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writes:So I have been dating this amazing guy for 5 months and about a month ago things started getting rough. He said work was super stressful and he didn't have any time anymore. I tried really hard to respect him and give him his space but it got to where he wouldn't even text me. When he did have time off he spent it with other people alot of the time other girls that he was friends with. I wasn't jealous that they were girls but just that they got to spend time with him and I barely even got text. But we talked and he said he loved me and didn't want anyone else he was just super busy and didn't have time for me right now. I tried to be okay with this until one day when I drove to his house to suprise him by stopping by to say hi. there was a car parked out in front of his house. I found out it was a girls from work and so I messaged her and asked her if there was anything going on between them. She never answered but my guy broke up with me for messaging her. He said she was really scared because her crazy x read it and now he was threatening her and my guy. So now I lost my guy and Im not sure I believe his story even. but Im wondering if there is anything I can do to get him to forgive me for breaking his trust?
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reader, Rose Emmy  +, writes (30 May 2012):
 Well that not true love .its lust. if someone loves you he would spare any time for you, call you, text you.but the guy is cheating on you.its evident.as for me i would leave him alone matter how much i love him, someone who cares will com e along.so just move on , forget hiss stuff and all about him. ok.he is not worth your love
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (30 May 2012):
I honestly think you are being cheated on but that's just me. You cant really DO anything but just say that you are sorry and move on. Maybe he will eventually explain to you why he had his co-worker over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2012): Hes mad because he got caught. He can't text you but can have a girl over? What a liar!! Cut your losses and move on. He wasnt man enough to be honest with you.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (30 May 2012):
 You didn't do anything terribly wrong. You were trying to know the truth from a third party because your supposedly ex boyfriend was too busy to text you. He was the one who broke your trust because he told you he had no time yet he had time for his female friends. Either he was not really busy, or he does not value you as a girlfriend at all. Either way he is not amazing as you had described. I don't believe in his story either. How could her ex read that message? How could his crazy stalking suddenly all became your fault? If anything your ex should be the one asking for forgiveness. Never buy into that "too busy" excuse again.
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