressed my feelings for him however, he told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship because of a number ... (254 words)

Why don't boy ( like teenage boys) like girls with gingerish hair ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Why don't boy ( like teenage boys) like girls with gingerish hair ... im not ginger ( i have brown hair ) but my mate is and i feel bad for her.. i fink i colours lovly and so is she. please help. ... (50 words)

I'm not happy about my marriage but I can't seem to end it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am not happy in my marriage, but i keep letting my husband come back because he keeps asking me over and over if i want a divorce and i tell him yes and then the next day he asks me the same question. It's like i cant end it, last night i laid awake thinking about how i wo... (208 words)

Should I believe him when he says he can date??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I've been asked out by a man who shares alot of my interests. We have become friends and he initially said he was seperated but now the date is drawing nearer he's told me he still lives with his wife under the same roof but both have agreed to lead seperate... (127 words)

I fantasise about men but the thought of doing it for real it repulses me...am I gay??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I fantasise about being with men all the time, more than women. I also fantasise about being a woman satisfying men but when it comes to doing it for real the thought repulses me. Is this normal, am i gay?... (40 words)

I'm dying for him tokiss me..but we are stuck in a rut.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay. Help. My guy-friend and I have become really close. In fact, lately we're practically like a couple - except we're not - and that's the problem. I'm dying for him to kiss me and I can tell he feels the same, the tension is unbearable - we really like each other and all ... (135 words)

I feel like I want to break up after I proposed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for nearly 2 1/2 years now and everything was great, couldnt ask for anything more so i decided to ask her to marry me (im 21), she said yes. My problem is that since i proposed about 1yr ago ive been feeling like i want a break, to see ... (155 words)

I'm so hurt and don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing someone for about 8 mths. things go great for a couple of mths then all of a sudden he pulls away and hardly speaks to me. This has happened twice and after the last time I wasn't going to bother with him any more as this hurts me. But that changed when he told ... (195 words)

He watches porn, should I be worried.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are 30 years old.I am not sure if I should be worried about this or not.I have been with my him for 13 months now. I have known from the day one of the relationship that he watches porn on the computer and he a has several porn DVDs. THis really did not ... (547 words)

Can you tell me signs when a guy likes you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi can you tell me what the sings are that a guy likes you? Because i like this lad at my school but haven't known him long. I wouldn't say we talk a lot but we do talk. just today i could really tell if he was looking at me or sort of looking through me cause he was sort of ... (121 words)

I think she has feelings for me....but shes doing everything she can to kill them.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2,5 years. I am 31 and she is 26. We had a great relationship until the past 6 months when she quit her job and started thinking what to do with her life. At the same time I was working really long hours and became very stressed ou... (242 words)

I slept with my friends husband...and now I am pregant with his child!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I slept with my friend’s husband and I got pregnant and she thinks it is another man baby. I have and want to tell her because, I have to go for child support and the paper is going to get served. Should I just let her find out through him? And it was just sex! And if I tell ... (71 words)

Can a virgin pass on an STD?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Is it possible to get STD's from giving oral to your partner who is a virgin and yourself a virgin?... (20 words)

How do I tell my mum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I am 13 and i think i may be getting my period i have learned about it a school and my mom gave me a book but i just dont know how to tell her i got my period (if it is on the way) How do i tell her?... (50 words)

How do I tell my family we're on a break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - how do i tell my family that me and my bf are on a break/pause now? cause we broke up about a week ago but now both decided we want to try again at somepoint but my family are very anrgy with him the now and my mum is totally against us going back out and him coming up what do ... (75 words)

I'm afraid I might scare him off. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I need your help. It's all to do with a 16 yr age gap between me and this guy i really like. Im 19 and he is 35. iv been talkin 2 him for 4 months now and for a while we have been hanging out with each other, he takes me to the cinema or invites me around his to watch a film ... (189 words)

Is it possible that too much foreplay can delay a period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay strange question but you all know how curiousity works. Is it possible that too much foreplay can delay a period? Just asking becuase ever since me and my boyfriend started foreplaying pretty much everyday my periods are always about a week late. I know it's a stra... (93 words)

Should I accept the fact that I missed out and keep it under wraps?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I met a friend of a friend "Tom" during a on/off relationship (5 years) with "rick". "Tom" pursued me, but I had "rick" baggage and was blind to how great "tom" is. After a few years, we've kept in touch and I'm all done with "rick". We all went out (mutual friend included) ... (196 words)

I'm not going to tell my boyfriend it's not his kid. I'm confused and need help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Just a few weeks ago I stayed home from school because I was sick and was bored. So I to myspace to check my stuff and talk to my other friends who are sick too. So I checked my boyfriend's myspace in I seen he was talking to his ex. He wanted to hangout with her and asking her ... (174 words)

I don't seem to get excited when on my own. Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have difficulty pleasuring myself both on my own and with the use of toys. Any tips, I just don't seem to get turned on when on my own ... (29 words)

How do I stop looking like a chipmunk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

- I'm a 5'2 16 year old girl. I weigh 102 pounds and the only problem with my body is my cheeks. They seriously make me look like a chipmunk. Is there anyway I can just make my cheeks smaller, or just make them look smaller? Pulling my hair back helps but I like wearing my hair ... (64 words)

I feel anxious and depressed all the time... how do I stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I am a virgin in my early twenties.I was suffering from depression for the last two years. The depresion was due to difference of opinion between me and my dad. Although I was not happy to go by his opinions but could not dishearten him and feel depressed. This ... (316 words)

I want to go abroad... but he says he loves me less for it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I have been having a relationship with a guy for two years and it's pretty serious upto the point of marriage.I want to go abroad for higher studies but he doesn't like it. He agreed to it reluctantly but he told me once that he loves me less because of this. I don't know ... (147 words)

