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30-35,
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writes:theres a new guy at my school, really nice and flirty hes got my msn. we flirt constantly online and then calm down a bit in school. now i really wanna go out with him and i think he wants to go out with me....our problem is he is a muslim...any ideas on what to do?????any answers would be greatly appreciated....x
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reader, leyan  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 Hi, I am a Muslim too, my brother who lives in the UK is dating an English Christian woman, most likely he is going to marry her, my parents and I only want for him to be happy, so if she is the one , then we couldn't be happier for him.Just talk to your friend and see his view and his family's view on this matter, you are too young now, but in talking about marriage a Muslim man can marry a Christan or Jewish woman, without the woman having to change her religion.Good luck.Message me if you want to talk or have other questions.Good Luck.
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reader, leonard j, Douglas  +, writes (19 December 2007):
Here in the Philippines if you marry a woman,you marry the whole family,and that's what you'll be doing if you marry a Muslim. A mixed Religious marriage never works-out. Should know been there did that,so i know where I'm coming from. So do keep that in mind before you two get involved too deeply,as you may be the one that gets hurt,us men can just walk away with a smile on our faces,and all you'll get out of the relationship is a swollen belly.
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (19 December 2007):
 I am a Muslim as I have said elsewhere and I do admit there might be cultural differences, but we all have differences of various kinds in our friendships and you see it here all over the place.
By the way, If you are strict Jew, Christian or Muslim you will always have cultural differences anyway.
What we percieve as cultural differences with Muslims, are actually differences of social and economic or national and in many cases political kind.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (19 December 2007):
 it is always difficult when different cultures and beliefs are involved. it should be straight forward but chances are his family won't approve of him seeing someone from a different religous background because you don't have the same beliefs etc, however if they are not strict muslims, they may accept it, but you need to tread carefuly and talk things through with him. ask him what he thinks, what his parents might say, and rememeber you are young, so it is likely nobody will approve because of your ages, but the only way to find out is to ask.
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