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My Mother's dream is disturbing. What does it all mean?

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Question - (21 December 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *appybunny_xoxo writes:

I haven't talked to my crush for like 2 and 1/2 months.Well today my mom tells me that she had a nightmare.She told me that in her dream that my crush came to my house and that he wanted to talk to me but I wouldn't let him that I just kept on walking away.Then my mom tells me that in her also in her dream I was at the park and that my crush was with his friends and that he wanted to talk to me but again i said no.MY mom told me that in her dream that my crush was trying to kidnap me or stalk me.I just want to know why on earth would my mom dream about my crush. AND why on earth was my crush doing that in her dream? What does this dream mean?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008):

I think she's scared of you leaving her when you get married.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (22 December 2007):

birdynumnums agony auntHmmm. I suspect that she has observed you both and it might be the very first time that she is picturing you "leaving and getting married". Dreams don't have direct interpretations, they only apply to the person who has them and the situations that they find themselves in. I don't think that she has anything against your boyfriend, or that she doesn't like him. It's probably that your Mom just realized her little girl is growing up. She has been watching you having feelings for this boy and possibly feels a bit threatened, because she will have an empty nest soon, and your crush is a sign of that. Well, at least, that's what I see in her dream.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007):

Im sure it means nothing. I had a dream last night that I was in a house where poeple were being tortured and killed but I escaped. It didn't mean anything. I get the impression that you want it to mean something like that your "crush" will stalk you or give you attention.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007):

Relax dear, it means nothing. It has nothing to do with you. It may just be your mom's own insecurities about you growing up. You are becoming an adult now and you are going to start having boyfriends and perhaps just have other priorities. And maybe she fears a guy taking you away from her NOT because he is actually going to kidnap you but only because he is going to steal your heart away from her. Please relax.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (22 December 2007):

kenny agony auntIts quite possibe that your mum did dream about your crush, if she has been thinking about him alot lately, images and weird scenarios of him will come out in her subconscious thoughts. Not saying that your mum has a thing for him, maybe she has just been assessing him to see if he is good enough for you. Or another scenario is that she does not think he is good enough for you and was trying to tell you in a round about way that he is no good.

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