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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Better the devil you know, or the one you dont!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - 2 years ago, a guy i knew for 9 years and who i considered my best friend became my boyfriend after years of tiptoing around the subject. We started off in an amazing relationship, he was the man i had waited for all this time and who i felt i wanted to marry and have kids ... (713 words)

Best friend going wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I married my best friend. She's going through some problems within herself, but somehow it ends up being something that I'm not doing right, enough, remembering to do. I'm starting to feel like I'm the actual problem and she just don't know how to say it. Is it me? What can ... (57 words)

I posted this earlier but forgot to include an important part in it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I posted this earlier but forgot to include an important part in it. I've started becoming friends with my sister's friends, and one of her best friends and I have been hanging out a lot recently without her. Recently, we got drunk and we made out and he told me that he liked... (263 words)

Do I just forget about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, I have a problem and I really need to get it off my chest. So here goes, I met this guy about a few months ago, but he lives quite far away so I've only seen him once, for the first three weeks or so after that we were talking and texting all night every night and st... (324 words)

How can I get over my strong feelings for me ex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I've broken up with my ex for about 6 months. We broke up because we both came from different worlds. When we broke up we were both still in love with each other. I thought i was over him but i guess im not. i dont know what to do as i have these strong feelings for him.... (69 words)

Since having our daughter 9 months ago my boyfriend has been really distant...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Since having our daughter 9 months ago my boyfriend has been really distant, a couple of months ago I was told I have post natal depression which luckily hasn't effected my relationship with my daughter, but it has with my boyfriend, he shows me no affection at all... (80 words)

I NEED to know...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My ex-boyfriend moved away to university recently and since he's been there he's met this girl who's seemingly very keen on him - but he's always vague as to what he thinks about her, and "doesn't know what he wants." Last night they both got very drunk, and she 'hurt her an... (135 words)

How can you tell if an ex still likes you...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - If you haven't seen your ex in a while (due to his moving, which prompted the split) and he comes back for Christmas to see his family and old friends... 1) How can you tell if he still likes you, and 2) How would you try and win him back? xx... (58 words)

Should I continue talking and getting closer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I've started becoming friends with my sister's friends, and one of her best friends and I have been hanging out a lot recently without her. Recently, we got drunk and we made out and he told me that he liked me and has been eyeing me for a while. A few days later when we were ... (170 words)

I'm afraid to be hurt again, I want so badly to trust him 100%.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - This has been bothering me for quite some time and I need some help with what to do. Back at the end of July I found out my boyfriend was talking to his ex over his cell phone, and basically hiding this from me. He ended talking to her on his own before I found out about th... (523 words)

Unlovable???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

2 December 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I don't think I will ever have a boyfriend or anyone who will even "like" me. I don't know why... I'm not really pretty, but I think I've got good "brains" and am an intresting person but every time I fall for some guy they'll NEVER feel the same for me! All my friends are in r... (97 words)

What's the best way to approach this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi there, A few weeks ago my guy mate and I were fooling around on my bed and ended up kissing. I'd never looked at him in that way before, but I got the feeling that he liked me. Since then we have made out on several occassions but only in private and very few people know ... (240 words)

Is there any way I can still be with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi! I am 27, my ex-girlfriend is 24. We were together for 2 and a half years, one year we lived together and this past year was a long-distance relationship but we met on weekends. we broke up two months ago. Throughout the time I was with my girlfriend, I was seeing other wo... (107 words)

Best gift to give your ex gf on their birthday? I want to win her back.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - what is the best gift to buy my ex girlfriend, her bday is in a month and we broke up last week. Im not speaking to her but i want her back. And i would like to give her a gift that would make her smile and happy... (48 words)

How do you deal with seeing your ex in another's company?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

- I want my ex back so much its ruining my life. He's not interested but I still like him so much. Ive been asked out by alot of other boys in the past few weeks but I only want him. It hurts so much and whats worse is that it was my fault that we finished in the first place. ... (79 words)

I am an atheist attending a Christian school. A colleague is mean to me because of that, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - I am 11 years old and I'm a pretty strict athiest. I decided thatr I didn't believe in God when I was around 8-9 years old and I have always been to a christian school and my mum is a christian even though my dad isn't. I just find it difficault because I have read this book w... (188 words)

My dreams end with strange deaths, of animals. Is this bad or dangerous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - Dear All, I seem to be reading an awful lot these days and I keep reading til really late but I find it difficault to sleep even then - I've never fallen asleep with a book in my hand- but never really know when I fall asleep, because my clock is infront of me and I sleep fa... (139 words)

