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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My boyfriend was seeing me and another chick at the same time. I confronted him and told her what he is like but he made her think I'm just a crazy ex. What is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend was trying to see me and another chick at the same time.I seen her leave his house and I went in the house and we argued and she called while I was there.I answered his phone and told her I been sleeping with him also.Of course he took the phone and hanged up and ... (159 words)

I've taken the morning after pill twice within one cycle, will that mean it won't work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi.. i messed up my contaceptive pill (i forgot wen to start the nxt pack) n i had unprotected sex with my bf.. he didnt cum in me but i took the morning after pill 36hours after we did it, 5days later i had sex with him again and used a condom but it split and took the morning ... (90 words)

I have a boyfriend but I kissed another girl, should I tell my boyfriend or just forget about it and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - When i was on holidays i got drunk and kissed another girl. I kissed her again when i was sober and kept in touch with her online after holidays. I always had a curiosity about the same sex and couldnt get this experience out of my head for a long time. Im now no longer in ... (142 words)

Should I go for the new, cute guy but who I don't even know, or should I continue seeing the old boyfriend who I feel more comfortable with although we are no longer in the same school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - there are questions and not all can be answerd but should i ask out a different guy or go with my old bf he really cared but the problem is he is at my old school and i miss him a lot but should i go with the guy at my new school he is really cute but the question is should i ... (115 words)

Is this girl fair game to me? And if so, how would you advice I pursue her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - A while back a buddy of mine wanted to set me up with a friend of his. At the time I think we both weren't interested in being set up. Well, I finally met this young woman (we r both mid-twenties)at a party and i think we connected. There was definitely some positive body ... (169 words)

My partner of 4 years fell in love with someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Two months ago i found out my partner of 4 years had been cheating on me. well not just cheating he actually fell in love with someone else. We had been living apart temporarily. things hadn't been going well financially so i moved back into my parents for a short peri... (368 words)

I really like this boy, but feel insecure whether he likes me too, what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, well, i really like this boy and in some lessons i find him looking at me but i dont really speak to him so i cant tell if he likes me by that but when he walks past me when im with my friends in the corridoors he puts his head down looking all embarrassed. does this mea... (70 words)

When the ex and her family is around I am completely ignored. Is he still in love with her, dwelling on the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for 4 1/2 years. We are both divorced and have 2 children each, all around the same ages. My problem is he can't let go of his past. It started with his job, he is a firefighter and was demoted from an officer to a regular firefighter due to an ... (461 words)

Can't bear to be around pretty girls because I think my boyfriend can do so much better than me. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F) - Around 6 months ago i found texts from 2 girls my boyfriend works with and i completely freaked out, even though i have to admit the texts were completely innocent, if only a little bit flirty. One of the girls is a model and i cant let this fact go. I'm driving my boyfriend ... (122 words)

Are these signs of pregnancy? What else could they mean? I've tender breasts, stomachaches, backaches and vomit.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Think i could be pregnant all of a sudden throwing up tender breasts stomache and back aches dardnt go to the doctors or tell ANYONE il get called a slag at my school what else can it be? what can i do?any anwers appriciated!! x x xx xx xx ... (57 words)

Open-relationship is making me self-conscious. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm not sure if I'm okay with the open relationship I have with my boyfriend. I don't think ordinarily I'd be so worried or upset, but the girls he wants to go after are thinner than me, and it makes me feel very self-conscious. Like, if he's going after them, is that th... (96 words)

People sometimes poke fun at me; I want to have their respect without fighting! Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (M) - dear cupid i am having a problem, i seem to say stupid stuff and everyone laughs at me, my other problem is that i am scared and do not have the braveness to stand up to people so in the process people end up calling me names and make fun of me. is their anyway i can mak... (75 words)

I'm a good flirt and I have a good personality but still I'm never the one that guys seem to bother with, what can I do to change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

- I'm never the one that guys seem to bother with. They'll occasionally chat to, and have a bit of a flirt. But then I always seem to be left after that for some other girl. No-one seems to want to make the effort with me to even ask me out. I'm not a bad flirt, and my friend... (98 words)

How likely is it to get pregnant on day 9 of your cycle...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey there guys... I know that there is a possibility of pregnancy during ANY time of your cycle..but I know there are more likely and unlikely times... I was wondering how likley it is to get pregnant on day 9 of your cycle...? bearing in mind sperm can live up to 5 days? pl... (59 words)

