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It's really awkward with my ex, I hate that I am hurting him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F - Oh dear. I hope someone can help me. I was dating a guy for awhile. It got physical and I guess I realized the magic was not there and I ended it. I mentioned the friendship thing but I guess I hurt him. We are taking a course together and I am trying to be friendly. When we ... (119 words

My boyfriend gets messages from sex sites, but denies being a member, says they are random. Is he lying??

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend gets these instant messages from sex sites, stating "hey I liked your profile, if you want to see my webcam pics you can contact me at...." He says they are just random junk mail that everyone gets. I've got a yahoo account and I also have the instant messenger ... (157 words

Please help, pregnancy scare...!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - The first of December was the day I was ovulating. Im not on BC and I had unprotected sex that day(12/01/07). I always get my period the 16th of everymonth...I haven't gotten it yet making it 4 almost 5 days late. Today (12/19/07) I took a first response pregnancy test but it ... (81 words

The guy I fancy, fancies my friend, but she doesn't fancy him back. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have really fancied this guy for ages and i thot he liked me too so i asked him out he sed no but still wanted to be friends.We became really good friends and he sed he had somthing he wanted to tell me.He told me he fancied Lauren my best mate and now im really upset and ... (80 words

During the Christmas party, I ended being intimate with a co-worker and I suggested to know each other better; the next day he acted indifferent. Should I make the first step?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

19 December 2007 (F - Last weekend I went to my work's Chistmas lunch dinner and clubing night and ended up sleeping with a guy I know from work but not very much, we got off but didn't properly had sex as I didn't feel comfy about not knowing him enough and told him so, that I would like to meet ... (185 words

The boy I fancy found out how I feel - how do I expel the awkwardness? I still want to be his friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - They boy i really like found out that i like him and now it is unbelievably awkard between us and it never used to be like that. i already know that there is a good chance he dont like me back but i just dont want things to be awkard anymore i still want to be his friend ... (73 words

Now dating for 4 months, would it be appropriate to touch her breasts and how to do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - well iv been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months nw.. we havent done anything except meet.. i was wonderin as d 1st small move could i ''top'' her.. top means feeling the breasts... ok the problem is i dont no how?? please help..... (45 words

This marriage has been based on lies and to make things worse his female colleague seems to be seducing him. He also went on holiday behind my back. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am married with 2 children. My husband has been deceiving me for a while now, lies over silly things. He watches porn when on business trips, i have seen the evidence on his hotel receipts. I have not confronted him but i know that if i did he would just say it was someone ... (401 words

Life is getting me down, how do I change things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (F - This may sound ridiculous but it's quite a big issue for me at the minute. The thing is i'm 17 years old and live at home with my father and sister. This year I have been under immense stress it's just been a really tough time. Now I know I could just soldier on and think ... (283 words

I don't cope with missing him very well!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

19 December 2007 (F - i have been with my bf 18 months and im 23 This is my first relationship My boyfriend is great and i love him so much He went away today to spend the christmas holidays with his kids I know it sounds silly but I miss him so much it hurts and i get very emotional I love that he ... (88 words

Does Dr Pepper lower sperm count?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

19 December 2007 (F - My friend hurd a roumer that Dr.Pepper lowers sperm count? is this true?... (13 words

I regret my revenge kisses with other guys, that my boyfriend knows nothing about!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for a year now and in the first few months i used to go out and get drunk with mates. i then found out my boyfriend kissed a girl so i fort id get revenge and i kissed 3 guys which he never found out about. a year has gone past now and i am so in ... (141 words

We won't be able to be together in a few years, should I walk away now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Aright, well... I've dated this man for about a month now, he's 21- I'm 19. He wants me to move in with him 2 years (or earlier) from now because he will be moving away to another state late in 2009 or 2010. I don't know if I can just pick up and go because I have a mother wh... (126 words

We fooled around and now I don't think he's interested, am I paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I had a bit off a one night stand about 2 weeks ago with a guy who is a friend of a friend. Didn't have sex but did everything but. I was slightly tipsy. When I got home, I added him on facebook - he was on my friends page and sent him a message and just said hello and said ... (96 words

We're friends, kind of ex's, and I'm very confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - i've met this guy about 4 months ago. we hit it off really, really well. we talked on the phone everday. we hung out almost all the time. everything was wonderful and i was happy to have met him. i heard he tells his friends about me all the time. i met his family... all i ... (329 words

