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Archived questions from: 20 September, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I wasting my time with this woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (M) - I met a woman 3 months ago on a dating site. It has been a very intense relationship whereby I've not seen much of her and have been regularly dumped by text! I don't even know where she lives - she's like an MI5 agent - she reckons she's had ...

Long distance relationship: I think I screwed it up out of nothing!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4612 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. It has been one year since we met and also almost one year of the relationship! He is the best guy I could ever dream of being with.. he is just perfect.. we are very happy together. He is working at a place wh...

I just can't seem to get over this memory!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I am haunted with feeling humiliated and shamed from some drunken behavior that I did several years ago. Throughout high school I was always told I was fat and ugly and most people really didn't like me, I was pretty smart and obnoxious about it ...

Why am I still pining for my army lover though he treats me like dirt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Ive been involved with a guy for 9 months and Im going out of my mind with frustration. To say I fell for him hook, line and sinker would be an understatement.I was totally and utterly in love with him. However, we couldnt properly be together ...

How can this man hurt me with his lies and act like he's done nothing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I have been with this guy for 3yrs and i thought everything was going well. He was involved in a horrible motorcycle accident were he became dependent on me for 4months. i had just met this man one week before, i decided to help him and quickly ...

My mother can't afford the wedding, my b/f's family can but won't help!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Me and my fiance are planning our wedding. I've always wanted to get married in a cathedral, and have a ball-gown style dress, and of course marry the man of my dreams. Unfortunately...my mom who would be fronting the bill, can't afford how much the ...

Our relationship hit a roadblock and we aren't sure why...any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

20 September 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, my boyfriend and i (he's about to be twenty-one, and i'm about to be twenty) have been dating off and on for about five months now. the first time we broke up, it wasn't because either one of us wanted to at all; there were just ...

He says he is attracted to me, but wants nothing else from me! Help me understand this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - hi i have this friend and we get on really well,we do have arguments alot because he says he likes me and that he's attracted to me but doesnt want nothing else with me. i dont understand him. please help ...

Would a very very jealous boyfriend go so far as to try and make you fall out with your friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Hi please could somebody give me some advice? Would a very very jealous boyfriend go so far as to try and make you fall out with your friends. what i mean is that my boyfriend who is extremeley jealous of anyone i speak to has told me that my sons ...

At night, my girlfriend scares me over the phone by talking about ghosts, how should I cope with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

20 September 2011 (M) - I am in SDR with girl who lives in the same city between we have distance of 15 KMs between us. It’s been almost two years since we together. We meet over the weekend and keep it going through phone . For the last two weeks, my girlfriend has p...

I know we would make such a good couple. How can I stop feeling like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I have a problem, one thats not easily solved unfortunately. I have feelings for my boyfriend's best friend and my close friends boyfriend. (there the same boy.) I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months. When we first go...

What's wrong with my husband? Is he insecure?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - my husband used to rebuke girls(when he was 24-26) who would reject him or didnt consider him as gods gift to women,calling them the C word or sexually abusing some girl whom he fancied and she didnt return the gesture.then he would hit on gir...

I think he should have told me at the beginning that he had bad credit and had been blacklisted!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I started dating a man I met via internet 2 years ago. All seemed fine to start with. He told me once he has no credit cards because he doesn’t want any. Fair enough. He rented his flat, didn’t own property or have a mortgage. He bought a new ...

How can I change so I can trust him again and not be so insecure about the way I look?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Hello im stuck I basically have trust issues with my boyfriend we have been going out for nearly 7 months now and at the begining of the relationship I saw that he had asked a girl to meet up with him and that he had missed there conversations ...

My sister-in-law is driving me nuts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4612 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I live with my sister in law. My husband is currently out of the country. She wants to sit all day and will not do anything to help in the house, if you ask her, she tells her mother, who in turn calls me and tells me to stop bothering her as she is ...

Is this guy just being a pure jerk at this point?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4612 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I personally got annoyed today when this guy that I was interested in a little had approached me a few weeks ago. He told me his name and I told him mine, and after that I didn't speak to him again, but I did see him around the campus. His frien...

How can I get the intimacy back in our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

20 September 2011 (M) - Me and my fiancée used to have a very close, fun, sexual, intimate relationship. 5 months ago she got pregnant and since then its like everything has come to a hault. She never wants to be intimate, we aren't very talkitive anymore, the sex almost ...

I love him, but it's getting complicated...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I am in a big dilema and need your help guys. I am in a relationship with a guy from last 3 years. Things were fine until his family came into the picture. I have been introduced to his family and at first, they liked me. Now things ...

On/Off/On/Off - What is her problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

20 September 2011 (M) - i was with my girlfriend for two years, lived together for one. i loved her so much. well she started cheating on me and left me for another guy a few months back, and it crushed me. i eventually moved on and started seeing another girl. well ...

He finds a way to let me know that the way I do things is incorrect, and his family's way is the correct way!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I am 32 years old married for two years as of December 2011. I have been dealing with a situation where I have been basically going back and forth with my husband for the last two months everytime he brings up a topic that his aunt or mother has ...

Don't think I can take all the lies much longer. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Hello :( My boyfriend keeps lying about silly little things and it's making me lose trust in him, I'll list some examples. He is very close to his ex(I have no problem with it) and I saw his emails to her last month where she was complaining abou...

He forgot my birthday and I am going to forget his. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I've been this guy for about 4yrs. The past year has been nonstop fighting between us because he's constantly screwing up but for some reason, I always stay. I'm not even sure if I love him anymore, and most of the time, I absolutely can't stand him ...