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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I am I doing the right thing, should I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I have had bad relationships - (REALLY BAD RELATIONSHIPS) and I have also have had a very troubled life but I met this awsome guy and I love him so much but I couldn't trust him for along time because I'm afraid he would do the same as all the others but he is a wonderful guy ... (88 words)

I'm tired of being his doormat...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been married to my husband for 3 and a half years and throughout our relationship I have become his doormat. I've changed everything to make him happier, but I feel like he only comes to me when he needs something such as sex or food. He treats me like a maid, leaves his ... (137 words)

Am I silly still liking him after what's happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I started working in this bar from July time to end of October and I'd always liked the manager that worked there. I knew he had a girlfriend and always did but he's like the only person I could think about. About the beginning of October I finshed work and he gave m a lift ... (379 words)

I'm having some disturbing dreams... Can anybody explain why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Recently i have been having some disturbing dreams.It all started when i was searching for something in our loft. I found a shoe box with some photos of my mother before i was born. She was wearing a really skimpy dress and despite myself i got abit aroused by it, but i quickly ... (148 words)

I like my teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I really like my teacher and i always am thinking about him. He compliments me and it makes me feel good. I want to tell him and show him but, Im not shure if that is the right thing to do. Please commet!!!!!!!... (43 words)

I video taped my mother in the shower and masturbated while watching it.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Before I left for uni in September I did something horrible. I got drunk one night and hid in our airing cupboard in the bathroom. I waited for my mother to take a shower. I watched her undress and masturbated over her as she showered. I felt disgusted with myself afterwards ... (105 words)

Can I get pregnant 2 days after my ovulation day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - can i get pregnant 2 days after my ovulation day? how long do i stay ovulating after that day.?... (19 words)

How can I explain to my ex that I cared for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I need your help guys. I saw this girl last yr very briefly but quickly bailed out b4 it got serious (just wasnt ready for a serious rship). In Jan i started thinking abt her again thinking i didnt give her a chance and decided to go back and not be so fickle this time. Unknown ... (308 words)

Is it possible to get into a relationship while hung up over someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Theres a guy iv liked for a while but clearly isnt interested thus a waste of time being hung up over... however I go cold when ever another guy gets close to me and then i dont even want to see them! for example a really nice decent guy asked me out and 3 days later i was... (124 words)

I've made her feel like I don't trust her. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi hope i can get some other peoples perspective on this ,i have been going out with my girlfriend for 1 year most of the time things are brillant we spend a lot of time together have a lot of fun ,have a lot in common and love each others company, however recently she went ... (237 words)

I've met a guy online. Should I meet him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have meet someone online. We are planning to meet but I am not sure what the best way to do this is. We live about 20 miles from one another. Does anyone have any advise on the best way to go about meeting? It would be wonderful to hear your option... (52 words)

I was alone this Christmas... She wasn't, and it's hard for me to accept. How can I ease the pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I've just spent my first christmas alone in 3 years. Worse yet, my ex has gone into a relationship in the past couple of months. I'm lonely, and now she has somebody. I tried not to let it ruin the holiday for me, but knowing that she has somebody to spend this time of year ... (88 words)

Tips about men attracting women and the mistakes generally made during the process?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I HAVE A QUESTION AS TO WHAT ARE THE SECRETS TO ATTRACT WOMEN. HOW CAN MEN ATTRACT WOMEN AND WHAT ARE THE MISTAKES COMMONLY FOR MAN? [Moderator's note. Caps off next time, please.]... (34 words)

Things are so complicated. Somebody help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - right you wont belive the mess im in, bassically im 19 years old, jus come out of a pretty destructive relationship, ive known this girl for 4 years, we dated when we were younger although it wasnt very serious, she was besotted with me, but being a young lad, didnt know how to ... (478 words)

Am I in love or only feeling jealous of her moving on? Why are my mind and heart going in thousands of directions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I would like to know if I am still in love or is it just being hurt. Please let me explain. My ex and I broke up 5 months ago, after 7 years, because I cheated on her with a friend of hers. I know I am a very bad person and I pray all the time and I have asked my ex for her ... (260 words)

