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We're friends, kind of ex's, and I'm very confused!

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Question - (19 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i've met this guy about 4 months ago. we hit it off really, really well. we talked on the phone everday. we hung out almost all the time. everything was wonderful and i was happy to have met him. i heard he tells his friends about me all the time. i met his family... all i really need to know is if i need to leave him alone.

we were together at one point,for about a week, then decided it's best if we remained as friends, because we've rushed into things. but we kept talking on the phone everyday, then when the next time we hung out, (which was about a week) i've made the mistake of sleeping with him. everything seemed fine after that, but then he started to hang out with this other girl i found out he had a crush on for 2 years. i was no doubt jealous. i didnt talk to him for about yet another week. then he called me and says he misses me. and if he "never dates me again, then something good will come out of it, like friendship, or something." then i decided to talk to him again. thinking to take things slow. we havent really been talking since though. i only hung out with him once, and only 2 phone calls. he doesnt really call me anymore, and asks me to call him. then i find out on this website, myspace, that he is now talking to his ex. im so confused by this. im not sure if he still has some feelings for me. or if everything just a fling. or if he really just wants to remain friends. my friends tell me to get him out of my life. he's player, and whatnot... but it's so hard for me. i have an idea what i should do, but i need some outside advice aswell. thank you for your time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2007):

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i agree. thanks

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A male reader, Samutsen Poland +, writes (20 December 2007):

Samutsen agony auntYour friends are right. Get this player out of your life please. Everything is wrong with him.

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