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Archived questions from: 3 September, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

After 7 years he wants a break from us? How am I supposed to take this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i been togther for 7 years we also have have a 5 year old little girl... He tells me all the time that he loves me and wants to be with me but within the last week he tells me that he needs a break ... I think i might be takein this...

What are my options for the future, in view of how he speaks to me and lies to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I have been trying for the past 2 years to cope with the knowledge that my husband had been deceiving me for 5 years by joining internet dating sites and cheating on me. My dilemma this time is the other night he was telling me that we dont tak...

We had sex while I have my period, is he disgusted with me now? And can I get pregnant when I was on my period?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I had unprotected sex with my guy during the first day of my period .he's very afraid of blood and got turned of in the middle of it and then started acting weird. i didn't want to do it either but we are on a long dist. relationship and i feel he's ...

He ignores me and lied to me, yet I want him! Why does he keep me around if not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - i have been talking to a guy for a year and some months, before in the beginning he was so caring and sweet , always wanting to see me, and of course i was kind of stand off ish to him. when i decieded i really cared deeply for him, he turned ...

Should I confront his mother or just try and grow up right away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - so me and my boyfriend have been daiting for almost 2 years and we have had sex only once. the other day we were going to again but the night before he told me that his mom didn't want it to happen because she found me immature. she doesnt want it ...

The dilemma of my long-running relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

3 September 2011 (M) - I'm 21 year old computers student. i've been in a pretty serious relationship for ever four years now. things were so serious that our parents knew each other, and although they didn't talk to us, they know that we both are going to marry some ...

How do I find out if my boyfriend's family dislikes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - Ok I,m a 19 year old Damsel in Distress who needs a little help! I don't think My boyfriends family likes me. They never actually said it but I don't think they do I may just be paranoid but I think myself i,m a strange girl. Like I,m really shy a...

I do care about her but I feel she is being somewhat silly if she thinks our relationship can sustain without intimacy and sex. Am I being selfish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

3 September 2011 (M) - I am a 33 year old, frustrated male and I am really hoping for some impartial advice. I have been with my girlfriend for just over eighteen months. We currently live apart but I know that she is eager for me to move in with her and her little g...

Why do I feel so unhappy and unfulfilled?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I have a good life so why an I so unhappy? I have a great boyfriend, a nice home, great family and friends but I keep dwelling on the things I don't have. Like a better paying job, my Own house, marriage.... So I guess its more money I want. B...

Is she retaliating or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (M) - Question here for the ladies. i went on a couple of dates a year ago with a girl from my building and i found out she was crushing on me for months before i asked her out and she told me she was reffering to me as the hot guy on the third floor. i...

How long do people chat online before they actually meet eachother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (?) - How long do people chat online before they actually meet each other? I'm new to this online dating thing. A guy contacted me on a dating website and we've had a good correspondence going for about 2 weeks now. After the 2nd exchange with hi...

Should I worry that my boyfriend wants to go to work related events without me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - Hi all. My bf of two years is not keen on me going to work do's with him, this includes parties at people's houses. Halloween last year there was one at someone's house and although he didnt go, he made it clear that he did not want me to go. He ...

An old bf is back in my life but now he's ignoring me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I dated this guy in high school. I broke up with him cause we were leaving for college and I heard that he was heartbroken for years thereafter. And although I moved to another city after graduation, I always thought about him for all these ...

My partners friend hates me..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - My bf says we're still together but he left. He went to another state and says he just wants to work all the time so he can give my son and I everything we want but he is with a friend of his who hates my guts and has already hacked into his fb 3 ...

Should we work things out or does my wanting to see other people pretty much mean the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - ok, so me and my ex (but we are supposed to be working on things) have been together for almost 4 yrs and have 2 yr old together.....but my thing is he has cheated 3 times and the 4th time he messed around it was not really cheating he broke up with ...

I'm in an awkward position and I don't know what to do..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - ok so theres this guy we will call him iggy pop. then theres a guy named....button. so iggy pop asks me out and i said yes we kissed and stuff but then we both had other stuff to do(such as school,after school events, and so on) and we havent hu...

My 'friend' used me, what do I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - ok guys this is long but any opinions would be gratefully recieved. ive known a guy 3 years and ive always had strong feelings for him but we've always stayed friends-he always come up with some reason like he thinks of me like a sister or somethin...

Should I contact him or let things be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - There was a guy I knew for four years. I sort of liked him because he was always there for me when I needed it. He never judged me or anyone by their exterior and I feel like there was something there for me. I was super insecure so I let him go and ...

Should I get back in contact or let things be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

My husbands friends are being too forward..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I've been with my husband for 6 years now and have been running into this issue a lot lately where his friends, the majority of them, flirt like crazy with me. When I say flirt I mean things like the body language, the "eyes" the sexual innuendo ...

I want children but my partner doesn't & his ex is involved

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner for 3 years. He asked me to marry him, so we had the discussion about having kids, finances, religion etc. The sticking point was children – he said he thinks on balance doesn’t want (he has 2 already with ex) but that ...

I've cheated and she forgave me, but why can't I forgive her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (M) - my wife had one afair, not a one night stand, after i had cheated for 6 years and while she was pregnant. We are suppose to put all this behind us but what i didnt tell you is ive been lying to my wife, telling her im going to the bank, then i go to ...

I know it's wrong what he's doing but what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - My fiance cheated on me to have a 3 some with men, and he had a bunch of text messages, emails.. he made up profiles for sex ( for both men and women) hes a liar! but he confuses me, makes me think im wrong when i feel so badly in my heart that i am ...

We're just friends but my partner thinks differently, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I am 39 and have a male friend that I had since I was 11 that every few years we get back in touch. I spend my entire life practically up my boyfriend's a$*, but I'm happy. Actually people consider us the perfect couple because we are a couple t...

Someone teach my boyfriend how to kiss!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months and I am his first girlfriend even though he is 19. My big problem is he is a terrible kisser and I just can't get past it. Help?...

How can I get the spark back and get him to notice me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - ive been seing my boyfriend now for over a year and things have started to really fizzle out,we met last summer after never meeting but talking to each other for a few days,instantly i fell for him,we just got on so well and after a day we started ...