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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am still getting mixed signals from my best friend.I tried telling him to back off and leave me alone but that didn't work since he gets full on and will almost stalk someone until that person has forgiven him. When I want to talk to him I can't, without being looked at funny by his on and off girlfriend, since they know I have loved him for a year or so.He has a girlfriend they been going out for a while and are rocky and I'm getting blamed by his gf because I hang around with him a lot.This whole situation is just messy and upsetting, here I am stuck between a rock and my best friend who I'm in love with and all I want to do is be his friend and talk to him but then he will randomly ignore me or start flirting like crazyWhat should I do :( xx
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reader, jp23  +, writes (23 May 2011):
 Get a new guy best friend, open your options ok, you dont have to be stuck to one friend. When you are doing that you can also look for a boyfriend. You need to keep your mind ocupied. ignore him more; why are you going after this guy thats tooken? Or trying to make an attachment with him, of a friendship. idk, I wouldn't make drama in my life in that way. I mean there are guys all around you lol that are guy, just look for them. You could find a guy that doesn't have a girlfirnd and isn't tied down to a guy or girl. Find a single guy. Your puting to much time into this guy, thats all I am saying. Whach were your time is going, bec "your future is now". Your life only happens once; so dont waste to much time because the years will faid away. Get out there and find some new friends and date a few guys too. Spread out your options, I guess is what I am saying
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