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My boyfriend may be into transexuals, based on a few clues, what should I do??

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Question - (5 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *2DafuCinT writes:

THiS iS VERY iMPORTANT!!!!!!! i NEED SOMEONES HElP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -My boyfriend is very much straight,i believe.Hes such a manly man.but over these passed 5 months ive experienced things that make me think hes somewhat bisexual or maybe has a certain fetish? clue #1..there was a voicemail he had unheard on his cell phone that said "what are you talking about,i just took that picture" and it sounded like a shemale of transexual.i called the #back and he or she was very nice tellin me that he/she is a model and my boyfriend has a fetish.she asked me if he told me.i said no.so she told me that he has a thing for older women.she said she was 38.hes 29.clue #2-i was goin thru his old phone and a text was sent to some # and it said "do you dress like a female?" and the reply was "not all the way,im feminine tho".he told me it was a bisexual girl,thats why he asked her that.clue#3-the 1st week he had his computer set up in my room after he moved in,i looked in his history and it said "orlandoescorts.com/transexuals.first he told me that he got his computer from some guy and it allready had alot of history on it and then he said that it had a virus and he gave it back to the guy to fix and he got it back ,then it had that in the history.clue #3-i saw a random text from a # sayin "do you remember me?" so i called it and told the girl that im his girlfriend..she said she met him on the chatline and he was looking for someone to have anal sex with.WHATS GOiNG ON????? CAN ANYONE HElP ME OUT?!?!??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011):

either see a relationship counselor or leave. probably leave. you're in for a mess. don't let yourself internalize this and turn it into something about you. this guy is mixed up and, more importantly, seems to have rather too much leeway in how he interprets fidelity. take care of yourself girl.

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A male reader, phoenix69 Canada +, writes (5 March 2011):

phoenix69 agony auntHello he may have never done anything sexual but it deffinetly sounds like he really wants to. The things he is doing is cheating my bf did the same thing so I ended it.You need someone who is open and honest you are the only one he should be thinking about he could have came to you if he really cared. Perhaps you and he should take a break tell him to go find himself before itsa too late. Hope this helps keep your chin up..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011):

This guy is clearly not satisfied with the sex life so he's going around to spice things up. This is probably a result of lack of communication, mainly on his part. Cause if he has an issue, he should bring it to your attention instead of going to pursue things elsewhere. Id certainly question his faithfulness now and this is a definite possible deal breaker as it there are signs he is immature with his lack of communication and also his perhaps sexual preference, which is contrary to yours. Good luck on this.

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A male reader, aashishy India +, writes (5 March 2011):

Your boyfriend is cheating on you... Forget his transexuality...I think it had be better if you moved on!!

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