How can I believe him when he says I'm beautiful?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband gets up really early in the morning for work. This is also when all the porn is on. I understand men wake up excited and need a release. My problem is I feel like I'm being compared later when we have sex or I am naked in front of him. He says absolutly not. I have ... (98 words)

I just can't find a way out! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I was friends this older man and all i wanted a frienship, but somehow it lead to being more than just that. He wanted more but i did not because of the age difference. Later in the last year I ended the relationship and continue the friendship. In that same year he jumps up ... (277 words)

I've broken up with my girlfriend of 3 years. When is it ok to start dating again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I broke up with my girlfriend of 3yrs about 3 weeks ago, and i was wondering when is it a good time to start dating other people? Ive started to like a girl that i work with and shes made it pretty clear that she likes me also, but im not sure if its too soon to start dating ... (76 words)

Of all the girls in the class, he only flirts with me and tells me he loves me. What does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 140 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm a 13 year old girl. This boy in my class flirts with me alot. The thing is he only does it to me. He strokes my hair, calls me baby and stuff. He always says '' I love you, Caylen. '' Soemtimes he hugs me when he says it. He only tells me he loves me and not to other girls. ... (77 words)

Are all men fools or are there nice guys out there??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - just wondering are all men fools or are there nice ones out there? i had been seeing a guy on and off for a yr and he asked me to see him today. Last night about a half an hour later he kissed another girl in front of me. He knew about my ex boyfriend because he asked me what ... (173 words)

Do the loudness and moans mean a higher level of enjoyment during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My gf and I just had sex for the first time. Does the loudness and the amount of noises and moans mean a higher level of enjoyment? Do moans mean that I am satisfying her sexually?... (36 words)

How do I know if he just likes me for me or because we make out? I'm invisible when his friends are near.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, I like this boy, and sometimes we make out but when he is with is friends, Im just an invisible line... How can I get im to notice me even more, and treat me like is girlfriend? And how do I know i e just likes me because im pretty or because we make out? Lov... (65 words)

She wants sex with me, and her friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hey ppl! i need some help here!! okay so i just broke up with my ex gf that i have dated for 3 years, we remain good friends and we have a mutual agreement that we can still have sex with each other even if we are seeing someone else..but since we were highschool lovers, so we ... (206 words)

I've known him ten years and we have different birth sigs. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have met him 10 years ago, he is my first love. We dated back in 1998, then we split up bcoz he was seen with a girl while I was away studying abroad. Then we dated again briefly in 2000, and went out again for several months in 2005. The last time we were splitting up, I ... (228 words)

I've never really talked to the girl cause of my shyness and I've problems in starting a conversation out of the blue. How do I gain courage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi there, im need of a really strong push in the right direction of a certain girl i really like. its typical really, shes stunningly attractive to me (my friends say shes average, pfft what do they know). iv liked her all summer, but everytime i see her i just freeze li... (240 words)

Is he leading me on, or does he actually like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 140 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Theres this guy I like.. and Ive known him for almost 7 years on the internet but only started talking again 3 years ago. He lives in Devon whereas I live in Kent, so as you can imagine.. its a long way. He studys at Plymouth University.. and is in his 3rd year, so he's 21. We ... (258 words)

I'm a teacher and have formed a good online friendship with a quite mature teenager(17). Am I wrong to want to meet her - or even to be talking to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

27 December 2007 (?) age 26-29 - hi there. i am a 28 year old teacher..been working near London for about 5 years.. problem is I met a girl on line about 4 months ago..she is 17 doing 'A' levels in a different school (about 100 miles away) i might add, and is quite mature..we get along great..chat most day... (98 words)

I think she's ruined my life. What am I going to do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - this girls screwed my life. i dated this girl 4 years ago,nothing serious we were kids,i was shy didnt let on i liked her,didnt know how to deal with it lol, at the time another girl was txt messaging me,i never even met up with this other girl,being a stupid lad thinking it ... (474 words)