We hardly find topics for conversations. Could you suggest some ideas, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - when i am with by bf i don't have anything to talk to and he doesnt talk but i love him, could you suggest some ideas, please... (27 words

I'd decided to ask her out but now I'm losing my nerve

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - Ok, i'm really lost right now. I've decided to ask a girl out tomorrow. The last day before the two week break from school. I decided this during the weekend. Before, we were talking a lot, and I was seeing her in the halls all the time. This week though, over the three days, ... (104 words

How can I tell if she still loves and wants me after we've broken up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year. Thing between us where pretty good we had a few arguements.She broke up with once because she said "I was not be serious with and she couldn't trust me." we broke for a while but go back together and she said she loves ... (130 words

I like him alot, how do I tell if he likes me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5970 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - so..... i like this guy (a lot) and we get on really well. but i dont know if he likes me back as more than just a friend. when we're around each other we're constantly laughing and he genuinely seems to enjoy my company, but i don't want to let him know that i like him in case ... (140 words

My partner is usually too tired for sex and has told me he does not like to initiate it. Could you tell me where the problem actually lies and how to fix it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years and our sex life has changed. We used to have sex all the time. Now it is once a week or once every two weeks. I know he loves me. I have been unemployed for a while now and he works in construction tha... (225 words

I'm 14 and a virgin, and feeling very pressured by my friends

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am 14 and there are not many virgins in my year i am a virgin and i feel presured into having sex all my freinds have either been fingerd or wanked of someone i havent. am i a freak? or are "they too youg too soon" is it me or everyone else? a boy said at school if you are 14 ... (90 words

My live-in gf only enjoys masturbating together but gets defensive over intercourse. Haven't had sex in yrs, I'm tempted to accept my colleague's sexual insinuations?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

19 December 2007 (M age 41-50 - I haven't had sex with my girl since 2003. We live together. We were from a long distance relationship. I love her. I cook for her. I make her feel good. But everytime I try and engage with her intimately, she brushes me off. Then less than a year later, I found out that s... (213 words

Yes, I love my teacher.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm in love with a teacher at my school. I don't know what to do, because I've told too many people and he's probably going to find out. I don't want to get over him. He's so nice and... I just don't know what to do. His wife is my French teacher, which is kind of... awkwa... (67 words

Why doesn't my boyfriend like me going out with him and his friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend doesnt like going out with me and his mates together but i dont know why. His mates are fine with me and I talk to his mates at school. He doesnt go to my school anymore because he left after GCSEs and i began at the school 2 years later and retaking Year 12. His ... (405 words

I need some serious help with my jealousy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

19 December 2007 (? age 30-35 - Help me with my jealousy, please it's killing me! I have a very good relationship with my boyfriend, we have so much in common and I love him so much! He loves me too and is very sweet and caring. We alseo share a passionate sex life. He has some nude pictures of me (he... (483 words

My boyfreind sent a suspicious email, is he cheating??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - My normally well-behaved boyfriend said this in an email to one of his friends: "i apologise...for drunken email that is....haven't been this pasted in long time...maybe one week....also resolve to sleep with random chicks hahah..." Should I be worried?... (46 words

I spy on my next door neighbour and want to watch her have sex with her boyfriend, is this ok?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

19 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Living next door is a beautiful girl my age. We are both 18. We have been friends and have flirted and done other fun things. My bedroom looks over at hers. I have sometimes seen her undressing and doing other sexy things. The other night I saw another guy in her room. They ... (149 words

If we become physically intimate in the day of the conference, would it be a one time wonder or could we continue when we return home?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Lately a coworker and I have been wanting to become more intimate. We met at work and have become friends and have done some fun things together. He and I will be going to a work conference. I think that this would be the time to go to bed together. What advice do you have? If ... (99 words

Some advice on a good blow job, please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey everyone, i'd just like to thank you all for your help in the past, but i have another query.. I posted a letter a few weeks ago askin for advce on giving a bj as ive never done it before. I appreciate your replies, but it has come down to it and my partner has asked me yet ... (88 words

She claims she no longer has sex with her husband and is offering me the possibility to meet her in another city where she has a conference scheduled. Should I take this "opportunity"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - A few years ago while working at a partner company I got to know an attractive woman. We started eating lunches together and grabbing coffee. We have also done other things together. Since then I have moved on to another business but have stayed in touch with her. We have ... (122 words