Any suggestion's on take home exam question?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Working on a take home exam and for the life of me I dont know how to put into word's in essay form the difference between a case brief and a appellet brief.. I know appellet briefs are extensive.. much more extensive than case briefs... any suggestion's on key point's or ... (103 words)

We both have partners and decided to become "fling" mates.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a boyfriend in other country and now am in university and I met someone else here. He has a girlfriend back in his home town too so we decided to just be fling mates.. its been going well until recently when I figured that I am falling for him. Do I tell him or do I ... (78 words)

Can a dildo break your hymen??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Is it possible to lose your hymen with a dildo? If so, how can you tell if you've lost it? This weekend was my first time using a dildo, and I bled. I'm not sure if I a) lost my hymen b) caused my cervix to bleed c) caused some other area in there to bleed. I know I wasn't o... (164 words)

Did I lose my virginity even if it only lasted for a few seconds??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - OK so I'm wondering if I am a virgin or not. I hooked up with a girl, and I was drunk so I had a hard time getting an erection, anyways I got it up for a few seconds, and so I put it inside of her and penetrated her, but only for a couple seconds before the booze kicked b... (103 words)

Our marriage is amazing but I am ready to start a family and he isn't. Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Help Please, I was recently married to the most amazing man and we are very happy. We have been together for 7 years and have a very healthy relationship. The problem is that i am very much ready to start a family but he isn't. I obviously don't want to pressure him int... (157 words)

Are there any other signs of pregnancy apart from morning sickness? Like feelings, emotions and moods?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 and half months. I'm 15 turning 16 in January and he's a year younger than me. We really love each other and would do anything for each other. So about a month ago we decided to have sex, well try any way. We used a condom a... (245 words)

We have decided to just let sex happen....but how do we initiate it??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hiya, Me and my gf have been going out for just over a year and have decided we are ready for sex. We are now both 17 and have decided not to plan it as it is more likely to make her nervous and start getting scared if she knows it will be happening at a certain time. Instea... (204 words)

I am too young to feel depressed, aren't I? What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - please help recently i have been going through mental break down and been becoming very depressed i am only 14 and i really am too young for the depression, i am feeling the reasons why i have been depressed is i had a dream on monday about last day of year elev... (119 words)

Few days before our wedding day was due, we had a quarrel and her family was upset by my comment so the marriage was cancelled. How to solve this? We're from India.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - hi we had a strong relationship since last 2 years.she was mad about me as i was about her.we planned to marry but our casts were different. Somehow we convinced our parents and things started moving, we got engaged officially. Meanwhile i should tell something im... (677 words)

He complains I snoop on his phone but I have caught him cheating with two other women.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupids, Well this has not happened once but three times. I have been dating this guy for 7 months now, he seemed to be so much into me and the relationship has been great except for one thing that I snooped in his phone while we were 3 months dating and realised that he ... (703 words)

How can I confirm to his wife he is having an affair with me without anybody knowing it came from me?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having an affair with a married man who doesn't love his wife any more but loves his children. He thinks he needs to stay in the marraiage just 4 the kids. His wife thinks he is having an affair and asks if he his having an affair but he won't confirm it and continue... (79 words)

Are there tell-tale signs that a guy is falling for you??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - We met 14 months ago and we see each other once a week. My gut feeling is that he cares more than he wants to. But how can you tell? Do guys have tell tale signs when they are starting to fall for you? (we are committed to others at this time)... (53 words)

I've liked him for 9 months and I was ready to tell him but it went wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

- Okay, so i've liked this guy for 9 months now, yesterday was the first day I was completely ready to tell him, but I knew it was going to be difficult because there were so many people around us, as it was a day out I planned for my birthday. I was pretty upset yesterda... (201 words)

What makes a man choose one women over another??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - As a woman, it may seem strange to pose this question, but here goes. Suppose a man is torn between two women, both of whom he likes and even loves and appreciates in different ways. What would make up his decision to go for one or the other? (He's gone out with each one, but... (102 words)

How can I make a girl laugh without trying too hard??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

- I've never had a girlfriend but I'm building up my confidence thanks to some counselling. I just have a set back. Every time I ask what girls like in a guy they said 2 things, 1 - Confidence 2 Someone who can make them laugh I'm starting to improve on the first one but I'm te... (104 words)

I'm scared but I know I'm ready.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 17 years old and so is my boyfriend. I'm ready to have sex with him, i'm just nervous because i'm a virgin and he isn't. What if i'm bad and don't know what to do and what if it hurts? I'm scared i suppose but i know i'm ready.... (50 words)