A younger lady is doing everything possible to ruin my happy home, even calling ME. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been married for almost 6yrs now. it has been a very happy one, blessed with two boys. recently, my hubby met a younger lady of about 21yrs. i know my hubby loves me, but this younger lady is doing everything possible to ruin my happy home. she keeps sending romantic ... (64 words)

The only person that ever notices me is my fiance. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - o.k. so here is the thing I'm completely invisable to my family. They don't care what i want or what i say they just go on about their lives like i don't exist and i don't know what to do. I extremely close to lashing out but i don''t want to do that and the only person on ... (87 words)

So many questions - anyone got any answers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, So i've got myself in a real pickle. I've recently broke up with my ex girlfriend of 18 months. She cheated on me once in january, and then she was so amazing to me we got back together. She then went to uni, and i moved to italy for a couple of months. She slep... (647 words)

Should I tell her I fancy her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i fancy this girl who is a year younger than me (i'm redoing my first year at college) but she already has a boyfriend. i don't know wether i should tell her or if i should get over her and if so how?... (43 words)

Would you let your husband go away for the weekend with a woman he fancies?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my husband for eleven years now, and although things are fairly good between us, he has developed a crush on another woman. He met her on a weekend away with the boys in the middle of summer, and has been sending odd messages here and there to her facebook ... (348 words)

We're on two completely different wavelengths, and I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

I refuse to be a friend with benefits. I want a proper relationship. How do I tell him I'm still in love with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and my ex broke up the beginning of November. We was together close to 7 months. We stopped talking and I truly thought it was over. I was working on moving on. Been a long hard road tho cuz I can honestly say with him it was true love. Im 25 years old and have dated of... (522 words)

My troubled girlfriend is devoid of affection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My new Girlfriend has a lot of history, Drugs,Drink+ abuse by partners and other issues that at the moment i'd like to keep private. I have accepted all of this but I find she is devoid of affection, rejects compliments and hates her appearance. I have been told by her to stop ... (86 words)

Should I go for it . . . .or end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I like a guy a lot..we have been good friends for about 2 years now...I always felt an atachment for him from when I first met him...He broke up with his gf about 8 months now(not because of me)..I provided as much support as I could when he was grieving....and than few months ... (261 words)

He still cares about his ex, but why can't he be bothered with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 5 months, been together 2.5 yrs and have a 14 month old child. Prior to that, my husband was with a woman for 10 years, they had a kind of friends relationship with on/off sex but he clearly doted on her, she can do no wrong in his eyes and he only left ... (742 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend that I slept in the same bed as another guy, even though it was platonic?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I went out with my friends a few days before xmas, and it got quite late, so i stayed at a friends house. There were only two double beds, and four of us. The couple got one, and i was left to the other one, having to share with my male friend who i know has strong feelings of ... (292 words)

Has this relationship reached the end of the road?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I split up in February. We didn't live together or anything but we had been seeing each other for just over 4 years when we split. Things hadn't been good for around 6 months before the split and I felt we were at different points in our lives. We got together ... (292 words)

Do you think one day he could come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I fell in love with my best friend. In the beginning it was beautiful, but over the years our friendship and relationship deteriorated until the end where there was just too much bad to continue (loss of independence, balance, respect, support, trust). So he ended it and I l... (74 words)

Should I expect gifts in return from his mother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Been with my man for 5 years, since we were teens. I get on with his family well and as far as I know they like me just fine, they are not rude. I hardly ever see them as they are busy people but yeah, we get along, no problems, it is friendly. He lives with his mum right no... (364 words)

I only like his looks, because I don't know his personality well. I'm already in a relationship though and feel confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - my boyfriend's friend loves me, and i think i love him more, but i only like his looks casue i don't know alot about his personality yet. what should i do?? stay with my boyfriend or go with his friend?... (40 words)

I'm middle aged, met the girl of my dreams in Spain, she broke up as I was moving too fast. Will the present I sent her make her reanalyse the situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) age 51-59 - im a middle aged man,in june i went to spain and met the girl of my dreams,i traveled to spain 4 times to see her she came to london,i though everything was great,unfortunately i got carried away and went to fast,resulting in getting dumped for going to fast and being told ... (115 words)