I've heard my Mom having sex with her boyfriend in our house, yet I'm 18 and not allowed to have sex with my boyfriend. How do I talk her round?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I just turned 18 last month. My bf and I have been dating a while. We are both virgins. We both have expressed a desire to have sex. I have decided that I want the first time to be in my bed. I think my room is good because we both would be comfortable and could take o... (242 words

He became my best friend and we were about to kiss when his sister walked in. When he called me later I was too busy to respond, what next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I’m 18 and a year ago I met this boy (who is also 18) who just appeared to come into my life at first I didn't know him but then gradually we started talking and became friends then he turned out to be my male best friend cause he just understood everything then I gained ... (630 words

Are we officially a couple or not??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F - hes 32 me 22 we both kno we both like each another cuz we hav told 1 another but neither 1 of us hav cleared the air weather or not were bf/gf but the last time we chilled he asked me if i would go out wit him sumtime and i said yea well 3 days ago we were txtin bout sumtin and ... (204 words

She thinks we are soulmates, but refuses a relationship. I've been in long distances before and it worked like a dream. Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - this is a hard one. I'm very close friends with someone that i fancy like crazy, she knows it. I fell for her, couldnt help it. She wanted just friends. So i explained that every time i talk to her on the phone, she lives in glasgow me in stoke on trent,i find it very hard ... (225 words

I want to have sex with him, we've fooled around, but I don't want to be thought of as a slut...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, So i´ve a good guy friend, known him but for only 2 months or so. So anyway, the last time i was at his house (only my second time), we put a movie on, and, well one thing went to another and we were making out, he was feeling me and i was feeling him, you know ;) we didn`... (303 words

Isn't it unacceptable to expect a married (or even single) woman (teacher) to share a hotel room with a man-colleague on a business trip? Am I old fashioned?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - This question and asking for opinions is coming from me and my husband. I am a new teacher, I waited until our kids were all in school to go to college. I am a reading specialist, and received an opportunity to attend a 3 day seminare in another state. It is within driving d... (304 words

His flirting has gone too far but now he's ignored me for 3 days, what does it all mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 13 years old and I'm a girl. I have two questions.... This guy who is also 13 has been bugging and flirting with me, but one time he took it too far. At the end of the day I was by my locker talking to my friend and he rubs my shoulder and says '' Hey, Check this out! '' ... (85 words

I've suspected for some time now that my partner may be having a sexual affair, a couple of days ago I found some intriguing might be evidence and need advice on how to go about confronting her with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (M age 51-59 - I have been living with my girlfriend for sometime now. She is in her late thirties and very attractive. She is a director of a company and socialises a lot with business colleagues and is often away on business trips. I work as a GP in a NHS practice. She has never been p... (281 words

How can my ex (who initiated the break up) treat me in such affectionate way, to then turn around and claim he is not attracted?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - I spent a good majority of this last summer dating a young man I used to go to highschool with. He was a musician, part of a band, and lived in a large house with his band-mates. After dating for maybe a week I moved in. 3 months later, he ended up breaking up with me one night ... (218 words

Will him being a Muslim prevent us to... date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - theres a new guy at my school, really nice and flirty hes got my msn. we flirt constantly online and then calm down a bit in school. now i really wanna go out with him and i think he wants to go out with me.... our problem is he is a muslim...any ideas on what to do????? ... (71 words

How many times is it appropriate to call your partner? He complains I whether call too often or too rare.

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19 December 2007 (F - Hey everyone, just wondering... me and my boyfriend see each other about 4 days a week i usually stay over and we just do things together... he says that we see each other too much and that's why sometimes we fight (we don't fight often!) and that when we're not with eac... (252 words

We're back together but he will not agree to officialise it. Should I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend keeps lying to me, there not really big lies but how do I know hes not lying about more serious things?? An example of one of his lies is he broke up with me a month ago and told me it was because he was going to America to play football, but the reason was that ... (100 words

I have just moved in together with my long distance partner, and paradoxically we're still distant. How do I bridge this distance? Does he really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age - I met a man and we had a long distance relationship for over five years while we settled our divorces and children's issues. We have just now both relocated to a new state and moved in together. He is adjusting to his new job and I have been setting up our home these past few ... (262 words

Since we became serious, he gave up his casual relation but they still maintain contact. Should I forbid him to see/text her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I met my current boyfriend about a year ago. When we met he was having what I think was a casual relationship with another girl. He continued to see her whilst we were getting to know one another but once we got serious he ended it with her. My problem is that she is still in ... (199 words

