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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Whats the nicest way to tell a girl I am not interested, when online dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

- Hi, I am trying online dating, and starting to have some success. But what if a girls sends me her picture and i know that i dont feel any attraction towards her. What is the best way to deal with this? Is there a nice way of saying it that i dont think it's going to go anywh... (61 words)

Love triangle problem. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - If a wife split from her husband (and have a nr 2 year old lil girl) and where seperated ,the wife met a guy just before the split and instantly clicked and relised they where each others ideal person in this world ,soul mate's's blah blah ,and slept together within a matte... (971 words)

Should I give up on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Right, so I thought everything was going really really well with this guy, I let my guard down and I fell in love with him. I felt that he felt the same way about me too, he used to say things like that all the time. But recently, he has been practically ignoring me, he won't ... (151 words)

My fiancee cheated on me, he said I'm rubbish in bed, we have a baby together but should I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiancee cheated on me with my sister in law at a family party in september, i only just found out by accident when i saw a text she sent him at the time. i took him back because we have 2 year old daughter, but i cant stand him touching me and when he tried to get me in the ... (119 words)

Is the army tearing apart my long distance relationship, or has my boyfriend changed his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5973 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a LDR few years now. I posted my question a couple of days ago, I got 1 answer which was very good but I would appreciate more answers. I am sad, I feel left behind and I can't think straight, My boyfriend and I live in two different countries. The first 2 years we... (410 words)

She's the one, but she's left me. How do I change the way I think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm just 18, but I feel like I'm in a world of trouble. My girlfriend left me earlier this year, and it is definitely, definitely over. She said she's just too young to get into a serious relationship. We were with eachother 1 1/2 years. Unfortunately it feels like I'... (151 words)

My girlfriend is struggling to make time for me and it hurts. Can you advise me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age - i've been with my girlfriend for 18 mos.she says she addors me. no matter how much i tell her we need to spend more time together.she says we will. she's given me so many excuses and continuse to tall that tomarrow she will. but tomarrow rarlly comes she has broken so many ... (68 words)

I find that whenever I want someone, they're with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i am 18 and gay, i met a girl three months back and really like her we got on so well there was definatly a spark between us. her best friend proposed to her a month after us meeting. and she told me honestly she didnt know what to do, considering her best friend ... (212 words)

16 and never had a relationship. My friends say it's because I'm "Too nice", is this possible??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old, And to be honest have never really had a proper relationship.. Ive had a lot of lasses like me and ive liked them only to find my heart be broken at the last minute.. Lots of lasses tell me that im too nice.. Is this possible?? HELP.... (54 words)

I'm having an affair, but neither of us will leave our partners, now he's flirting with other girls in the office, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (?) age 36-40 - I have been married for almost 13 yers now and a year and a half ago I fell for this man who happens to be my boss- we have had sex a couple of times and he says he loves me. But he is also married and I don't know what his intentions are. Howver, he I knowhe won't leave hi... (109 words)

He slept with his ex on a drunken night. I love him and he loves me. Do I take him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 9 months and i went away to the country with his ex and her boyfriend. my boyfriend and his ex have two kids together.. i was hitting it off with his ex when she turns around and tells me that 4 months ago she had slept with my boyfriend.... i didnt know what to ... (327 words)

I'm worried my boyfriend fancies another woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5975 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im not sure if im just jelous or im normal, but i worry that my boyfriend fancies other women that he see's, the thought of him finding another woman attractive hurts me. He tells me he only has eyes for me only and why he would find anyone else attractive when he has me, but i ... (64 words)

I'm feeling insecure about my looks. Can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am feeling so ugly right now. All my life i wanted pretty fetures. i have nice ears... great... but i have a HUGE nose and nostrils and a horrble double chin.. ok tripple chin..... i feel so ugly.. even though many think im not.. and sometimes i can feel attractive.... (177 words)

I think my boyfriend is allergic to condoms are there alternatives for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my boyfriend is allergic to condoms.. we both want to practice safe sex but its too late... I really think he is allergic to whatever is in the comdom. perhaps the latex... is there a form of contraception or a condom thats very effective without making him "stin... (72 words)