I'm leaving my husband because he had a 2 yr affair with my sister, a long time ago. People don't know the true reason and incriminate me for the break up. Should I forgive him instead?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for 18 years, no kids. Ten years ago, I found out that my sister and husband had had sex, once. I forgave them.... and none of us talked about it again. It was very painful as I had no one to talk to about it at the time... and I never wanted anyone to ... (308 words)

What would be the most unpainful position for my virgin girlfriend during sex? Other tips to reduce the hurt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - what would be the most unpainful position, for my girlfriend during sex? if the time comes i really dont want to hert her, what is the best way to make it as painless as possible for her? i would do enything, to keep from hurting her if it meant stopping if it was hurti... (87 words)

How can I prevent her leaving and going hundreds of miles away to school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - im i4 year's old, i have the greatest girlfriend a guy could ask for.she is very atractive she has a good personality. and she is very ahppy about our reltionship. I also feel very strong about it. we have been going out for a few month's, and we have fallen in love with ech... (398 words)

Am I doing the right thing? What do I say next time we meet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A long-time family friend (we are both divorced; he has been attracted to me for some time) suddenly contacted me, we started to text message/phone each other, and went out on a few casual dates. This changed our friendship but over a period of 3 months, however, we went out... (206 words)

Should I fight or give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Been in and out of this relationship for 19 years. He was my first love as well as I was his. We have a 17 year old together. 2 years ago he finally proposed and we have been scheduled to be married Feb 2008. I have been there with him through drug addiction(5years clean), ... (164 words)

Is it true that if you can't love yourself you can't love someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Is it true that if u can't love yourself then you cant love someone else? i thought i disagreed but now i cant get it out of my head.... (29 words)

Am I overweight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - this is a huge question, i have a very low selfesteam and i need to know is 116 lbs to much for me i'm 5'0 and 14...i always feel fat and disgusting i use to obsese over my weight (NOT anerexic/bulimic)but now that i dont as much i have gained wieght b'cuz i was 109...do u ... (60 words)

To girls: Do you prefer a shaved chest or hairy chest? Shaved pubic hair or just trimmed?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - What do you girls like more, a Shaved chest or one with hair? And same question about pubic hair: Shaved completely or just trimed? ... (29 words)

I haven't seen my dad since I was 3, now he calls me but every couple of months he tells me hates me and it's very hurtful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 14 and haven't seen my dad since i was three he started callin me last year but every couple of months he tells me he hates me and that i wont amount to anything (other stuff but very inapropriate) then he turns around and acts like it never happened. i do alot of cryind ... (87 words)

He knows how I feel about him, but how can I tell if he feels the same about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I've worked with this guy for about 2 months now, and i've liked him for quite a while. The more i try to get mad at him, or try to find a flaw or a fault. I seem to get drawn in to him even more. But, me so scared to tell him how i feel, I'm being told by everyone we know, ... (195 words)

My boyfriend and I fell out over our Xmas arrangements!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I are home from college for Christmas break. We pretty much live together at school and are about 12 miles apart here at home. We have been going out for more than four years. He got home five days before me and spent that time exclusively with his family. I ... (324 words)

Why would he be like this with me if he's so in love with his wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - this is hard to explain, but im goin to try. im 18 years old and im in highschool and i feel that my 45 year old teacher has feelings for me but i dont really understand it bc hes always telling me how much hes in love with his 24 year old wife, but then he emails me and tells ... (256 words)

How do I improve this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and we have both decided we want to move in together. However, realizing our leases were up at separate times, mine being up 4 months earlier, we talked about me getting an interim place, bigger than where I live now, so that ... (137 words)

Keeping a conversation alive? I only seem to have problems when I'm attracted to the girl I talk to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi. The issue I have is. When I first meet a girl who I am attracted to (yes, only those I am attracted to) I cant seem to hold a conversation. I can approach and start conversations very easily but its keeping the conversation alive long enough to ask for information (p... (125 words)

