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writes:My girl friend and I dated for two years, It was a long distance relationship, but we really had a strong bond and did everything to make it work. One day she told she wasn't really feeling our relationship anymore and i think it was just because she was very overwhelmed and sure enough a week later her and another guy started talking and she has compeltey ignored me for a full week now, the last thing she ever told me was her worst fear was for me to be with another girl, I know she still loves me. My question is... How do I handle this? please help i am going through hell right now
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reader, nikkij  +, writes (21 December 2007):
 Right now just give her some time and space...let her clear her head to really see what she wants.
It is possible that she likes this guy alot and wants this relationship to work out, or she is trying to get over you (for whatever reason) and she is on the rebound.
Honestly though if you were in a relationship for two years there is no way she has completely forgotten about you...although there is no way of proving it...they say it takes half the time of the relationship to get completely get over it...
I would just wait...don't pressure her to talk to you. Maybe let her know that you are still here...see if she comes back. If she does then good on you...if not then sorry bro you might want to allow yourself to let go and move forward with your life.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (19 December 2007):
 i don't think she loves you, i think she is trying to get over you, or she already has and has started speaking to this guy because she sees it as though she can now. she might need something closer to home or easier.
i think you need to move on, it will be hard, but this is just one of life's learning curves, and in the end you will look back without regrets because it can make you stronger. i'm sure she never wanted to hurt you but at least she has been honest with you and not strung you along.
best of luck.
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