Is it possible to draw a line in flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to flirt and talk dirty to someone via email and verbally and not be physically attracted to them? I.E.. would you flirt with someone that you had no physical chemistry with? And is it possible to draw a line if the flirting its too much or is it likely to con... (58 words)

He told me he loved me and that he was getting a divorce... but now he's not sure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to see this man i work with as a brother because he was married and i just didnt see him any other way. Then he told me he loved me and that he was getting a divorce. At first i told him no, and then i realised i really liked him. We went out 3 times now and tw... (245 words)

I'm new to Sex, but I don't enjoy it. Does it get better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently began having sex with my boyfriend we were both virgins before hand and waited until we both felt ready. However, I don't seem to enjoy sex. I get turned on during foreplay, but when we actually have sex it doesn't seem to be exciting. Also my boyfriend usually ... (109 words)

My boyfriend says he doesn't enjoy sex... could this cause problems when we're married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for three years, and we've started having sex just this year. I was his first, and he's mine. We intend on getting married in 2-3 years... however, he recently told me that he does not enjoy sex. he says he gets physical pleasure from it, but he j... (97 words)

I love my boyfriend, but I have lust for another guy! I don't want to cheat, so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a really great boyfriend who I love and have been with for almost 2 years now, but I've always had a secret lust for this other guy for about 4 or 5 years. He's always been really out of my league but recently I'm finding that more guys are starting to like me and this ... (202 words)

Military guy needs help! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

5 December 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Please, more than two replies. Yes, I have asked for help about this situation before but I'm still confused about this and I have an update. I was offered a job with a department of a US military branch at a civilian career fair I attended on October 11, '07 at my countr... (1427 words)

Do I have a problem with sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My Penis is too small. I have had only 1 partner and when see saw my penis she said "is That It" a week later she left me because my penis is to small. I worried that i cant please a women..... (42 words)

What is the best Shampoo dye to turn black hair into light brown?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear readers i know this is not a usual question but what is the best shampoo dye to turn black hair into light brown hair?(temporarily) please help thnx nabz... (32 words)

My penis is too big for my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My Penis Is To Big For My girlfriend.. When We Have Sex We Normall Start Off With A Bit Of Oral Which Is Fine But When We Have Sex I Cant Fit My Penis Inside Of Her, We Have Tried Loob And It Doesn't Work... How Can We Have Sex?... (51 words)

Why do men look at she male porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do men look at she male porn? Does it mean they are bi?... (15 words)

Worried about the former husband of the woman I'm been seeing. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age - I became involved with a married woman 3 years ago (yes, I know it's terrible) but she was in a dead end relationship and simply afraid to be on her own after so many years with the same man. After seeing each other as friends, and then lovers for a year, she moved out of the ... (316 words)

Is it fair for me to deny my son his father because I'm scared that my life would be turned upside down for this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F) - Hi i am in a very bad situation, caused by myself and i dont know whether to carry on witht he status quo or do something which short term will be worse for everyone involved, but long term be better (probably) I have a 3 month old son and have not told the father i ha... (501 words)

My girlfriend acts really immature when we're together. Can anybody help here? (Preferably girls)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has been really angry towards me. She calls me dumb and pathetic and a 9 year old girl when i dont see how i could be. If i sit next to her she will kick me and punch me and elbow me until i fall off the couch. She will then tell me to leave her house cuz im ... (162 words)

Is it over good? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

5 December 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Me and my ex have been together, on and off for over two years, but the last eight months we were solid, truly in love and best friends. This was both our first proper relationship. We both became unhappy that I might be moving soon and may have to break up and also in time, we ... (356 words)

Was dry-humping rape? Did I rape her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - am i normal? i dry humped my girlfriend as she slept she woke up and started screemin rape did i rape her?... (25 words)

I used an electric shaver to masturbate. Recommendations for the soreness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i used an electric shaver to maturbate and now im really sore and its quite uncomfortbale and itchy. this isn't serious is it? wb asap.x [Added] i took the razors off an electrick shaver so it was just the plastic bit and i masterbated with it. it felt so good so the next ... (96 words)

I'm cheating on my boyfriend, but I'm going to end it as I love him to much, should I tell this friend that I also love him even though we are going to stop seeing each other/

