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Archived questions from: 8 September, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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She's made me feel like I'm the crazy one, but she's lied, and pushed me away, and I just can't understand this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - this is a bit of an odd question, and i'm hoping someone will be able to help me in one way or another. i've posted on here a few times about the same thing cause something always felt a bit off to me, now i KNOW something is wrong. i've been dati...

Lesbian girlfriend too deep in the closet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - I've been in a lesbian relationship with my girlfriend for 14 months now, its actually a wonderful relationship but it has its problems. My gf and I are both in the closet about our relationship to coworkers and family. A couple of my friends know ...

My Dad is threatening me with the police

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - I got in a car wreck about 2 weeks ago...my dad is very mad at me. He has threatened to call the cops on me and lie and say that i stole his vehicle when i didn't. Well that is not what bothers me. He has also threatened to call the cops and get me ...

I need to know how to stop this reaction to seeing him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4624 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - Last month nearly two months I ended a short relationship with a guy and I had a problem that I posted a question on here. I used to feel sick when I looked at photos of him (it was a messy breakup) and I was worried that when I went back to college ...

Relationship dynamics: supportive vs. non supportive spouse/partner

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

8 September 2011 (? - I have observed many couples in my life and I am noticing more and more as I get older that in many relationships, there is an imbalance of how one person treats the other which causes tension, resentment, irritation, and disatisfaction. I'm also ...

ONE-ITIS.The unhealthy curse of devotion and attatchment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

8 September 2011 (M - One-itis Problem Anyway, your friendly neighborhood Walshie93 is here to talk about one-itis, because it seems to be cropping up a lot hese days, be it with relationships ending, just starting or casual flings. A number of posters ...

Why is my partner ringing his ex in the middle of the night?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - I have been with my partner for over 2 years and our wedding is booked. He owns a house with his ex and is in the process of selling it. She has been a nightmare through the whole thing and we have had to go to court and all sorts. Finally she is ...

My wife thinks I have a small penis!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

8 September 2011 (M - I have a troubling issue in my marriage. To get right to the point, it has to do with penis size and my wife's perception. I am about 5.75 by 5 around and I always thought fairly average. When my wife and I talk it is clear that she thinks ...

Who is the father of my baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - please help! Here are the facts: I stopped taking the pill birth control in april 2011 I have reguar periods and a pretty normal cycle. Last missed period: may 24. I found out I was pregnant: june 25 I cheated on my boyfriend on: june 5...

My boyfriend substituted me for my sister!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - Hi I just need advice on this thing that happened recently my boyfriend sent a text to my sister just out of the blue and says that he's liked her for a long time even before me and him got together and because my sister had a relationship at that ...

My bad attitude is pushing him away! How do I change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - I really upset my boyfriend, i always keep him awake at night, because i find it hard to sleep, so i keep nudging him to wake up and it really pisses him off, i also have this childish attitude when im upset, and i talk a lot, and ask him a lot of ...

Why did he tell me he liked the head massages I give him and then go get one elsewhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - Hi, I would like you aunts opinion on this please,and if i'm being silly and just over reacting. I have been in a relationship for over 7yrs with the same man, he always tells me how good he feels when he is with me,and how relaxed he is when i g...

Why am I attracted to someone else when I know I could never love anyone other than my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - Hey. simple situation where I would like an insight on my emotions. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half solid years. We are now living together. We have had our bumps and lows but we have always loved each other dearly. I love him and I...

Should I keep this baby? I've already had 2 abortions but I think I want to keep this one, but my boyfriend isnt supportive...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - hi everyone. I am in a big dilemma. I just found out that I am pregnant. The problem is that my boyfriend is not supportive at all. He actually says that he doesnt want a baby with me.. I have already had two abortions, the last one in february. I ...

How can I make my ex want me more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - So I have recently moved in with my ex which we also have a child together. We havnt been together in 3 years yet remained friends. The living situation was "friends only" and for financial reasons. Recently he started flirting with me more and we ...

Due to be married to a woman who thinks sex is only for reproduction! I don't know if I can deal with a life without sex....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

8 September 2011 (M - hello everyone. I had a chat with my fiance the other evening. I was concerned about our lack of sexual activities. I asked why she never gives oral no hand jobs without asking. And very little sex. When we do have sex i do all for her oral and ...

What should I do? I feel heartbroken and don’t know whether I am in the wrong or he is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - Please help me gain perspective on this I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend and I don’t live together, although he stays at my flat every night. For the most part, we are very happy together – have loads of fun times out and family times etc...

We both have partners but I really like him, am I living in a fantasy world or should I make a move on this guy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - I am in a relationship that is going nowhere. My partner, though a good father to our child is a non violent alcoholic whom is emotionally abusive. Though I love him, I don't believe I am in love with him anymore. A few months back I met a man ...

Should I call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - Hullo, my question is i dated a guy for a year and so who promised me marriage but i guess he realized he coudnt manage so slowly withdrew and eventually called off the relationship saying we should just be friends but he still kept on calling ...

I love her but she said there is nothing on her side, what should I do now? Is she just being shy and she actually does like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (M - hi friends and i am a student of 12th class well the problem is that i like a girl in my class since 6-7 months and most probably now started loving her so firstly she used to talk to me very frankly but from last 3-4 months she doesnt talk t...

Obviously interested, but avoids spending extra time with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - I met a girl a few months ago who works in close proximity to me, and I noticed that she'd always look at me in an admiring and adorable way. I too thought she was adorable, so I went up to her one day and we started talking. We did the whole ...

I love my cousin but he doesn't love me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - I went to my grandpa's funeral today and I saw my cousin who I've been in love with for 3 years. He and I got moments alone and finally, I asked him how he felt about me after a failed relationship 3 years ago. I told him how I felt and ended up ...

How do I ask fiance's dad and uncle to walk me down the aisle?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - Hello all. My fiance and I have been engaged for a few weeks now. I hope for a wedding in a year or so, after we're done with important events / work, etc.. My fiance's not very close with his dad. His father walked out on him, and has only ...

Am I being overly sensitive because he didn't say sorry for giving me a really bad cold?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - I'm casually seeing this guy...he is seeing a few other women - to make a long story short, my best friend is his sister and they live together. She thought he was coming down with a cold, so when we went out and I got him some cold medicine. He ...

He masturbated with my photos now he's avoiding me, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - I have a friend who has been first my coworker and then my friend for some time. He has been a big flirt, but had a girlfriend who dumped him 6 months ago. He has started to waste time with girls as a gigolo he says. He started flirting on me. ...

Facebook relationship status. Distant boyfriend. Post break-up issues.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. He used to be the sweetest guy and as soon as we god together he changed his relationship status on Facebook to In a Relationship, he would always come to see me, he would write sweet messages ...

What should I do to save our relationship? BF says he loves me more as a close friend than a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - So I'm feeling my bf is pulling away from me, I think he is just not that interested in me as he did before. We've been together for 8 months, and last week we talked about break up, he clearly wants to be real close friend if break up, like he ...

Am I wrong for taking my daughter away from this cheat or should I try and make it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

8 September 2011 (F - Long story short! I don't know if I can make my relationship work. I feel miserable!!! We have a daughter together she is 1 month and 1 week today, too be honest when I first found out I was pregnant I thought our relationship was going to change ...

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