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36-40,
*bba
writes:My boyfriend keeps lying to me, there not really big lies but how do I know hes not lying about more serious things?? An example of one of his lies is he broke up with me a month ago and told me it was because he was going to America to play football, but the reason was that the relationship was getting to heavy for him and it took him to be drunk to tell me the truth. We're now together but he doesnt want to label me as his girlfriend!! Should i confront him and should i trust him??
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 Yeah dont trust him, my ex fell for this all the time and took back her ex several times, which all he did was use her for a week or two and leave. Rinse and repeat. And when he knew she was with me he would avoid me and when she was home alone or out on the town would attempt and sometimes succeded at getting her to kiss him when i wasnt around, when she was with me or trying to be.I didnt like this and if i would have had the chance he would have had his ass kicked. And she got mad when i said i didnt like this. And said he didnt mean anythng by it. And he had the nerve to lie to me when we i saw him recently. Stole some of my belongings as well he did. Let her borrow some movies and he took them from her home during one of his trying to get her to cheat stages.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 I wouldn't trust him. I agree with Leanne.Od and the anonymous poster. You're better off without him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007): He's getting sex without commitment. It doesn't matter what he calls it or why he says he wants it that way, the end result is still as crystal-clear as ever.
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (19 December 2007):
 he wants all the fun with no strings or committments, just like th majority of young guys. i think you are better off out of the relationship because you are going t obe second guessing everything he tells you. when he says he's going out with friends, you'll be paranoid, and inevitably it will destroy the relationship in the end anyway. unless you can put his dishonesty out of your mind and not let it back in then you can't prevent it. fair enough, he admitted the real reason for the break up but if it takes him 10+ pints to admit that things are too heavy, then how likely is it that he'd tell you certain imperfections that could lead to him breaking up with you again.
best of luck.
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