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been cheating on my boyfriend for four months with my male friend, who is also attached. I have been thinking of ending my relationship with my friend, even though my feelings for him are extremely strong, because ultimately I don't want things to end with my boyfriend. ... (145 words)

I have a crush on my French teacher... but does she like me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5967 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 15 and I have a crush on my french teacher. she knows I like her and everytime I look at her she quickly looks in the opposite dircetion, but when I don't look at her she stares at me constantly. does she like me?... (45 words)

My husband walked out on me and my children, he is uncontactable, I still love him but should I still wait for him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband has walked out on me after 5 years of marriage. He hasnt told me where he has gone and hasnt been in touch at all.Before he went he blamed me for everything, that wasnt right in our relationship.I didnt know there was anything wrong,he told me he didnt want to be ... (186 words)

I'm stuck in a marriage with a man I don't love anymore and I'm falling head over heels with one of my (married) best friends.. help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help. I'm stuck in a marriage with a man i'm not in love with anymore and i'm falling head over heels with one of my best friends. The problem is he is married too. He has told me he doesn't want to be with his wife and it was a mistake to marry her in the first ... (175 words)

My folks think I'm gay!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'm looking for advice as to what to do here. My folks think I am gay, I'm not sure why, but it's gotten pretty irritating. They haven't come right out and said it, but I can tell they think it. I came home a couple weeks ago with a hickey I got from a girl... (162 words)

My ex is hot, I can't get him out of my head, but there's no way he will take me back, how can I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

- Im drivin myself crazy thinkin about my ex NON STOP!!! He was absolutely gorgeous and so sexy i wish I was still with him but he couldnt put up with my worrying about other girls!! Ive tried to get him back but he doesnt want to know. But all I can think about is how we had sex ... (157 words)

We just broke up and I'm feeling depressed. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I ve just broke up a relationship and i feel so devastated. It wasnt my fault and although it looked like the REAL THING, in fact it appeared the opposite.I broke up becouse my bf who was 34 was acting like 10 years old boy,he was playing games with me, and he took a great ... (87 words)

How do I get rid of nose hair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. Slightly embarrasing question. I wonder if there is anyway of getting rid of nose hair. I don't want to get rid of them totally, you understand, because they are there for a reason, but they are visible. I get a few of them poking out from time to time. I hear if you cut ... (75 words)

How long should I be with my gf before we sleep together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm kinda a fish outta water when it comes to relationships, being that iv only had one, ever! which im still in, im jus wondering how long should i be with my gf before we sleep together?... (37 words)

Single mother asking for help with rent.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i am seprated single mother, i have 3 children, my husband left home a while ago, but recently he stopped mortgage payment, can i rent the houe from him and get the councel to pay the rent?... (37 words)

I think I'm being stalked by my psycho ex who tracked me down on a school reunion site!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - A friend who asked a question here and got some good advice recommended me to this site. I just started looking around, but I like it. I might just start answering questions myself. Anyway, my request for advice deals with an ex-girlfriend from high school. I dated this girl ... (555 words)

Recently I have been stressing for no reason. How can I cheer up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 14 years old and i feel really down for no reason my lifes normal yet i feel old and boring.i usally feel on top of the world great and happy. but recently i have been stressing for no reason.how can i perk up a little? am i old? will i always be a baby to some people?... (61 words)

I'm male, 28 and losing my sex drive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi im 28 years old men i loosing my sex drive more and more i dont know why even that i love my wife not sure what to do ... (29 words)

My boyfriend is jealous because of a guy a school who is friendly to me. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, lately i have been feeling crappy and awful tbh! i mean why does life have to be so confusing and yet so disapointin at the same time? i mean could it get any worse... i am with a guy that i adore but beacuse of my stupid god damn feelings i feel the need to always talk ... (400 words)

I'm falling for him, but I don't think he's interested. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid i am really stressing i have a really good friend that is a boy who i am starting to fall in love with more and more. but he has told me who he fancies and i asked if anyone else that he knew fancies me but he said no. he doesn't have a girlfriend and we always ar... (92 words)

What flowers should I buy to express my sorry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - What are the best flowers to say "im sorry i want you back" and anyone know a great site for it?... (21 words)

My bf and I are drifting apart - how can I stop this from going too far?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I seem to be drifting apart. We're young-18, but I love him more than anything. Things just seem to be getting in the way of us lately- I know he's not cheating or anything, thats not what I'm worried about. What do you think I can do to help? What can I do to ... (86 words)

6 years together, and now he says he doesn't feel for me anymore. I'm so confused, can you help?

