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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I about to get played AGAIN? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Please bear with me... I know this is long, but I DESPERATELY need your help! Well, I am having a little bit of boy trouble. Y'see I've been crushing on this boy since last year. But then I got over him because I thought that he was a stuck up s...

Feeling lost after we've stopped talking completely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - okay, so the query continues from here, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-dilemma-of-my-long-running-relationship.html i'm now trying to forget her. its been more than a week since we've communicated. but its becoming really hard now...

She saved herself for marriage, but we went too far! She's been crying for days!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - I was an arse. I've been with this woman for a year and she has been saving herself for marriage. Last week, she asked me to let her experience only a bit of myself and I impulsively took her. She hasn't stopped crying for days. She says she lov...

I've been waiting for 2 and a half years for my boyfriend to talk to me! Is he worth it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 years and a month. (Since I was 12, and now I'm 17.) After 2 and a half years together, he moved across the US from me. Before he left, everything in our relationship was GREAT! He was the perfect ...

My ex keeps saying OK to meet up, but she's never available. Is she genuinely busy or doesn't want to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4605 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - My ex and I broke up about a month ago or so and after a while apart I started getting all these mixed signals from her. We have to see each other a couple times a week due to something neither of us can avoid. She has been flirting with me...

I used her laptop to watch porn, and now she's mad at me. I don't understand the fuss!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - Hey there, I got in somewhat of a shocking fight today with my girlfriend, let me explain. First of all she found out that Ive watched porn on her laptop in her house when she was in class. That day I woke up and she was already at class, I ...

My brother is obsessed with his ex wife and I can't deal with helping him anymore! Do I write him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4605 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Hi there, I'm curious as to what everyone would do about this (if anything) My brother was divorced from his ex wife about 8 years ago. They have one daughter who is now 10 yrs old. The trouble: he is obsessed with her and it's making him sick...

I'm not emotionally or financially ready to move in with him, what should I say to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

28 September 2011 (?) - have been with my boyfriend for just over 8 months, he told me he loved me after 8 weeks (we had been family friends for years and very close friends for about 2 even when at different universities) Recently he moved out so for the past 2 and a...

Feeling angry all the time because I don't trust my boyfriend and these other people are getting in the way of our relationship...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Okay, firstly this is my question; I don't know what to do. In the very begining of my relatonship with my BF, if im being honest he wasnt the best and even he will say that now too. He never wanted to text a lot or see each other and he put th...

Should I have said something or should I have let it be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Hi Just would like an opinion on weather i over reacted or not to this, my boyfriend and i always say goodnite every nite. well tonite he was rather early and i just commented to him your early tonite it's not even dark yet then i said nite to him.w...

Am I overreacting? I have told her how uncomfortable it makes me feel but she says I can't tell her what to do....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - Hi all, Right been with my partner for 2 years and basically an old friend of hers from school found her on the dreaded facebook. He is a 17 year old guy from pakistan who is always with his older brother. Now my gf has alot of guys friend and ...

Was I just a 'work girlfriend'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Was I just the 'work girlfriend?' A new guy starting working at my office 5 months ago and I was assigned to work closely with him. We hit it off straight away but while I was professional but friendly because it was work and I didn't know him ...

If I leave it means moving back in with my parents and having no money with 2 young children, but I know he will never change if I stay.....what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been with my partner for 5 years and married for 2 months, we have two children together ages 1 and 2. He is in the army so when we got married i moved in with him, 3 hours drive away from my home, i gave up my home and to be near m...

Have I just forgotten what is fair? I feel like we are not married even though we have been for 3 years!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Forgotten what normal is... My second Husband and I have been married for three years together for four we have a two year old son between us and each have two other children from previous marriages. Our relationship has been utter turmoil, w...

What do you think hes thinking? Should I just wait for him to get in contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4606 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - i met this guy and we hit it off right away, we have an undeniable spark and it was him that pointed this out at the start. he called me beautiful and we had amazing laughs together. weve now been seeing each other for around a month and every time ...

Why is he acting this way when I mention a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - So I'm sleeping with a guy that at first was only once week a week and now it has turned into 3-5 days a week. He has told me he wants nothing serious, but lately he has been wanting to meet my family, me to meet his friends, and do things like go ...

It's been a week now. I don't know how to proceed with her. Should I tell her '' No''? or say more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - So I have this friend I have known for two years now. Several months after meeting she confessed that she liked me as "more than a friend", thought I was sexy, smart, wonderful and said she wanted to date me. I was very flattered but am not ...

Unexpected! I just don't want this....What can I do or say to get her to stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - Hey there everyone I need some help on my relationship. My GF and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. Everything has been going great we moved in together in April of this year and everything was perfect. But today she approched me after work and ...