Now she's dating another boy but I suspect she still loves me and only broke up due to insecurities generated by our long distance situation. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

19 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - My girl friend and I dated for two years, It was a long distance relationship, but we really had a strong bond and did everything to make it work. One day she told she wasn't really feeling our relationship anymore and i think it was just because she was very overwhelmed and ... (116 words

We did everything but have sex...and now he says he doesn't have sexual feelings for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F - Saturday night, my best friend stayed over at my house because my parents were away. He has been probably the nicest boy to me in the world, and cares about me so much. Before the summer we liked eachother, but then summer split us up and he hooked up with a girl in my class... (197 words

After my boyfriend helped out my financial problems by allowing us to move in together, I'm starting to feel like I'm losing my independence! Can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - I was asked to move out of my family home, even though my Mum knew I couldn't afford it. I was fresh out of university and building up my career, but was at the very bottom of the ladder and very badly paid. Plus I have very large debts from university, in excess of ... (414 words

My boyfriends brother is obsessed with this girl to the point it is causing depression, how do I help him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok, I have a question (obviously) it’s about my boyfriends brother; he is infatuated with their ex-flatmate. He is starting to self harm and get really depressed about it; ok she moved out but she still see’s him on a regular basis, yes she flirts but in her defence she hasn’t ... (134 words

I'm worried that I won't find anyone to lose my virginity with

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

19 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - I know I'm only 15, but I am really starting to worry that I will never lose my virginty. It's not that I don't want to, it's because I don't think that anyone would ever want to have sex with me! People at my school think I'm really wierd and don't take me seriously enough so ... (249 words

I'm a virgin with low self esteem, all my friends are in relationships but me, how do I find a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - im 23 soon to be 24, ive never had a boyfriend,i was kind of seeing this guy and then it finished as i would not sleep with him untill i was sure. im still a virgin, all i can see in myself is im fat and ugly even tho my friends say im not fat or ugly. how can i go about ... (121 words

I've not had unprotected sex but I seem to be showing signs of pregnancy...Help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok so im really scared i have never had unprotected sex but i keep getting random waves of nausea and my stomach is really hard and it hurts im afraid i might be pregnant?? i need help and advice!!... (41 words

We've been together 9 years and he hasn't said he loves me, how can I be sure he does love me?

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19 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - i am 27 years old....and i have a live in partner now...i really love him and i do anything to make hes happy..but in 9 years we been together...he cannot say to me that he loves me....how can i sure that he loves me even with out saying that he loves me?he care to me,but i ... (71 words

I met him online and think we are very well matched, but he has an unusual situation with an ex...

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19 December 2007 (F age - I met a guy who is 32, and i am 48 through a respectable online profile a week or so ago, we spoke regularly and for sometimes hours on end finding we hit it off extremely well, i knew he had children from a previous marriage 2 boys and he said he had a daughter also from ... (512 words

Why did my ex say he wanted to be friends, but hasn't been in contact since? Did he mean it or was he saying it to spare my feelings?

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19 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - What does it mean when he says we should just be mates in a guys mind? thats what my recent ex said but not heard from him since ive got an idea of it like he said that but didnt mean it please help... (45 words

I have strong feelings for this boy, but he decided we can only be friends after hearing deceitful rumours about me. What next?

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19 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - A guy that i have been seeing for the past 4 weeks, has decided we can only be friends. He made this decision after hearing different rumours about me which are all lies. I have strong feelings for this guy i do not know what to do. How do i move on?... (52 words

My friend has been experiencing problems in her marriage, and now feels threatened by her husband's stunning co-worker. What can I tell my friend?

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19 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - A friend of mine is 45 and has been married about 18 years to her husband who is the same age, I know both real well. He is a really successful doctor and they have 2 kids(teens) together. I know their marriage isn't fantastic anymore to him for a few reasons but I don't see ... (235 words

I have never been cheated on and I had imagined we'd be together forever. Should I excuse his infidelity?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - So here is my problem, plain and clear: My boyfriend makes no god damn sense. I am 22 years old. I am in University for engineering with a 4.0 GPA. I work out 5-6 days a week and I weigh 125 pounds, I am in top notch shape. I keep every part of my body meticulously groomed.... (779 words

What should I do sexually without actually having sex? 16 and planning to make my couple happy.