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5 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - The man that i have been with for 6 years tells me he does'nt feel the same way about me anymore that he does'nt love me that way, we have a 4 yr old son together and i cant understand why he feels that way, he cant tell me why he feels that way and says that its not another ... (117 words)

She says she's seeing a colleague, and we can carry on as friends. That means bringing her home late 3-4 times a week. Adequate in given circumstances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I`ve been seeing this girl for awhile,we are really good freinds,she relies on me alot,I feel like her emotional boyfriend. We go out maybe 3-4 times a week but I`ve always liked her more than just a friend and she has always known this, I made it clear from the start.I know ... (308 words)

Could a lady feel pain or bleed if she has already broken her hymen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hello i want to ask 2 questions 1. will a lady have pain and bleedindg if she already broke her hymen? 2. is she considerd a virgin if she has no pain and bleedin during her first sex? will her hubby consider her a virgin? thanks.... (49 words)

When my hymen breaks, will I bleed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys............. i m going to get married in last wk of december.we have reserved a room in hotel for our first wedding nite..........me n my partner vergin. so i want to ask 2 or 3 questions 1...when hymen break will ther bleeding like periods? and for how long it will ... (95 words)

Could my husband be bisexual or gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm questioning my husband as being gay/bisexual. We have three kids, have been married almost 10 years and have known each other for 20 yrs. Here are my thoughts: opened computer to find "(user name) is currently logged in" - this was a male cruiseing site this profile se... (213 words)

I met somebody else after the break up with my ex but now he returned to tell me he has changed. I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i was in arelationship with my ex for 2 months he lied to me four times so i broke up with him to sort myself out however doing this i found myself attracted to another bloke and we have meet up and gone out. he told me he has fallen in love with me and over the past 3 months ... (99 words)

Gave up everything for boyfriend and now he doesn't want to be in a relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I, ve been with my partner 2 years, I gave up everything to move away with him. He is a lorry driver and works long hours he said he still loves me but not enough to be in the relationship right now. He said he doesnt want to be in a relationship right now with me or anybody, ... (96 words)

I like him, but I'm not sure I want a relationship. Do I gamble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5976 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like a guy from school,and i think its more than a crush..i dont wanna go and talk to him or anything like that..maybe because im very shy and im afraid he'll reject me..sometimes i catch him looking at me,but im not sure..i was told he's a player and i shouldn't try ... (75 words)

Would this be a safe way to meet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - If you cannot get someone's number for some reason, is it ok to arrange to meet up for coffee the next day and then exchange numbers there? Or is that something nobody does?... (34 words)

I've fallen in love with my best friend...shall I just forget it or take a shot at it??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - So heres the story.... about 3 years ago at college I found my best friend, and he is the best friend I could ever ask for. We both make each other laugh, on the same wavelength, we're practically married (heh). So I'm a gay guy, and I came out to him and everyone else about 2 ... (498 words)

He said it wasn't working and I want to talk but he won't...any suggestions??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Help. My new boyfriend txt me last nite and said it won't work and that we should be mates. We've not had sex so in a way im glad i did not get that close but i really want to talk to him about things. The thing is he wont talk and txt me back because he said theres nothing t... (118 words)

I have insecurities, and that's now causing me to become jealous and controlling

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and during most of our relationship we would see eachother everyday, fall asleep next to eachother every night and wake up next to eachother every morning. A few months ago I had to move 3 states away to attend ... (491 words)

We normally spent time togther but now we hardly speak! do you think he might be cheating? or even losing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years now, we shared great memories and then not so great. it seems to me that we have both been losing interest in our relationship, we have been fighting constantly about the smallest thing. im so afraid of being played! we ... (150 words)

I really love this girl and can't get her out of my mind...but she is dating other people and I HATE it. What should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I met this girl while I was at my friends house. She lives with my friends family during the summer, then goes home which is a 3 hour drive away. When I first met her, she was dating my friends friend. But after the summer ended, she told me she was really hitting on me al... (411 words)

