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Archived questions from: 30 September, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He blanked me out first, so who is in the wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi people here is my problem I met a man at the beginning of the year who I really liked I thought he felt the same but he just wanted a fwb sort of thing so as I liked him that much I hoped it would turn into something more so that was that anyway ...

Why would a man do this when there are kids involved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - My babies daddy lied to me about being in a relationship with someone else. Then we slept together. When I found out about her, he still denied he was in a relationship until she told me directly. Now our whole friendship is shattered, he can't even ...

How can I tell him I want us to go to the beach alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months, we have been friends for years before this. The relationship is excellent and I really love him and I know he feels the same. 3 months ago P started his job and I started my placement year (he has fini...

He is afraid of committment! Is there a chance one day we might be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - my ex and I used to be best friends and then we decided to go out together. they were the best months until once he told me that he is afraid of commitment. he feels trapped when he is serious.at the same time he does not want to lose me. he didn't ...

I work hard, while he borrows money from me and then takes days off from work to watch sports!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - My partner pays maintenance for 1 child + ex. He’s a salesman so income varies. I just had to lend him money to replace his stolen phone because he couldn’t afford to, and then he also needed extra money to tide him over until his commissions were ...

Troublesome fantasies

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - I am 30 and feel really embarassed recently because i have these fantasies of sleeping with my sister(cousin). This makes me extremely worried when i face her and i am almost scared of talking to her. In the past i had expressed good feelings i had ...

Why am I treating this girl so badly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - Please can you help me.I have been with my partner for 2 years she was my soul mate my best friend and my lover, we had planned our life together, and I was going to ask her to marry me. I have had a very difficult 3 months, with work and my health, ...

How do I get my mom to let me visit my estranged grandparents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - So hey all aunts and uncles So.. I'm visiting my estranged grandma and grandpa, see I haven't seen them in 17-18 years...I'm 19 years old Like I'm nervous, I'm going to a town called flint its in Michigan. I vist them next week.. I'm so sc...

She recently added the ex as friends on facebook. Should I be jealous? Will it affect our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - My girl friend used to love some guy before we met but didn't start relationship.she said she only loved him because of peer influence and she was a fresh man student and alone.this was before 5 years.now they are friends on facebook and i don't ...

I'm in love and walking around on eggshells

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I really need some help here. I'm in love with the most amazing girl in the world but, I feel like I am walking on eggshells. It feels like I have to think before I even do anything, because the most random things, like falling asleep on skype and ...

My friend's brother hit on my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, my bestfriends brother is gay and he tried to tell me that my boyfriend let him feel on his body one day. And that pretty much that my boyfriend let him. At the time my he wasnt my boyfriend yet we was just talking for almost 6 months. I ...

Why do I have all of this jealousy and insecurity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi. I am currently in a relationship with this really awesome guy. We are really happy and its been almost 4 months that we have been together.( both of us divorced with two kids each ) I don't know how to handle how I feel. I feel jealous whenever ...

Should we even try to have a relationship with all the things going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - In September 2010 my best friend told me about a guy she had met through her boyfriend who is in the army and stationed in Texas. She lives in Iowa and I live in South Carolina. She told him about me and vice versa. We got each others phone numbers ...

I am in relationship stress over this situation. Does he really love me? Why did he ignore me for so long after my Mom died?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid it's me again now a senior in high school and that also means that I have more relationship stress. As you may know from my last questions I've been involved with my bestfriend/ now ex-boyfriend and just when I thought things coul...

Am I being emotionally abused? He is an alcoholic and uses manipulation and guilt to control me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - 22 years ago I fell in love with my high school sweetheart. After graduation we parted ways and I moved out of state. We reconnected last year on facebook and have been together ever since. He is an alcoholic and uses manipulation and guilt to cont...

We did break up a month ago. YET he still wants to flirt. What's up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - So its been over a month now, since my boyfriend and I broke up. But he still has feelings for me. I guess the reason he still feels close to me is that...just because we are now exes...we are still like best friends. I don't have a problem being ...

Should just keep him out of our lives. And deny access to his child? But is it the right thing to do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi i am in a situation with my baby's father apparently he's with someone else now and we just broke up last week. It hurts to know that he's with the one girl he cheated on me last weekend but i am just doing fine what i wanted to ask was i dont ...

Is he ready to call it quits? And can't tell me yet? should I continue down the same path and give him space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and I just can't figure out where our relationship is going and what it is that he wants. When we first started dating, things were so wonderful that I cannot even explain. We have so many things i...

He says he is falling in love with me but that he can't leave his family. How can I let go of him and end our work affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I need some advice. I am a teachers assistant at an elementary school. I have been working with the same man for the last three years. We are both married with 3 kids. We have formed a great friendship and seem like ideal mates for each other. W...

His sex drive is higher. I deny him probably 2 times a week, but how do I deal with him masturbating to porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I know this question has been posted a million times, but I was hoping for an answer on my specific situation: My boyfriend (he's 26 and I'm 23) have been together for about a year and a half, and have been living together for 10 months. Some...