I was in love with my teacher when I kissed my classmate as a result of Truth or Dare, now I am confused about how I feel. Do I tell my mate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi i really need help as im so confused. it all started on tuesday in physics i was bored so i said randomly lets play truth or dare it went around the table then someone ask me truth or dare and i said dare and my friend said kiss (lets call him mike) i was like not here. ... (877 words)

My husband's cat is very dirty, makes noise, has attacked a friend - I'm concerned about my babies' safety, yet my partner wants to keep it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I really dislike my husband's cat! She's 11 yrs. old, she has long hair that falls out in clumps, I have found little clumps of hair that have feces in it, all over the house..I am 6 months pregnant and I have an 8 month old and I do not want this gross cat around them. I can ... (438 words)

What do you think about adverting to seek a female friend? What should I write in order to impress?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - hi people i just writng to seek a advice well i want to do adverting to seek a female friend it is good thing or bad thing to do i want female friend to go out with if i do adverting , what should i do to impress female to be my friend without any problem thx craig... (71 words)

I look at mens "bits", gay porno and worry I might be gay... but I don't want to be gay!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - i fear i am gay. when i think about men i get an erection, and in the showers after rugby i tend to stare at others penises (we all shower with our pants on) i also tend to stare at other mens crotch areas. Also i look at gay porn. i get a bit horny when i think of women, ... (116 words)

How do I stop my large breasts giving me stretch marks?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 51 days ago

14 December 2007 (F) age 16-17 - I have size 30G breasts and I hate it because I have recently started getting stretch marks because they keep on growing. Does anyone have any ideas, help or tips on how i can prevent this because the marks are making me afraid to ever show any cleavage or ever "get my tits ... (64 words)

Christmas present dilemma. Bought her a present last year, which she didn't reciprocate, so how do I proceed THIS year?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Right i got a christmas present dilemma! Last year, i bought a friend a present 4 xmas (Big box of malteasers) and i never got anything back! Even though she kept saying that she was gonna send me some money in a card! Anyway I put that in the past and now xmas is approach... (211 words)

I'm 15 and lesbian... should I come out? I fear the negative reactions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, I'm 15 and have been fairly certain I was gay/lesbian since everyone else started getting crushes on guys... and I started having them on girls. I only really accepted it about 7 or 8 months ago though, and a couple of months after that I got into a relationship with this ... (175 words)

Our age difference is hurting him and people are calling him "paedo"... should I break this off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Heyz! i am a 13 year old girl.. dating a.. 18 year old guy. i know there is a big age difference. My problem is that our age difference is hurting him. everyone has been calling him a pedophile, telling him he will go to jail. He fakes a smile every now and then. but i can see ... (75 words)

Things are getting bad with my old boyfriend and my ex keeps asking me to get back with him. I'm very confused now and don't know what to do, what do you think about all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - im absolutely torn between 2 guys...i was going out with a guy for 4 years and broke up recentely.now im going out with a guy ive known for years...my ex keeps asking me o get back with him and im not sure if i want to get back, bt things are gettin bad with this other guy now ... (116 words)

My ex girl wants to get back with me... am I playing second best here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hi, me and my gf broke up recently despite still loving each other, but the spark had gone. After we split she fancied a guy who also liked her, nothing happened and thie guy found someone else, my ex was really down and has now suggested that she would like to get back with ... (63 words)

I've been down about not having a girlfriend for ages... now I've got one and (half) had sex with her, I'm really not bothered about it all. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

- I have a problem. I'm in my 20's and for a long time I was pining at the fact that no girl would ever want to go out with me and I would be alone. Well, surprise surprise, I actually have a girlfriend, we both were friends for a couple of months and she is interesting, we talk ... (234 words)

He's displays affection, but is not as passionate as when we first started going out. Sometimes I feel he is not happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone Just need your advice really as Im confused. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a bit months now and we have slept together an all but I am confused as to how he feels and if he is actually wanting a committed relationship. We have talked i... (374 words)

Why does he lie about his naked picture thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - why does my husband hide and lie about forwarding and looking at pictures of necked women?... (16 words)

Does this text message "friend" thing the same as cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband of 4 years had a secret mail friend for 2 months, they were sending each other text message on the phone and talking almost every day for that period, he says she is just a friend and nothing else, i feel very betrayed co i found out because i saw a message she had ... (65 words)