The married woman I got involved with is having an affair with another guy at the same time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - So I ended up getting involved with a married woman while I was still married about a year and a half ago. We shared everything and fell in love. I left my wife, but she remained with her husband. She proclaims how much she loves him and me too, but she cant leave him. Th... (213 words)

She initiated everything but now I feel bad because she was a virgin.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I was at one of my fraternity parties, and I met a girl on the dance floor. I was incredibly drunk, so I was super-friendly. We hit it off fast, and started making out. She pulled me into a darker room, and was throwing her leg up on me, and grabbing my butt, and all kinds of ... (220 words)

What can I get my boyfriend for Christmas, that can be engraved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - This might sound like a trivial cry for help but,- What on earth should I get my boyfriend of 5 months for Christmas? I want to get something I could get engraved. He's into music,- plays guitar, but not into sports, doesn't drink alcohol and I don't want to get hi... (94 words)

Am I being impulsive or is only caring 'a little' after 8 months not enough??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - After 8 month, he said he only cares a little about me, is it time to move on? Me and this guy has been going out for 8 months. It is not an official relationship. Although we do everything a couple does (sex etc etc), I have never once referred to him as a boyfriend because ... (254 words)

We never wanted this to happen...but now neither of us can bear to break it off.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am semi-happily married and have fallen for another girl. This girl is also happily married and she has fallen for me. Neither of us went looking for this since we were both in seemingly happy marriages. Now my marriage is under strain and I'm not totally sure but feel... (332 words)

Torn between my gf and her brother. What can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a bisexual and have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for the past two years and i am in love with her; however, before we got together, me and her brother were intimate. I still have very strong feelings for him and think i am in love with him too and i believe ... (66 words)

3 years together and he suddenly doesn't know!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years. Shortly before our 3 year anniversary, he breaks up with me saying that he wants to date other people. We have been together since he was 18 and I 17. We are each other's first serious relation... (200 words)

Can a gay/bisexual man have a committed relationship with a women while still looking at gay porn??

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5 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok this is a very big problem. I've been having. I moved in with my boyfriend 7 months ago. We've known each other for over a year now. We've not kissed yet, we're in seperate bedrooms and frankly I'm getting tired of it. He tells me he's scared but I've seen some disturbi... (199 words)

Should I choose him or her??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Alrite, i know that i tend to use this site alot but i am a very confused teen (15). I just wanted to say thank-you to everyone who is takin their time to read this and attempt to help me out. Alrite, this is the him or her question. First of all, i am bisexual, yet i ... (291 words)

I love to flirt on chat rooms, and send naughty pictures, but its all harmless, my husband doesn't agree, should I dump him?

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5 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Could anyone tell me on whether chatrooms are addictive? Am i being fair to carry on in these if my husband has caught me sending photos of my bits to lads? Its simply nothing but harmless flirting and fun,so I enjoy sex talk. Not only that but when me and my husband have an ... (165 words)

What do I tell him about why I didnt reply??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out over a month now and I know he loves me but I'm always the one punishing him, I mean playing hard to get still which I know I shouldn't be doing. But I want to know how far or what he would do, He hasn't heard from me for a week now as we ... (131 words)

He dumped me saying he loved another girl...now he is saying he loves me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend,and for the past week he has been trying to get rid of me b/c he was "in love" with another girl,i begged and pleaded for him not to leave me,but he insisted. When i decided to leave he asked me to come and talk to him. Now he is telling me he loves me and c... (68 words)

Me and my Dad argue all the time.. any advice?

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5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my dad yell at eachother constantly and we are barely ever nice to eachother he always annoys me and i always get mad at all the little stupid things he does and me and my mom even talk about it and she is fed up with it to, me and my dad argue about everything and it's ... (79 words)

Is it possible to love someone too much??

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5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel as if i'm truly in love with my boyfriend the only problem is that im going through love trauma. I fight and throw things when i can't see him. Is it harmful to love a person too much? It's like he got something over me, it's like he likes it when i go crazy over him... (91 words)

We have been dating for 8 months but he is always bugging me about how I supposedly like other guys.