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19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey well the thing is like this, i am 16 years old and i want to make my couple happy, so please show me tips to turn him on or something (: i dont want to have sex right now but i would really appreciate advise on how to play or just make him comfortable with me, i mean wha... (74 words

Can a girl feel a guy ejaculate in her? Your experiences on the matter?

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19 December 2007 (M age 36-40 - Can a girl feel a guy cum in her? What are your experiences on the matter? ... (16 words

I have started to develop feelings for my boyfriend's best friend. Do I act upon them? Is it a crush? What do I do?

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19 December 2007 (F age 26-29 - Recently, for the last past weeks I have started to develop feelings for my boyfriend's best friend. I do not know if it is a crush or not. I like his confidence, his style, and maturity. All these that is not in the eye of my boyfriend. What can I do about these feelings? ... (106 words

I still love my pregnant ex, but she has a new boyfriend. Do I tell her?

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19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - My ex girl friend is pregnant and im still in love with her. but she also has a boy friend to. what do i do??... (25 words

I want to leave him but myself and my son are dependant financially on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ok, I'm ready to leave. There is no spiritual connection anymore. We hold hands and sleep next to each other and it just feels so empty. I've put up w. this for almost 2 years, we married but I want out. I get turned off at the thought of connecting with him because I have so ... (230 words

What are extremely early sings of pregnancy?

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19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - What are extremely early signs of pregnancy? There is a chance I could be pregnant. When i say EXTREMELY early i mean like 5-10 days (i know some dont show for a few weeks but...) So far I've felt a little tired easier then usual and when I pee it smells....different then... (67 words

What time in your menstrual cycle can you get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok I know people say 'you can get pregnant anytime' BUT can you definatly get pregnant 5-6 days after a finished period. advice is welcomed... (30 words

I want to have sex but I'm not sure how to prevent pregnancy

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19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - I want to have sex but I am scared That I will get Pregnant Btu I really want to have sex so what should I do??... (26 words

Am I just setting myself up for another painful episoide?

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19 December 2007 (F age - A few months agoI have asked help on how to deal with a man i have been chatting online with for 18 months as he had seemed to have pulled away. I found out later that he had met a girl and that he had been looking at houses in my country to move in with this girl and his son ... (612 words

Maybe my ex disrespected me because I did what I originally said I wasn't going to do, so was it in fact my fault he was abusive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5974 days ago

19 December 2007 (F - Was it my fault my ex was disrespectful to me? I ask this because even though he was emotionally abusive, maybe he disrespected me because I did what I orignially said I wasn't going to do (ex. have sex with him before marriage and get drunk)-of course some of this was ... (111 words

I'm worried that my friends will humiliate me the next day if she rejects my invitation, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

19 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - Ok, the situation is, i'm going to ask out a girl on Thursday, the last day before Christmas break, for two weeks. Ok, so that was my plan. Cause there's not a good chance that she'll say yes, as a matter of fact I haven't the faintest idea what she's gonna say. Its like a 5... (157 words

How do you succeed in getting to know an online acquaintance that you fancy, more?

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19 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - There's this girl who I've met once with a group of friends. After about a month I added her on msn and for the first time had conversation. She said hi first and was very friendly. I fancy her. I'd like to get to know her more and hopefully meet up with her. Any ideas how I ... (64 words

Room for speculation. What could his words have meant?

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When is it adequate to kiss a person for the first time? I want to, but should I?

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19 December 2007 (F age 30-35 - How do you decide if you should to kiss a guy yet? I've kissed people before, I just mean, how do you know if you are ready with a new person. I feel like I want to but I don't know if I should, even though he always asks me.... (50 words

I can't stand my husband's female co-worker!

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19 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - My question is I can't stand my husband's female co-worker! I met her at his christmas party and from the moment I met her I did not get a good vibe from her. I consider myself good looking but she is 20 years old, very gorgeous and has a body that wont quit! I felt veryjealous ... (138 words

My new girlfriend has had more sexual partners than me and I worry I'm not good enough

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19 December 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi,i have just started going out with someone a year older than me, who has had a few more sexual partners than me and i get real worried that i am not good enough. i haven't made her cum yet, but she tells me that she doesn't often and it is hard for her to reach climax. ... (90 words

6 years on I still love my college sweetheart, should I tell him?

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19 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - Although I've had many relationships, the one that mattered the most to me was my college sweetheart. We only dated for 8 months, but he was the only person I ever loved. When he broke up with me, I was devistated, I never felt such a crushing blow. Eventually I had to move ... (260 words

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