We are dealing with the loss of my father and my brother has just decided to spend the holidays with his affair. I feel like I have been mortally wounded for the second time this year. How will I be able to forgive my brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My Dad died two months ago. I flew home for his funeral at the beginning of a trip for our 25th Wedding Anniversary. My brother took forever to get home for his funeral, I was home before he was - and I came home from Europe. My brother is suffering from cancer and has a ... (573 words)

Sex in the laundry room. Your experiences, recommendations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My lover and I are exploring new places around the house for having sex. We want to try doing it in the laundry room. What is your experience with sex in a laundry room? What sex positions work well in the laundry room? Have you done it on the washer/dryer while it was ... (55 words)

I am looking forward to college parties. Is there a best place at parties to have sex with a random guy you have just met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I will be in college soon. I look forward to college parties. I hear they are hot. Let's say while I am at a college party I find a cute guy. We can touch, kiss, and make out at the parties. What if we want to have sex at one of the parties? At the house where the party is ... (79 words)

Once in a while I get strange white lumps on the head of my penis. They last for about a week, then fade away. I'm scared this could be an STD (I'm a virgin.)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - hey everyone can someone help me with this. Every once in a while (about every 6 months) I get these weird white lumps on and over the head of my penis, they're kinda like little corns and are REALLY irritating. They last for about a week then go away. I am a vir... (126 words)

I'm in love with my step brother. We didn't grow up up together and I didn't meet him till I was 20.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This seems weird but I think I'm in love with my X stepbrother. We didn't grow up together and didn't meet him till I was 20 and we only talked, at first, once a year on Christmas. My step dad died 6 years ago and miss him dearly!! We just started talking on the phone ... (118 words)

Should I give him time, or do I make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I like a shy guy right now and we've both told eachother we like eachother, but nothing has happened. I'm afraid he won't make a move .. should I make the first move and ask him out or should I give him time? ... (43 words)

I am hurt and confused because he told me he visited an ex who is in prison "for no reason."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in this relationship with this man I love so dearly. He just told me that he went to see an ex that is in prison. I asked why, and the only answer he gave was "No Reason". I am hurting and confused right now. What should I do?... (50 words)

He says he loves me, but what does he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm a 13 year old girl. This boy flirts with me.One time I was walking in the hallway and he was just saying like hey and stuff and he looked shy and nervous. When he found out a guy liked me and he thought I was going out with the guy, He was like to my friend Ashley '' You ... (133 words)

I'm a virgin and my boyfriend and I feel ready to have sex. Just a few questions.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I feel ready to have sex. Just a few questions..... Approximately how long will it hurt after we've had sex? (I'm a virgin) He's had sex before, and I don't know what position would be most comfortable. Should we stick with missionary? He's against birt... (90 words)

I have a sore bump on my labia, what can it be and how to get rid of it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - well i felt sore down low and i had like a bump on my vagina like on the lip it hurts when you touch it can this be serious?? my mum says it mite just be a spot with some puss inside but i want to no from u guys what shud i do to get rid of it?... (59 words)

How can I give my boyfriend really good head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - How can I give my boyfriend really good head? I've only done it once with another guy, and need ways to figure out how to make him feel good even though I can't deep throat. Thanks.... (40 words)

I'm a nice bloke and get on with girls very well but seem to be crap at chatting them up, what am I doing wrong??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Iam a nice bloke (even if I do say so myself) Ive got a fantastic friend who I love very much she is a girl and she see's me as a friend. Ive only ever had one serious relationship. I get on with girls very well but seem to be crap at chating them up. what am I doing ... (61 words)

I'm experimenting with my sexuality and my bf was first ok with me dating other men as well, but now he has changed his mind! Is it wrong of him to change the rules halfway through, or am I just being unreasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

27 December 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm bisexual and recently entered into a long distance relationship with a guy on the proviso that i be allowed to experiment with other guys because i have no sexual experience and am still in the middle of discovering who i am. At first he agreed, but then about three week... (147 words)