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5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy have been together for 8 months and we have been happy for so long but she is just starting to be jealous all the time, It kind of bothers me because he bugs me about how he thinks i like a whole bunch of other guys. What should i tell him??... (55 words)

I am going to have sex with a guy....I need advice on that and if there is anything I can say to make my friend feel better??

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5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and a guy are going to have sex in a few weeks, and i was just wondering if anyone could give me advice..? Also, my friend had sex with this guy and she did this because she thought he liked her and she thought this would bring them closer but it didn't at all. It made eve... (74 words)

I was coping but he said he would change and I got back with him...now how do I get over my grudge against him and tell my family??

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5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and eight months. We've planned to get married, have children, own a house, and grow old together. We've been through so much together. About 2 or 3 weeks ago, I found out my boyfriend was talking to a girl. The contact name ... (657 words)

Should I forget about her and try to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am going to be EXTREMELY detailed in my report, so it is going to take a lot of reading, but i really need advice. I'm sorry if this report was too long. I am currently 18 and this is the only girl I have ever dated/been kissed by. I wasn't very attractive until I turned 1... (1661 words)

How do I ask him to prom??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i liked this guy for a couple of years and i am in 10th grade and he is in 9th. At our church we're havening a prom in May for 10th graders to 19 years of age, I want to ask him because he can't ask me because he is a freshmen, but i am sooooo nervous! I know he likes me... (164 words)

How do I find an opportunity to tell my friend how I feel??

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5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to ask out a friend of mine out. I want to tell her my feelings. I think she may like me, i've picked up a few signs that she comes and talks to me alot, and plays with her hair, is near me etc Anyway i never get the opportunity! How can i create one? At school there's ... (138 words)

He knows I like him but he still hasn't backed-off...what does this mean??

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5 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I like my flatmate at uni, but recently he found a note under my bed saying that i liked him. He basically was taken aback so i lied and said that i used to like him but not anymore because that was the only option i had. I told him that i had written the note 2 months ag... (252 words)

She wants me to leave University and emigrate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5913 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old, and i have a girlfriend in 24. She's not from the same country as me, but we met here in Spain and we had a big connection and a big Love. Since this year, in September, i started to study in University, after one year living with her. Now she gone to USA ... (196 words)

My girl has history, her ex is going to jail, she has three kids, but I love her, yet she is just wants to be friends now, should I persist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I started dating this girl i worked with at work at the begining of october.We both really liked each other and moved very fast into a relationship.She has a lot of excess baggage like three kids one that lives with her.An exboyfreind that constantly in trouble with the law do ... (156 words)

I am totally in love with my gf but last night I slept with another girl.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 4 months and am absolutely in love with her. However, last night I kissed another girl and stayed the night in that girls bed but it wasn't really a one night stand, im feeling attracted to her and its more than just s... (66 words)

This older guy is ignoring my texts and emails...I'm so confused!

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5 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i'm struggeling with a guy!!! I'm not with him but i think that he is my soul mate!!!! i love every bone in his body and i want to look after him!He isn't sure if he wants a relationship right now. There is a large age gap between us i'm 20 and he's37 i'm a bit lost because ... (107 words)

My girlfriend persuaded me to shave "down there" and now maybe it wasn't such a great idea...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

5 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay my girlfriend wants me to shave, we arent in a stage of sex but she just said she'd rather it be if we get that far. I did what she wanted duh, but well i have red bumps now and its not right, I know I didnt shave right so plz help me figure out how to shave so i dont have ... (69 words)

I'm a member of the clergy and I'm gay. How can I find a gay relationship and be cautious, at the same time?

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5 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i am a mmember of the clergy..must be very discreet..not a pedophile but gay..want to have gay relationships with guys of legal age..but must be very very careful..i got burned once when a guy used me to get hush money..i only saw him once..it was in chat room hookup..and we ... (75 words)

My boyfriend's ex is still in the picture, how can I make my boyfriend understand how this is hurting me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

5 December 2007 (?) age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. I love him very much and Iknow he loves me, but everytime his ex girlfriend calls I get really upset and annoyed. He doesn't understand howmuch it hurts me and says they are just friends. But I know his ex wants more ... (102 words)