How do I prolong ejaculation during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - how to prolong ejaculation during sex... (6 words)

Should I be worried that my dad watches porn? I don't think it's fair on my mum!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Dear cupid, I recently discovered that my forty-six year old dad has been watching porn on the internet. I accidently walked in on him one time and saw briefly images of naked women on the screen. As soon as he saw me, he quickly closed the laptop lid and I pretended that I h... (152 words)

Friend with benefits...Is he falling for me or was he just drunk and wanted to hookup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a guy friend who I used to agree to be friends with benefit 2 years ago. But but we stop for a very long time and pretend nothing happened. Recently, I started hanging out with him again. We get drunk and cuddle in his bed once a week. Last week he called me drunk 2 ... (113 words)

She is the girl of my dreams, but communication is a problem...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - i saw her just two week ago, I love her so much because she is the girl of my dreams . she has no phone, I am in school, don't have the money to buy her one.now communication is a problem ... (41 words)

Should I give him his space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - i have a problem with my mans friends they are disrespectful to me and my man but he lets them talk do that to him, so i got angry and went home when now i ask him to let us talk about the issue he doesnt want to talk after me calling every day and asking that we talk he just ... (98 words)

Making my man happy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a 5 month relationship with an amazing man who I met online. He moved from Scotland to Bristol to live with me and my daughter. He has supported me through my depression that appeared from nowhere. He often though goes into his 'cave' and shuts off. My ... (188 words)

My boyfriend of just over a year meets girls in different places and then emails them and arranges to meet with them.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Agony Aunt, My boyfriend of just over a year meets girls in different places and then emails them and arranges to meet with them. I found this out by checking his emails - wrong I know. However, when I asked him about it, without mentioning what I had seen, he said he... (91 words)

Is he genuine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I met someone on a chatline eleven months ago. He lives in England while I live in Scotland. We have met up and get on well and have fallen in love. Friend of his for 25 years is living at his house as he has been looking after her as she has been quite ill and has no family. ... (160 words)

How long should I keep talking to a guy online without him having asked for a picture or to meet up...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - How long should I keep talking to a guy online without him having asked for a picture or to meet up before I know I am wasting my time? He's nice and all, but I just want to know how long I should hold out without him asking to meet or even for a picture before I know that he ... (102 words)

Alcoholism, low self esteem, being obsessive over this relationship - these started when my relationship ended. Will I meet someone as amazing as my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend ended things nicely (let me down easy) about 2 months ago. It was ambiguous if the relationship was over, she said she needed space. Through friendly emails and sporadic friendly phone calls, I became obsessed that there was still hope for the relationship. Th... (330 words)

Why can't I fall in love again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi There My Question is: why cant I fall in love again? The thing is I was with a girl for 2 years and she was my first love and first sexual partner but we split up about 10 months ago after there were suspicions that she had cheated on me and since then every relationshi... (141 words)

Could this be a rejection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - On Tuesday my crush sent me a text message.. so we were chatting.. then somehow he finds out that I like him.. it didn't freak him out he just wanted to know why.. so I told him that he is a pretty cool guy.. then he sent me a message saying that he thinks that I am really ... (73 words)

I don't know what to do! I think I'm pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I was wondering if anyone could help me figure out if I should worry about being pregnant. Here are the things that I have been feeling, I would tell my friends but I am too embarrassed and I don't want to shock them or seem worried about this if I shouldn't be. This is not ... (299 words)

Body issues...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I would just like to ask a few questions about my body. First up, I'm on the skinny side, but still have muscle, so i'm pretty happy with that, but the thing is, my ribs stick out, and every time I take off my shirt I feel embarrased about this, and tend to cross my arms ... (192 words)

My chiropractor is very affectionate towards me. Is this a sign he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey everyone, I'm really in need of some advice(obviously). I am 20 years old and I recently started going to a chiropractor a month ago. He is the nicest guy ever and is just, amazing. I have found myself thinking about him a lot and I have developed feelings for him, I had a ... (304 words)

How do you get over the unbearable pain of loving someone who doesn't reciprocate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - how do u get over the unbearable pain of loving someone who doesnt love you back? im finding it so so hard i dont know what to do... (28 words)

Potential problems deriving from anal sex, apart from std's?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - aside from std's what are some of the problems of anal sex? leakage? looser etc... (15 words)

Do oral or anal or sex provoke pregnancies?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm in a relationship and I was wondering can you get pregnant by putting the boys penis in your mouth? and could you get pregnant if the boy puts his penis in your ass?... (34 words)

She's been cheating our whole marriage and I can't seem to leave her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I found out 4 years ago my wife of then 20 years had been cheating on me our whole marriage. I eventually got her to tell me everything she had done. I wished I hadn't. I couldn't bring myself to leave her because of the children. I did some horrible things to her wh... (165 words)

How do I get back with her without being forcefull.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 162 days ago

7 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - My ex of 18 months split up with me a month ago. Basically, she got to uni and ended things. Not in a horrible way but she just wanted her freedom. She said she still loved me when we split and she didn't want to lose me completely. Anyway, we text each other once or twice a ... (102 words)

My partners been lying to me, help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

7 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have recently found out that my partner has been lying to me for the last 18 months how do i confront him,without direct accusing,need all the help i can get thanks... (32 words)

Should I make my feelings clear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 162 days ago

7 December 2007 (?) age 16-17 - Im in love with a guy who I am good friends with, but who has a girlfriend. Their relationship is not serious, only it is to some extent fairly physically because that is the type of people involvd. The thing is, he used to like me, yet I did not realise that my feelings for ... (404 words)