Do emotionally abusive people change that much in two months??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F) - I broke up with my fiance 2 months ago. We hadn't talked for about 3 weeks and he texted me saying he wishes me well, saying I didn't have to respond. I texted back the same. Well yesterday he called me from an unknown number and I answered and he said that he thought it was o... (836 words)

Do people lie about reasons for rejection??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Recently i was rejected by a girl from going on a date due to the fact she had a boyfriend. However, after some searching, i found that this was a lie. It really sucks that she lied and i was wondering if this happens often e.g guys get rejected and given false reasons. thanks... (55 words)

Do you ever forget your first love??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi, i want to ask everyone who has been in love two questions: Do you ever forget your first love? Would you get back with them if you had the chance?... (33 words)

Should I ask her out even though I am very complicated??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi aunts, like everybody else on this site i need help, this is a situation ive never experienced before and ill do my best to explain. Im 24 years old and a lesbian. I work as a personal trainer/gymnastics instructor i also dance in a club,if you've seen coyote ugly you'll k... (342 words)

I am really worried about my bf seeing me naked. Should I diet??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi everyone, I'm a 16-year-old girl and I'm having some issues. I have a lovely boyfriend, who is 6ft2 and absolutely gorgeous with an amazing body. Now I'm only 5ft2 and kinda chubby, which makes me feel really awful cause he's very concious about his body and looking good! I... (128 words)

I felt like time was passing me by...until now, my friend wants to be intimate but I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I had never been in a relationship till now when i felt that time is passing me by. A dear friend of mine who is three years younger than me because he knows me very well suggested we became intimate. I really do not know anything about love and being with him and i feel ver... (78 words)

I am sick of being second best...what should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going it with a man 10 years my senior (I am early 30's) He has terrible money problems that he refuses to address. He has moved away to get the great job he wanted but still makes no attempt to repay his debt. When he comes to visit he spends all his time dri... (148 words)

Do you divorce someone you 'will always love'?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 28 year old single guy, who has been seeing a married woman for the better part of a year. She first admitted having a romantic interest in me, and made it clear at that time, that her marriage had failed, and was on the way out the door. There are no kids involved. I ... (457 words)

This guy is lieing to me and my bf and it is tearing us apart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - Ok, there is this guy who is a lil obbsessed with me but i have a boyfriend who i love verry much. This guy will do anything to break us up like lieing to me; saying he smokes and cheats on me and he says the same to my boyfriend but i really need him to stop because i think ... (71 words)

My parents keep putting me down and saying I am insane...what should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - My parents keep telling me i am insane, i have problems, keep putting me down, i am scared because i know if they keep saying it then it will drive me to insanity... What shall i do? thanks chris... (43 words)

How can I stop this going further??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I had sex with another guy...he was able to get my photos from my cell phone..no photos are of the two of us..they are just my photos..nothing discriminating...he also has messages that i sent him from the one chat room..no emails from my private email system,just those from ... (118 words)

Why am I cold all the time??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Bit of a random one, but i am always cold, my boyfriend and my family and his family are always ok or hot yet i still feel cold. I'm not feeling tired, so is there any reason that could explain why i am so cold all time?... (49 words)

We are in a long distance relationship...and are thinking of moving together but are scared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy over the internet like 6 years ago we have met 3 times (he have met my family and I have met his). We live like 4,000 miles apart. I love him and I know he loves me too but we are not too sure about it. This time I don't have this over flowing rush of love tha... (164 words)

My mum is dying but my aunt is acting like she is already dead.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My mum was diagnosed with a terminal brain cancer in March and she is now getting worst. It has been a very tough time for the family since the diagnosis and it has not helped the way her sister (my aunt) has been acting since then. The doctors said she had less than a year... (212 words)

Why do I always get paranoid and think I will be ditched for someone else??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I am 33 and am currently dating a man of 38. We have only had 5 dates so far. Last night I took him to a dinner party with 7 other friends. There was a single girl there of a similar age to me who I thought was quite attractive. I noticed my man looking at her more... (219 words)

Is there a chance this could lead somewhere after a bad start??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A month ago I had a date with a guy I fancied, but he didn't really know me at all. It didn't go brilliantly, and he never called me, but we e.mailed a couple of times after that. Last week we bumped into each other and had a long chat, and it felt as if we were both more rel... (108 words)

I love her but I am getting tierd of waiting for her to leave her bf...should I wait for as long as it takes or move on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok, so i really need some advice on what to do. I've been friends with this girl for a little over a year know and we became the best of friends ever, but when i met her she just got a boyfriend and they have been goin out for just about as long as we have been friends.... (317 words)