I want to secretly visit my LD bf - who lives abroad - without telling my mother. Good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F) - they say people will do ANYTHING for the love. so okay i got to know this guy who lives in another country. and we're currently on a long distance relationship. i love him so much i swear and i guess he loves me back the same. and recently i have this crazy idea to travel t... (172 words)

He says he loves me, but?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Well my boyfriend and I use to be tight and everything but lately it seems I can't do anything right....it all started out when my ex came back and told me to chose between him or my boyfriend and so I picked my boyfriend and when I told him he started acting mean and saying ... (98 words)

What can I do about this troublesome long-distance family situation? Need ideas.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 34 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Please help. This is not a question about a love or sex relationship but I really need some objective viewpoints on this one. I am a husband and father of 51 years. My wife is 50. We have a son, 26 out of the house and a daughter of 22 who still lives at home. I am the... (389 words)

Breasts developing methods - avoiding side effects? Also, what do you think of padded bras?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hello everyone i'm pakistani. i'm going to get married i'm woorried abt my figure. I' m 23 years old,my hight is 5'3" my weight is 44kg.i have small breasts like A cup.i get called names and fel ambarassed.so i have to use padded bra......... my question is 1...can i ... (131 words)

How can I give one the brush off without hurting him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a boyfriend but he stays far away. He is always talking of marrying but I am not ready even though I do love him. I got involved in another relationship when he was away and began to love the two equally. I want to remain with one but I can't stand breaking the other ... (63 words)

I'm broken hearted (unemployed) and dreading Xmas...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm 35 yrs old and just recently split up with an ex, whom i had worked with for a couple of years before anything happened between us. last year she took a suddn interest in me after she had recently split up with her boyfriend . i was a little confused as i barely knew her ... (428 words)

I'm torn between two men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - dear cupid im in love with two guys and need your help i've been dating this guy for a year, and our relationship is great, i am so in love with this guy and i can see it in his eyes that he feels the same about me, he so loving, carring, and very passionate when it comes... (185 words)

How do I talk to women in bars and clubs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - This one is for anybody that feels they can offer any guidance. I recently was broken up with by me ex of 2 years whom i loved with all my heart, and to my own admittance i am not over her in the slightest. But the breakup has left me with zero confidence. I now find it a... (123 words)

If I want to become a psychiatrist, what is the ideal age to have children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles I have my life sorted out and by that I mean I know exactly what I want from life and my future career. The only problem is children. I already have the perfet guy who i've been with for 14 months and a bit so thats not a problem, but if I want t... (138 words)

I don't want him to meet my family - should I break it off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship for 1 and a half years. We are in love but recently he moved to another country for work but then told me that he wants to meet my family and wants to make things work. I know I love him but the thought of taking him home has made me really look at ... (125 words)

Should I keep trying to get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hello,i meet this guy a few weeks ago, and he did all texting so he must have liked me eveything was going really well and i did stay round his house a few times where he wanted to have sex and i said to wait a little longer to i get used to him which he did but keep saying he ... (206 words)

I need support from my parents - am I being selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi. i just need to get this out of my head. my parents have got to be the most insensitive at times. last september, me and ex split. at the peak of our relaionship. its taking me ages to get over her. i am but its very slow. i think sometimes there's a little hope that we'll ... (226 words)

Could it be that he wants to forget about me because he's going to stay with the girlfriend after all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I worked with a guy for 4 years and the entire time I had a major crush on him. I am married but not happily. And he (guy at work) lives with his girlfriend. Anyway, a few months ago he got a new job and I went out to buy him a few drinks to say goodbye. While out, he told ... (315 words)

Do some relationships just not work out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - is age relevent, im 20 and i dated a 32 yr old with a child. things were grate when we were together and i never had an issue but whenever i thought of introducing him to my friends i couldnt see him fitting in. is it enough for just the 2 of you to get on, or does he need ... (98 words)

How can I make my husband interested in me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I make my husband interested in me again? Ever since fell pregnant with my 3 year old daughter my husband has never come near me. We havent had even so much as a quick cuddle in bed since she was born. I am becoming frustrated and thinking along the lines of having ... (165 words)

I'm in a long distance marriage... I get a lot of attention from most men - except my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 2 years now. 4 months ago, my husband and I enter in a long distance marriage. We used to talk on the phone every day. Now we don't amymore and he almost never calls unless I do. We see each other on the weekends. He is very conected to his parents and ... (118 words)

