A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi,At the moment i really like a guy it the year above me! I'm in lower sixth(year 12) and hes in upper sixth(year 13) therefore we don't have any classes together. i just want to know what most people are thinking, and whether they think that i will have a chance with him. He's in quite a cool group whereas i'm not, is this going to get in the way? I wouldn't say i was ugly or a geek or anything, but do you think being in a younger year would effect it! I'd also like some tips on how i can get him to notice me as girlfriend material, he's noticed me but not in that way, he normally walks into a room as i'm messing around with my mates etc!!! I'm also slightly shy and don't want to walk up to him and start talking to him randomly!Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007): I know how you feel. This guy is older, more mature and alot of girls think he's hott. He only look at me and breathe my way when he's alone or not with his on/off "girlfriend". Sometimes the guy you like isn't the one for you. You more inlove or inlust with the idea of him and not him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007): In the end, nothing is more attractive than a confident woman. If you spend time practicing and working on this for yourself, you will feel good about yourself and people will notice.
While you work on this though, perhaps if you have a friend or acquaintance that is in the older grade - he/she could introduce you casually. Be really confident and above all be yourself. If he doesn't like this, his loss. But at least you will have tried.
Kim
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