Even though we used protection could I still be pregant??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I had sex with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago and we used a condom. My period has come on time, but it is realy light. I'm paranoid and worried i might be pregnant as i have put on weight as well. We used contraception but could i still be pregnant?! I'm so scared!... (54 words)

Why do I feel so old??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I am 14 and i feel really old. I don't know why but i just do. I am the youngest in my house as well. Why do i feel old, i havent even finished school yet?... (38 words)

Still haunted by our hour of lust.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I posted this earlier in the month but I am getting worse - it's eating me up inside. A girl at work (married, as am I, and devoted to her family)who has never strayed and myself started getting along very well having worked together for a few years. The result was a grabbed ... (330 words)

Once you cheat will you cheat again??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, a poll: Do you think once you cheat you will always cheat? Even if you found your soul-mate, married and are happy with each other and both agree that finding each other was the best thing that ever happened to you? I cheated and know it was wrong, but also know that I w... (74 words)

Is there anything that can help me deepen my voice??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - hello =) I just wanted to know if anyone knows of any hormones or what type of doctor i can see to help me deepen my voice? Everytime i get on the phone or im placing an order on drive through they think im a girl, by the way im 21 yr old gay male. ... (57 words)

Is my guy friend coming onto me and if so what do I say because he is making things awkward for me and my bf.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am in a loving happy relationship with a man i adore and who adores me and satisfies me in every way. We have been together since we were 17 and we are seriously happier than ever except... I have this male friend, and we have known each other longer than me and my boyfrien... (424 words)

My husband keeps contact with his ex. What should I do??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together since college. We have two young children. Last year he contacted some friends including an ex-girlfriend from high school through reunion.com. I recently found out that he has been in contact with her this whole time on almost a daily ba... (175 words)

My bf loves me with all his heart....but I don't love him, I am still in love with my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - So i am going out with this boy that i have gone out with him on and off for the past year and i am with him again. The thing is i still love my ex and i think he loves me. The hard part is my boyfriend is so totally in love with me and i am not. He would do anything for me a... (121 words)

We never said we were exclusive but he still gets jealous and now I know something is wrong. What could have happened??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been having sex with this guy for eight weeks. Every Friday night. He leaves Saturday mornings. We have only hung out 1 time other than Friday. Here's the thing: He gets jealous when other guys talk to me or flirt with me when we go to the bar. Last night he overhear... (174 words)

Should I forgive him for his jealous outbursts??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Well I asked a question about my boyfriend not being jealous. Well that all of a sudden has changed and now he's really jealous. Seriously, I can't stand him anymore and like just a minute ago he called me yelling because I hugged my friend who happened to be a guy because ... (208 words)

Guys give me name and numbers...but I just don't know what to do with a boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm 21yrs old and i have never had a boyfreind, i like to go out to partys and clubs with my freinds, i have had guys come up to me and ask me for my name and then my number. However, i've never given them my number and even though it feels good that other guys seem interest... (102 words)

I am being harressed and bullied at school...what should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I think I might be harassed and bullied at school. There is a group of people that laugh at me, and I don't know why. Its starting to make me wonder. I think its because of the way I look. I can't help myself of the way I look. There is another person that called me a name, an... (115 words)

Will my husband be able to tell I had sex before??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am having relatonship with my boy friend from last four years. We share physical too. Now i m getting marry to another person will my husband able to judge i had sex before. Pls reply soon i m worried... (40 words)

Does he reallly just want to be friends??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I was recently contacted by the man I dated (almost 20 years ago) before my husband. Our relationship was not that long, but very strong. We had a lot of fun, but also went through something traumatic together. He had to go back to his country for six months right after and ... (226 words)

How do I recover from my heartbreak and show him I don't need him??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Oh somebody please help.. About a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend of a year...(we dated for 2 years before that and broke up for a year before we dated again up until recently) He was my bestfriend, my everything. I told talked to him about everything and spend as much ... (427 words)

Why can't my family just be happy for me and support me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Well i have a long-distance relationship that has been going on for 1 year and a half. I love this guy and i know he loves me. I dont understand why my family can't get that through their heads. They always put me down with all the negative comments they tell me. I tried te... (83 words)

I told her how I feel.....and she hasn't answered me...what do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I finally told her how I felt... I sat her down and told her that our friendship meant so much to me, and that I would never do anything that I knew would hurt it. I told her that I know she has a boyfriend and I respect him and their relationship more than she knows. I asked ... (199 words)