Should I leave him alone or try to make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - There is a guy that i like. He likes me to i know because he told me several times. He likes to play fight and always wants to see me he flirts with me alot too. But he is unfaithful that is what he told me, when i went out of town. But now that i am back in town he acts like ... (92 words)

Are people interested in dating a mixed-race person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Are people interested in dating a mixed race person? the reason i ask is i am a mixed race girl , 23 years old , a virgin never had a boyfriend or date and i don't know why . my father white and my mother black. any way i would mind being with someone of another race or relig... (270 words)

Who do I confront for the truth? I suspect betrayal.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i suspect my best friend and the man i have been friends with for years and crazy about are involved.who do i confront for the truth?she knows i am crazy about him.... (32 words)

Once a man has a history in Cheating, is it statistics or signs he will continue on this pattern?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (?) age 36-40 - If a man has cheated on his first wife and divorces her. Then marries the Gf he had the affair with and cheats on her and divorces her.Will he continue this pattern with the current Gf?... (36 words)

Our relationship was fine to start with, but we've recently started arguing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - First off, I'd like to say that this is a wonderfull site, I have read alot off of it, and have learnt much. I'm 17 years old and my girlfriend is 16 years old (we are 4 months apart in age) Both are juniors in highschool. We have been dating for 10 months now. Everythi... (507 words)

Does my crush like me? How do I know?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

14 December 2007 (?) age 16-17 - how do i tell if my crush likes me? I'm naturely blonde so i act dumb sometimes. when i first moved here i didn't notice him at first until this boy that picks on every day.he stars at me and finds thing to anoy me.every day he would say oh this boy likes me then the next ... (1430 words)

How do I say goodbye to my true love without making it harder for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my bf for nearly 9 months now. i never belived people when they said one day you will find the man for you. i now know what they mean. he is loving, caring and very effectionet. he works away some times which i have always known. i am fine with that as that is ... (249 words)

Why do I come so quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - i'm a 16 old male and i was wonder y do i cum so fast i cam only go to a max of 5min... (24 words)

My boyfriend is in jail for abusing his sister when she was younger... Am I stupid for staying with him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Well, my boyfriend is in jail now. He has been in there for almost 7 months. His sister called the cops and told them that he raped her ever since she was 8 and he was 10. Of course, i didnt believe her, but he is in jail, but then again, all the "evidence" they have are her ... (279 words)

I'm in love with another woman but don't want to break my wife's heart!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - im a married man of 22 years i recently met a woman and fell deeply in love, she is not married but has two children. i cant seem to leave my home or wife but want to be with her she is the other half of me. my children are grown hers are still young, and i dont want to break ... (66 words)

He's texty flirty - how do I tell him to stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - should i brake up with my boyfriend or not he is rejecting me im 15 years ola and he has been ignoring me to also but the thing is we havent told anyone the only way we talk is bye texting each other and he always seems to be flirting with other girls how should i tell him to ... (60 words)

Is he doing this just to make me feel bad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - what should i do my boyfriend keeps rejecting me. so everytime i ask him to the mall or a date he says im busy and im wondering does he really love me or is he just doing this not to make me feel bad i need advice what should i do to tellhim how i feel... (56 words)

He doesn't want any commitments as he's joining the Navy in 2 months... Do I leave now or later? - either way I will get hurt.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I have just started seeing a guy, he is absolutley amazin and I can honestly say that I've never met a guy like him before... the only problem is that he is going away to join the Navy in 2 months... he says he doesn't want any commitments - doesnt want anything holding him ... (86 words)

How can I forget my ex if he always texts me and says pleasant things I want to hear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I had just been broken up with my boyfriend last september, I want to move on and forget him.... but time pass, I so sure that I love him but not trying to get him back.... He always makes me special eventhough were not together anymore and he always text me and he always say ... (67 words)

I'm in public school. A boy flirts with me showing vulgarity and indecent language. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I really need help. I'm only 13 and I'm still in public school. This guy's been kind of bugging and flirting with me. one time he talked so dirty i was like '' help '' lol he was like '' i want your n*pples '' and he put out his two fingers and shaped it as a V and put his ... (74 words)

He texts her early in the morning. Am I right to be upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

14 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend has been textin a girl who he says he friends with and i didnt trust him at first but no i believe him, he told me he wouldnt talk to her anymore an told her he didnt want to talk to her because it upset me, but i didnt want him resenting or blaming me for ruining ... (200 words)