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Archived questions from: 1 September, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I am fed up with his paranoia!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - I have been going out my bf for 5 months now and he has started to say he loves me n getting quite clingy. He is very paranoid about me talking to other guys or when I'm away out and we have had a couple of fights about it already. I am on the fence ...

She doesn't treat her boyfriend right, do I warn her she might lose him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - Here's the situation, I probably shouldn't meddle, but I'm wondering if I should give my friend a few "words of wisdom" about how she treats her new boyfriend. Now I know, let them sort it out on their own. But maybe a few words of advice would ...

I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me, but don't know for sure, and I have no really way of finding out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

1 September 2011 (M) - I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me, but don't know for sure, and I have no really way of finding out. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months. She is Korean, speaks korean, and I do not. Well the reason I suspect she is c...

Stay or go after months of lies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - I'm still in a dilemma about my ex, help! To sum up, after being continually accused of chatting to men, cheating etc (did none of this) and noticing changed in his behaviour and times he was going out i discovered he had been going out to dan...

Is my boyfriend ever going to marry me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - dear all,i am with my current bf for nearly 5yrs. We experienced many ups and downs, of course nearly broke up and patch back again. We ever argued over minor or major issues like married or some other disagreemts. He is very much aware of me...

Should I tell her why she's no longer my best friend, or just allow time and distance to do that naturally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - In a couple days I am seeing someone who used to be my bestest friend, until she did something very unforgivable! (Too long to explain what happened). Anyways, I haven't spoken to her since this happened and she seems to think things are okay with ...

She shared something personal with friends and is now making me the bad guy for telling her that bothered me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

1 September 2011 (M) - Hi all. Ive been with a girl for 7 months, it's only a short time but it's the best relationship I've had, I can truley say I love this girl.. But over the past 3 months she's changing her attitude, and is acting very different to the gir...

My family won't approve my American girlfriend, I'm leaving them for her, is this a correct decision?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

1 September 2011 (M) - For the last 22 months, I have been involved in LDR with a beautiful American girl and unfortunately she is blind since birth. I met her there when I was visiting the USA for three months in October 2009. It took her 5 days to accept me as bo...

Am I being immature for being annoyed by finding a male friend of hers asleep on her sofa?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

1 September 2011 (M) - I am a 51 year old male that have been seeing a gal for a few months. I am not really the jealous type. I work graveyard shift and had been pretty much staying with my girlfriend every day. I came home for lunch at two a.m. to find a male friend of ...

Family fighting. No independence. I am not ready for marriage. How can I improve this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4632 days ago

1 September 2011 (M) - Hi.! I m 26yr old avg person in every respect. We r the family of 4, my mom, dad and a youger brother. I m doing a readymade garment business in partnership with my dad and uncle. Business is doing fine. My dad is a hard working or I could say a wo...

Why am I sabotaging a good thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - Hi I'm currently in a long term relationship,over 5yrs,problem is i often take things that are said the wrong way or so i'm told i do and sometimes i do tend to get annoyed and lash out verbally.then when iv'e settled down i apologize and i'm ok,t...

Something's bothering me.. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - I really like this guy... We hung out twice and ended up sleeping together. I hadn't had sex in a while and figured we'd hang out and eventually go our separate ways. I've gotten closer to this guy and I really like him. I wish we waited to have ...

I did Snoop. Did I read too much into this? What's the next step to rectify the situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

1 September 2011 (M) - I read my girlfriend's journal to find that she has nothing but scathing personal thoughts about me: "I don't love him anymore...I don't respect him," and I also found her transcribing conversations with an ex-bf whom I think she may have stayed ...

I love a guy who can't give me security

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4633 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - hello, thank you for taking the time to help me.. I met this guy a long time ago, maybe more than four years now, we were in love, really in love, he is three years older than me and back then I was a very naive girl, I didn't know whait's like to ...

I just want to be there for my girlfriend but she is shutting me out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - my girlfriend shuts me out completely when she's upset and i don't know if i can handle it anymore. last week her grandpa had a stroke and wound up in the hospital, and rather than telling me the truth about it at first, she told me she just had a ...

Can trust him after I found texts and photos of a bikini model on his phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - Hello all. I have posted before but feel like I can explain a little better now that I have calmed down and found some new answers. I am a 22 yr old female. I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year. When we first started close, I...