He has been so mean to me yet I can't seem to hate him and move on...was he always a commitment phobe??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I met and fell in love with someone who I thought was a wonderful man. He came from an interesting family - his dad lives in another state than his mom (everyone thinks he lives a double life), but my man SEEMED to have a good head on his shoulders anyway. Initially, we lived... (1268 words)

My husband drinks, then becomes very aggresive and offensive. I don't earn enough money to support me and the property in his name!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Advice! Husband drinks then gets loud, aggressive, spits at me, calls me scum and tells me he has had better than me. Have endured two yrs of verbal abuse from his ex who has his kids! He done nothing about it. I now refuse to visit his family as they think its ok for her to ... (191 words)

Do I have a right to be concerned here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He's bisexual and I have never had a problem with it. He's never cheated on me with a guy, although in the past he cheated on me twice with the same girl. Anyways, the other night while we were out after having a few drin... (209 words)

Depressed...

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2 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - This is a very big problem and I need help. When I was about 3 years, I fell into a pot of hotwater and it affected my left leg, I mean a scar and when I was about 10 years, a dog bit me on my right leg ankle so I also have a scar. I am a very pretty girl, my body is fresh and ... (213 words)

How do you help your man through a rough patch...?

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2 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. I will really appreciate any advice or tips you might give. How do you help your man through a rough patch (financial, career issues) that has been going on for months now when you yourself are weighed down by your own problems, responsibilities and very tight income? I ... (104 words)

Traditional parents, not-so-traditional daughter

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2 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My parents have long been telling me not to date. 1) boys get in the way of studies, 2) boys can go too far. I met this guy, we've dating for a long time.. and yes, I know this doesn't sound real, but to me.. it's the real thing. I'm 16 years old, he's the same. I want to tell ... (93 words)

I feel like this is a line and means nothing. What do you think?

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2 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a man for 10 months, and though we never sat down and had a conversation agreeing to be exclusive, he told me that he was not seeing anyone else four months. Six weeks ago, I told him I didn't want to see anyone else either and he seemed very pleased. Two weeks ago a ... (161 words)

Help! I turn into a bumbling idiot just thinking of him!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been a regular patron of a lounge in my area for about 5 years now. In the past I have casually dated a few men I've met there, however try to keep things just friendly as I don't want my life to play out like a bad season of "Cheers" lol. Recently I've developed feelings ... (227 words)

Is it really the army or is he lying to me? PLEASE HELP

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I never doubted for one second that my boyfriend is not telling me the truth, I always believed in him, in us, I look up to him, I trust him and I respect him. He says we fit together and he is right, we do fit together. He says he loves me, he said that he never had a ... (403 words)

Is it too late to save?

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2 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in this relationship for about 7 years. we have a 3 year old son and we haven't had sex in almost 3 months. We sleep with seperate blankets sometimes seperate rooms and he don't kiss or hug me. I love him so much and I don't want to break up our family and ... (144 words)

Am I too old for him?

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2 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hi all I met this guy about 4 weeks ago and everything is good between us we get on and have the same interest in music and films. I'm just worried as I'm 26 and he's 22. Do you think I should end it with him although we get on well, I'm just worried about what people thin... (73 words)

I am ready to put this situation behind me once and for all, but the ghosts of the past continue to haunt me.

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2 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Before my current girlfriend and I got together, she secretly had been sleeping with my best friend for 6 months. The three of us had been very close friends for two years, and the two of them became friends through me. I will admit right now that I waited entirely too long to ... (1008 words)

Why don't they want to be my friend any more?

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2 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm having a little bit of trouble with my friends. I recently began attending church after being brought up in a non religious household. And now, the friends I went to church with don't want me to go with them anymore. I'm not sure what I did wrong, but they were the only way... (80 words)

Is this worth fighting for?

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2 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Me and my girlfriend were together for five months. It was a happy loving relationship. We never once fell out, I treated her so well and would of done anything for her and she knew this. everyone was really surprised that it finished and still are..... Towards the en... (1373 words)

How to stop loving an ex?

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2 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been separated 5 years and divorced 3. He was the love of my life, it wasn't perfect, far from it. Generally we were happy. I thought after 17years I would grow old with him. Infidelity (His) became an issue, not once, not twice but the last time, in an abhorent way ... (161 words)

Should I get over this guy? How do I do that!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

2 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I really don't know how to start, but some guidance would be appreciated... I'm just going to tell you my story. I'm an independent girl, I'm 24 years old, have a great job and live alone. I've always told everyone how being single is the best and how I don't need men... (731 words)