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writes:So I have recently moved in with my ex which we also have a child together. We havnt been together in 3 years yet remained friends. The living situation was "friends only" and for financial reasons. Recently he started flirting with me more and we have slept together again occasionally. I still have feelings deep down for him and would like more. In the past when I have told him how I feel he has said that he loves me. But isn't inlove with me. Is there anything I can do to make him want me more then just friends? I don't really want to tell him how I feel because I dont want to make the situation akward.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (8 September 2011):
 There is no magic formula to make a guy fall in love with you. I think he cares for you and enjoys the availabilty of occassional-no-strings-attached sex.
If you were really caring for yourself and your child, you would move out and move on because the longer you continue this the harder it will be on you and the more confusing for your child. How will you feel when he starts dating someone, for example?
Good luck.
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