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writes:my boyfriend of 3 years has agreed to let his ex-wife move back in with him. she left him and the kids and moved country. he gave up his job to raise the kids. she now wants back into the house and he has agreed for the kids sake to share the house. she came back six months ago and lasted five weeks. she stayed in his house then and because of that i dumped him. when she left he came back to me declaring his love and that she was gone for good. i know nothing happened between them. now she is back again and this time its for good, her boyfriend dumped her.i dumped my boyfriend again and have told him as long as she's in the house our seven month son wont be going out to his house. he's upset about this but always puts her wishes first for the sake of their kids. our child doesnt seem to get a look in. should i let him continue to see our son even tho to me he comes a long way down his list of prioities?
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (8 March 2011):
 I think you should move in with your boyfriend and take your rightful place by his side and in his bed. You belong there with him now, she does not. She gave up that right. I bet she will leave on her own in a matter of weeks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI was concerned if he should see our son!!! I got a reply for him to move in with me. More complicated than that. His kids are 5 & 7 and because there has been so much upheavel he wont move from his house.
I offered that when i go back to work he could mind our son three days a week at my house and could bring the kids to mine after school. It would be a ten min drive for him to collect the kids and bring them back to his own house when I'd get in from work at 6.
His response was that the kids wouldn't be coming to mine, she will not be collecting them or having them after school in the house without him being there for the few hours until he got home. The only way he'll mind our son is if I allow him to take my son, to his house and to his wife. What should I do??? I would prefer to stick nails into my eyes that have that woman anywhere near my child.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThings are more complicated than than. The kids are only five & seven and because they have had so much up-heval in their lives he is not prepared to take them out of their home or leave them behind. He wants to provide some sort of stability for them. Wife on the other hand, because she is boyfriendless yet again, want he kids near her.
I offered him the chance, when i go back to work to mind our child for thee days a week and could bring the other kids to my house. He doesn't want to do this, but will agree to minding our child in house with his wife and his other kids.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Why does he not move in with you, its sounds logical and less complicated. He could rent out the house to the ex-wife!
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